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Am I doing the right thing? If you have any suggestions, please let me know, thank you

Your excellence:

1.

You can ask here "How are you doing in the world?"

——You know how to self-reflect and ask questions when you don’t understand or are unsure. This is good.

2.

You can not make friends randomly, not enter the circle of ghosts, and not say bad things randomly.

——You already have your own concept of right and wrong. That's no problem.

3.

You can teach your classmates questions without being arrogant or impetuous.

——Be patient and open-minded. That's no problem.

4.

The “tough” students in the class are friendly to you.

——You have won his respect with your achievements, actions and words. Such people don't hate you, and neither do others. This is good.

Summary:

You are an introverted girl who rarely talks. There is no need to force yourself to imitate those cheerful people, and there is no need to change your personality. And whether your situation is good or bad, it is normal, and there is no problem in how you behave.

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Suggestions:

1.

It’s not about having many friends, but having Refined.

——If there are big differences in interests and personalities, there is no need to "force" friends, just maintain a normal relationship with classmates.

2.

For introverts, it is enough to have a few close friends with good character.

——You can help each other if you have difficulties; you can form a group for group activities to avoid being alone.

(You need to chat with them every day to maintain the relationship).

3.

Junior high school is a mixed bag, but I don’t make many friends. Make a few more friends in high school.

——You have to continue to study hard. My experience from a few years ago is for your reference.

If you do well in the first and second grades of junior high school, your junior high school will take the initiative to contact you to sign up for the elite class. After signing the contract, you can enter the elite class with a few points less in the high school entrance examination. People with similar grades to you will be placed in elite classes by the school. There are all kinds of students who like writing, Olympiads, calligraphy, musical instruments, games, watching TV dramas, etc. It is much easier to find friends than in junior high school, there are far fewer open and secret fights, and the overall quality of the students is much higher.

(When the time comes, find a few more classmates with similar interests and similar personalities to chat, and they will naturally become friends.)

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Disadvantages:

1.

The problem description you wrote is well divided into paragraphs and the meaning is clear, but it is complicated and your logical ability needs to be improved.

I changed your "problem description", you can compare it (I am not a master, I just try to help you, I hope it can help you):

I He is introverted and has good grades, but he only has a few "relatively close" friends. I don’t like communicating with classmates (because we don’t have the same topic, how can we talk about beauty and prose together?). My classmates rarely take the initiative to play with me, but they often ask me questions. My classmates who loved to bully others and had a bad temper never bullied me, and even helped me pick up my pencil case when I dropped it. The teacher's attitude towards me was lukewarm (he mainly wanted me to attend cram school with him).

I will help my classmates when I can ask for help; I will not be arrogant or impetuous in helping others; I will respond normally when asked by my classmates; I will not speak ill of others; I will not care what others say about me behind my back; I will not participate in struggles within the class. ;Do not contact scheming people.

I have strong writing skills. Almost all the essays and compositions I wrote were read aloud by teachers in several classes, and even several times by the whole grade.

Is my current situation normal? Am I treating people the right way? Any suggestions? I hope you will give me some advice.

Logical sequence:

My current situation → My attitude → My writing situation (you are off topic here) → My problem