I have a friend named Xiao Liu

who walks around the Jianghu with Xiao Liu's emotional intelligence

I think

his life is in danger

Some time ago, we ate hot pot together

After eating hot pot, our heads would sweat. It's normal that the hair will beat

, isn't it?

Xiao Liu was pointing at other people's hair and laughing

Do people like this think they are humorous?

Why do some people always think that

to make friends, we must hurt each other

We must poke out each other's weaknesses

I think it is humorous and can quickly narrow the distance between us

I once met a friend who pointed to a girl's face and said:

You can cut off your double eyelids, lengthen your nose and get an eyebrow tattoo, and you will be more beautiful.

People like this are usually called outspoken.

Their common phrase is: I am outspoken, so don't mind.

That's a weakness in others. Why do you want to expose it?

For example, the boy you have a crush on is in love.

He will come over and say, Oh, it's very sad.

For example, if someone is a little rich,

He will laugh at others: hi, Xiao Pang, why do you still eat so fat?

For example, when someone sings, it may be a little out of tune.

He just says, Wow, everybody cover your ears quickly.

?

Then don't listen, then get out.

You'll make people unable to hold the microphone for life.

Actually, Friends are not based on mutual loss.

Mutual loss may be a game.

If you are both good players, you can play this game.

If you can play this kind of mutual loss game,

First, you are really familiar with each other.

Second, you really know his weakness. What is his pain point?

Put this. Open, then you can play

Third, you two allow each other to play this kind of joke

If there are none of these three points

Really don't play the game of mutual loss

You can't afford to play

Even if you know each other very well, Making jokes that hurt each other will also hurt each other.

If you don't make friends, you won't be humorous.

If you don't be humorous, you can be gentle, you can be considerate.

You can care about people carefully, you can be sincere.

Why do you have to be humorous?

who put pressure on you to be humorous?

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