Recently, Xiaoyu's school clubs began to recruit new students, such as chess club and animation club. There are also some very tall ones, such as science and technology associations and psychological associations.

He asked me if I wanted to join the Association for Science and Technology. He said that if I do this, I should be able to learn something, which may be useful for my future work.

I said ok, just make up your mind.

Who knows, he suddenly replied to me and said, forget it, not particularly interested.

Then, he told me another thing.

He said that when he was a freshman, he used to run WeChat with a sophomore. He did a good job, and all the seniors appreciated him. This time, I specially recommended it to the college student union minister, and promised that "as long as you go, you will definitely reuse it." I don't know why, he hesitated in the face of such a rare opportunity.

"I know that working in the student union can increase my ability, but I'm really not interested in this. The reason why freshmen did micro-signals with seniors last semester was just because of a whim. After doing it several times, I was completely uninterested. This time I also rejected the kindness of my seniors and gave up the opportunity to go to the student union. I don't know why, but I didn't feel relaxed after I put it down, but I was a little lost. Should I choose what I am interested in, or is it helpful for my future work? "

My junior said "not interested" several times in succession, so I asked him, what are you interested in? He prevaricated for a long time without saying why. Finally, I helped him sum up a point. I said it's not that you're not interested, but that you don't last long.

"You mean I don't know how to persist after working for three minutes?" Xiaoyu asked.

"yes." I said: "You obviously do a good job in WeChat push, but after doing it for a while, you feel that you are not interested, so you will not do it. The senior thinks you have potential, recommends you to the student union and gives you a chance to exercise, but you feel uninterested and don't want to go. Everything you do is a whim, and it takes a long time to choose to give up. Is it not long? "

Xiaoyu was silent for a long time, and sent me such a message half an hour later. He said, "I finally know what my problem is. I should have thought of it a long time ago. Three minutes of heat has always been a flaw in my character. It turned out that not being interested was just an excuse I used to comfort myself. "

2.

Many times, we don't lack interest in something, but lack the persistence of interest in it.

Not long ago, my best friend clamored for losing weight, dragged me to the gym to get a membership card, and specially found a coach in Shuai Shuai to guide her to exercise, and asked me to supervise her. I can see that she is seriously interested in losing weight. She spent a lot of money and swore a poison oath. She should lose weight, but the result is still unsatisfactory. Not only has she not lost weight, but she has gained weight, which really makes people laugh and cry.

It turns out that my best friend didn't go back on his word for a month. She gave herself various reasons, such as working too hard, being old and not having enough physical strength, and having a stomachache during her period. At first, I went to the gym to do aerobic exercise every day, plus running for 40 minutes. Later, I changed it to the next day, then I went there twice a week, and then I just wanted to go.

I mean, if you keep doing this, your tuition will be in vain.

She lolled on the sofa and replied disapprovingly, "Oh, forget it. I have been rushing to watch Korean dramas recently, so I have no time to go to the gym. I'm not interested in it now. "

Look, it's another person who uses disinterest as an excuse.

I grabbed a feather duster and tried to hit her. She screamed and said, I just asked you to supervise, not to hit me.

"It's you." I said, "We agreed to lose weight, and we agreed to lose weight into a lightning bolt. Now we are busy eating and sleeping, and the gods can't save you! "

In fact, what I'm not interested in is laziness, that is, I can't persist, so I refuse, so I find a bunch of reasons to prevaricate myself, perfunctory things, and finally feel that everything is so suitable.

3.

Interest is really important. Shakespeare once said that knowledge can only benefit from its own interests. So I have always believed Einstein's sentence "Interest is the best teacher".

However, what's the use of being interested in what you are interested in but not sticking to it?

I think of my cousin's broad interests when he was young. At home, he was arranged to learn musical instruments, Go and painting. He was interested in everything, but in the end he learned nothing.

He and I studied musical instruments almost at the same time, except that I studied dulcimer and he studied electronic organ.

In those days, it was a luxury to invite teachers to teach at home. Because tutoring is very expensive, I always remind myself that I must study hard and don't waste my parents' efforts.

Every summer vacation, other people's children fly kites and hide-and-seek in the park, and I practice the piano at home; Other people's children travel all over the country during holidays, and I go to competitions and exams; Other children's childhood was carefree and carefree, but mine was immersed in sweat to learn music theory and piano sound.

You must think that I am particularly interested in dulcimer, so I sacrificed my whole childhood and locked myself in the dark to practice. But you are wrong. I have no special affection for this instrument. What I want to learn most is actually the pipa. But for various reasons, I finally made a mistake and didn't do it.

As for my cousin, he learned his favorite violin at first, but he gave up after less than three months. Because he found the violin difficult, he kept pressing the strings with his hands behind his back all day, and his wrist cramped in less than an hour. So he said, I'm not interested in this thing anymore.

I watched him drop his violin and two strings broke. Later, he began to learn the electronic organ. I did practice hard for a while, but I really didn't practice for long.

At that time, I was busy taking part in various large-scale competitions, and I practiced my piano skills in my room boring every day. My cousin often comes to my house to watch me play the piano. Maybe he doesn't understand. He always frowned while listening and asked me, "Sister, is it interesting to practice the piano?" Tired and laborious. "I said," that's not what you said when you first learned the violin. "

Cousin is always like this, everything is three minutes hot. Even after I became fascinated with Go and painting, I still failed to learn it thoroughly and accurately. The whole person is too impetuous to settle down and do a good job. It was not until many years later, when he saw that I kept going on stage to receive the prize, and the certificates and trophies were all over the table, that he said to me with a gloomy face, "Sister, I really envy you." Your time is not wasted. You see, your sweat turned into glittering gold, which stung my eyes. "

4.

We always like to attribute laziness and laziness to the degree of not being interested in something, openly avoiding things that could have honed our minds, and preferring to let our youth die with a full stomach rather than continue our enthusiasm and lead a wonderful life.

In the final analysis, it is because the willpower is too weak, perseverance, perseverance, so let it go, and finally let it go.

A friend once told me that she would be confused in stages. I asked her to find something that interests her and stick to it, which can effectively alleviate her confusion, but she shook her head and said, "I really can't think of anything that interests me." It seems that nothing I can do can last long. "

Like my cousin, she took many talent courses when she was a child, but whether it was calligraphy or dance, she could never form a continuous stimulus to keep her fresh. So later, she also had problems with dating.

I have changed many boyfriends back and forth, and none of them can make her qualitative. She also said that she likes novelty. Once a relationship tends to be stable or dull, she will feel vulgar, and then there is no way to continue.

"I have always adhered to the concept of happy-go-lucky and always have a dispensable attitude towards people and things. Get together when you come, and disperse when you go. " She said.

Suddenly I feel that such a person is a little scary and sad. I can't find anything I like in my life. Life is like a stagnant pool without a ripple. Lazy, idle, while drifting, while looking for a place to rest assured, can never be detached.

People in China said: People can't make friends without addiction, because they have no feelings. This sentence is not unreasonable. In other words, if a person doesn't even have a hobby, it is impossible for such a person to be close to him, because his feelings are too shallow and persistent, and it is difficult to produce sincere and deep feelings. In other words, such people don't last long and change their minds easily.

So, have you ever wondered why your career failed and your feelings were frustrated?

You missed too much beauty because you were not interested, but did you do something that really interested you? Did you catch someone who really interests you?

It's one thing to have a temporary interest in one thing, but it's another to carry out what you are interested in.

Think about it.