As a woman, the simplest pursuit in her life is: to have food and clothing all her life, to meet someone who likes to look at her eyes, to hold hands with him, and to grow old with her son.
The former is simple, as long as anyone can do it, unless this person is lazy and has nothing to pursue. Through hard-working hands, whether rich or poor, we can always make ourselves comfortable.
It's a difficult problem to judge people only, but Ming Lan said that judging people needs to look at the lowest point. My understanding is that people are sincere, independent and knowledgeable.
I think these three are indispensable, just like the right time, the right place and people.
Ming Lan met three men in her life, but the last one who stayed with her was Gu Tingye. He didn't have a good reputation in the capital: he was nostalgic for the land of fireworks. In the eyes of everyone, he was still a ruffian rogue and had two children with another woman.
Even so, Gu Tingye has the characteristics mentioned by Ming Lan, so the two people are beautiful after marriage.
Qi Heng also pursued Ming Lan. At first, Ming Lan thought that their identities were very different, and this feeling was an extravagant hope for Ming Lan.
In the face of Qi Heng's ardent pursuit, Ming Lan wavered and began to gamble for his love! As a result, Ming Lan lost, Ming Lan lost in the lowest place where Qi Heng was not seen clearly, and the lowest place of Qi Heng was not sincere enough, which was a bit hypocritical!
When talking with Gu Tingye, Qi Heng said: I want to wait until I get fame, and then I will propose marriage to Shengjia. What Ming Lan needs is fame and fortune? No, it's a sincere confession. It's not so much that Qi Heng missed it, but rather hypocrisy, which may be influenced by his living environment.
At that time, Qi Heng chose to gain fame because of Ming Lan and the situation at that time. He needed to gain fame to consolidate his family's influence in Beijing.
There is He Hongwen, whose lowest point is his mother. In modern society, we make friends with Ma Baonan, and have no opinions of our own. His mother gives way to the east, but he is afraid to go west.
Even if Ming Lan is lucky enough to marry him, his married life will not be much happier. Sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing for people to be too obedient.
Therefore, Gu Tingye said: I have admired you for a long time, and I am willing to hire you as my wife, and I will entrust you with a long life.
actually, this confession is a bit elegant. In fact, what I like best is: who am I among men and who are you among women?
In modern society, such confession is not used, but practical action, which can prove everything. In fact, this sentence can be used not only in marriage, but also in making friends and working.
There is not such a saying, people will see you for a long time. If you want to see a person clearly, just give it time.
everyone has a psychology. It's okay to suffer once, but it's not okay to suffer all the time. Often together * * * things, a lazy fraud, you have no opinion, time is long, people around you will stay away from such people.
Any act of being smart will eventually hurt yourself. To be a man, you should stick to the lowest point, and so should you look at people.