I have also encountered a similar situation, and I can really understand your feelings. A good friend who has been with me for 30 years changed her life's destiny because of my help and encouragement. , she is now a corporate executive, and she is like a fish in water. On the surface, she seems to be quite good to me. My legs are very bad. In order to accompany her to exercise every day, I endured the pain in my legs and insisted on accompanying her. I couldn't walk anymore, so I sat next to her and waited for her to exercise with her. Once, on the way back from exercising with her, I I accidentally hit someone, and she accompanied me twice to deal with the traffic accident. The last time she heard me say that I needed to sign an agreement to deal with the traffic accident, she immediately refused to accompany me to deal with the traffic accident, fearing that it would implicate her! Her behavior completely chilled my heart! I'm really sad. It's true that a long journey can tell a horse's strength, but time can tell a person's heart! Since then, I have understood a truth. No matter how much you give to others, others may not necessarily be willing to pay for you. Don’t think that her status in your heart is supreme. You also have the same lofty status in her heart. Don’t think that because you care about her, , you have wronged yourself in order to cater to her, because she may not be able to see your efforts, and she may not care! Someone who has been dating for 30 years and whom you are kind to can be so heartless. You can imagine how unpredictable people are! From then on, I saw clearly that I would never take her to heart again. Gradually, I no longer felt the pain. I understood that it was my wishful contribution. I should not expect anything in return from others. I could only use a Treat others with a normal heart! That way there won’t be any sadness! I hope my experience can help you!