Many parents report that their children are timid and don't know what to do. Children's introversion and timidity are often caused by factors such as excessive parental protection, too little contact with the outside world and psychological shadow. Therefore, parents should encourage their children to explore new things, solve problems by themselves, gain experience from practice, let them get in touch with the external environment, play with children of the same age, and encourage them to express their ideas in front of them. ?

? What should boys do if they are introverted and timid?

1, accept and understand the child's personality, and guide the child to be a confident person.

Because personality itself has no flaws, and there is no distinction between good and bad. Therefore, even if you meet an introverted child, you should calmly accept and tolerate the child's personality, convince him that there is nothing wrong with introversion, and build up self-confidence for the child, and everything will be met on the road. In the future. Don't worry about it.

2. Exercise children.

Let children do what they can. Such as borrowing things, asking questions, etc. Children may be afraid to go at first because of cowardice. This requires encouraging children, not blaming them.

3. Talk to your children more and improve their expressive ability.

In daily life, we should communicate with our children more, let them enjoy the fun of expression, and communicate with their parents what they want to say and think, instead of hiding everything in their hearts and treating them as friends. ? Children will naturally treat you as friends.

4. Guide children to make more friends.

There will be better communication between children of the same age, and children's emotional communication will be better released. In the process of interacting with children and playing games, children's ability to communicate with the outside world can naturally be cultivated.

5. Let children vent their emotions in time.

Don't think that children are happy and won't have negative emotions. In fact, children will still have their own unhappy emotions. At this time, parents should let their children vent and don't take it to heart, otherwise it will affect their mental health.

6. Change yourself first, and then influence your children.

If parents are also introverts, children's personality will be influenced by their parents to a greater or lesser extent. Therefore, if you are an introverted mother and want to raise an extroverted child, you should start from yourself first, so as to influence the child.

? Harm of introverted timid boys;

1. will make children more insecure and unable to communicate with others.

In fact, children's timidity outside is also a sign of their lack of confidence. They may even be not good at communicating with others because of cowardice and other reasons.

2. Easily autistic, lack of friends

Generally speaking, children who have this kind of behavior are often on the passive side when interacting with others. Because they are ashamed to express themselves and can't let others know their true feelings.