[INFP] Those unknown sides

01 Extremely sensitive to sounds

Easily frightened by sounds, easily frightened by people, sometimes I am always afraid that adults will suddenly criticize me or speak loudly. This is caused by being in an uneasy environment for a long time. I once suspected that I had a neurasthenia. I usually need a quiet environment to stay in, so that I can think better. An environment that is too noisy will only make me upset and make me a little irritable and restless.

02 Inwardly, there is a tendency to hurt oneself, hurt others, and be violent

Here we can also combine the first point and analyze why INFP-T has extreme thoughts and why in his heart There is a tendency for self-harm and violence because INFP-T is too kind. Sometimes when others hurt themselves, they are unwilling to release their aggression. This will lead to the target of attack changing from others to themselves, so There will be self-harm and violent tendencies. The result of long-term depression is that the heart will become distorted and lead to depression. To survive better, you must release your aggression appropriately (when you are not at fault) and don't let yourself feel too wronged. This is what I have learned recently, and I feel that it is really much better this way. Improve your personal sense of edge! Tell others that you are not easy to bully.

03 I have lived a humble and low-key life, which makes people think I am pretending

Infp-t type does not like to be public and does not like to seek a sense of existence. They will deny themselves and sometimes feel that they are not what they are. None. When encountering compliments from others, I feel very embarrassed and cannot bear to be praised (inner thoughts: Really? Someone actually complimented me? Does she really mean it? I’m not that great, am I?!). I underestimate my ability, but if I do it, it will surprise people, and people who are not very good will think that I am covering up and pretending to be low-key.

04 I don’t have much patience with children

I don’t know if other INFP-Ts are like this. I’m so weird. I can be very patient with things, such as painting, embroidery, etc. I don't feel impatient at all about things that require patience. Maybe it's because I'm interested in these things. However, when I face a child, I will keep my distance from her and won't take the initiative to play with her, but inexplicably I have a little affinity with children, and children will like to play with me. In fact, I don’t like children very much (of course, I don’t show it). As long as she cries, makes a fuss, or talks loudly, within a short while, she will make me upset and I will almost collapse inside. I will also take advantage of her. There's no way, maybe I don't like making noises and find it troublesome. I know it's not good for me to do this, but I can't change it.

05 knows how to pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger

I usually look very dull and don’t like to talk, making people feel stupid. Then people relax their vigilance towards me, but I actually see everything with my eyes. I have a strong ability to observe people by looking at people's expressions and words to judge her emotions, attitude, and the motivation behind what she said, or I can judge who she is roughly through these. When looking at the essence of a person through the surface, I can basically take precautions in advance if she poses a threat to my own personal interests. Often she (Green Tea) wants to harm me and even if she wants to deceive me, she cannot deceive me, and she becomes desperate. , I will also tear her apart.