In spring, on a warm afternoon, I walked alone on the boulevard of CUHK campus, and my heart was so quiet. With the slow pace, there is a faint joy. Think back to the first semester of freshman year. The original vivid life of college students: there are joys and sorrows, the courage of family members, the sadness of sinking into the sea, the happiness of gathering together and the loneliness of being alone.
University is an infinitely creative space, where we can forge ahead, be high-spirited, study happily and enjoy a positive and meaningful life.
University study life is rich and colorful, and we can freely choose any kind of study method and lifestyle. Some people choose not to listen to things outside the window, just read sage books, while others choose to relax their studies. Go to the society to exercise yourself; Some people even forget their studies in an obscure corner, looking for a temporary happiness-the first kind of people, called bookworms, are harmful to their own minds, and they can't find the taste of happiness at the same time. The second kind of people, more realistic, are young eagles who don't know their fledgling wings and are eager to fly. The third person's mind is empty and only sees the appearance of happiness. They don't understand what true happiness is.
How can it be called "learning and being happy"? We should study hard. Think of learning as a way to thirst for knowledge. The means to enrich yourself is not an end, not to cope with exams. The quality of study does not lie in the exam results, nor in whether you can get a scholarship, but in whether you have made progress through study, learned a lot of knowledge and enriched an empty soul. You can make yourself stronger little by little. Happiness will come naturally. For everyone, the starting point is the same and the future is different, so there is no need to compare learning horizontally, as long as you can say to yourself, "I tried my best." I have no regrets.
I remember a doctor studying in the United States told me: "Learning is learning and remembering, in order to learn real skills and cultivate one's own morality." In his eyes, learning is not about learning with a utilitarian mentality. The so-called grades and appraisals are only accessories in the learning achievements. They are only a means to encourage the style of study, not an end. If you let what you want get ahead. Then learning will lose its fun and people will get tired of it sooner or later. This state of passive learning. At our present level, of course, it is impossible for a doctor to "see through the world of mortals", but he asked us to ask ourselves: "What do we think of learning? Are we happy in our study? " We are young and full of vigor and vitality, and there are many things in life that can make us happy, but many peers blindly pursue happiness, ignoring the cultivation of learning ability and the improvement of their own quality. Such happiness is short-lived, empty and even humble. After happiness, there are more regrets than some memories. In fact, in my opinion, you can find a lot of happiness in your study, making it hard and full, more valuable, and thus more graded. It didn't float on the water. It is a kind of inner satisfaction. Take learning as a happy thing and live a carefree life. Isn't life wonderful? Each of us has our own goals. In the process of striving for our goals, our hearts are stronger, and we have no time to think too much about right and wrong. Don't worry too much about life, and the memories in the future are sweet. For us, after intensive study, listening to music, singing, playing ball games and participating in class activities will make life more fulfilling and happier.
Learn happiness, change learning attitude, correct learning motivation, grasp every minute of life, and go all out to realize our dreams. What will be displayed in front of you will be a vast ocean, which will make the fish shallow and an infinite description, and let the eagle hit the sky directly.
Believe that our future is not a dream!
In the face of failure and frustration, laugh it off as optimism and self-confidence, and then the courage to rally. In the face of misunderstanding and hatred, it is philosophy to laugh it off as calm and tolerant, and then keep it true. In the face of praise and encouragement, it is a kind of modesty, a kind of sobriety, a kind of continuous progress and a kind of strength. In the face of troubles and worries, it is a kind of peace and relief to laugh it off and then try to resolve it. This is a realm. Failure and frustration are temporary, as long as you dare to smile, misunderstanding and hatred are temporary, as long as you are optimistic, praise and encouragement are temporary, as long as you are not addicted to dreams, troubles and worries are temporary, as long as you are not affected by it! The sea is vast, and there is a struggle. You are a hero if you don't exclude the vast sea of people, the impermanence of people's hearts, and you are not intimidated by difficulties and hardships! Rain and wind are coming, and spring flowers are falling. Looking out from the railing, the sun always rises and falls after the storm, with clouds rolling and clouds relaxing, sails hanging high, mid-stream hitting the water and stopping flying boats. The other side of success is ahead!
3. Speech under the national flag
At first glance, the process of success is like a dark tunnel with no end in sight. For example, senior three students can't finish their homework every day, and they don't get enough sleep. Many people have to "burn the midnight oil" every day and work hard between "two points and one line" every day ... everything is printed in the copier. Don't forget that the sun is new Brand-new, the most beautiful state of mind!
The new sun, isn't this a hope? Seeing hope every day is like seeing the dawn in the dark. Isn't this a kind of happiness? Yes, the heavy burden almost crushed us, and the high expectations nailed us tightly to the ground, but perhaps the heaviest burden is also a symbol of the fullness of life.
Nietzsche said that people who suffer have no right to be pessimistic, so we don't have to smile at victory, but in the face of temporary difficulties, we must smile and we will smile with our hearts.
Buried in the journey to success, we must really "bury" it. We need to rest and calm down these days. Only by maintaining a state of "peace of mind like water" can we put into the final sprint.
It's like driving to our destination The scenery along the way is beautiful and attractive, but you'd better not involve too much energy for them, but focus on the destination. If you can't help jumping out of the car to enjoy the temporary beauty, the car will drive away, maybe you will see another car, maybe you will finally reach your destination, but that's not the right time for your life.
Life has a special mission at a specific stage. Learning stage is an important step to achieve life goals. If you miss this opportunity, you will regret it, so be cruel. Girls should temporarily leave those beautiful clothes and time-wasting dresses, boys should leave attractive comic books and computer games, and let go of the unreachable "green apple" love! Don't pick autumn fruits in summer. It's a pity to pick it, but it's not sweet. You can't taste the joy of harvest until the harvest season!
Put aside the troubles unrelated to progress, look up at the sky and look at the world with your heart, because the sun is always new.
Gently say to yourself: "Without me, there is a person in the world who will appreciate this beautiful sun." It is such a state of mind that you always keep the wonderful things for yourself!
In spring, birds are singing and flowers are fragrant, and the breeze is blowing; In summer, flowers bloom and fall, butterflies fly; In autumn, the sky is high and the clouds are light, and the red leaves are like fire; In winter, the wind is biting and the snow is white. Whether it is cold or hot, the sun rises as usual in spring, summer, autumn and winter. ...
Satisfied people will always be happy, and dissatisfied people will always make progress. Few people can know how much effort it takes to realize their dreams. We can only keep moving, moving, moving. 10,000 years is too long, and we seize the day!
Seize today when you are at a loss; Seize today, when you are depressed; Seize today, when you are lazy, seize today, when you still have dreams; The sun is new every day, and life is full of hope. Start now, seize every moment and don't hesitate!
In a complex society, people need understanding, friendship and sincerity. The Book of Songs says, "Let it sing and ask for its friendly voice." Even birds sing to find friends, let alone people!
However, some people gang up, run amok, use each other, and build their friendship on the basis of so-called buddies and self-interest ... these can't stand the test of time! On the way to make friends, some people walk very easily. This is because they adhere to the principle of making friends, that is, they are willing to help others and generous to others with the same ambition as Taoism.
The unity of ambition and Tao means that only when friends have the same ambition can they learn from each other and advance on the same road. Li Bai and Du Fu are both great poets of their time. They met in Luoyang and have known each other for a long time, so they roamed the famous mountains in Sichuan together. Du Fu was attracted by Li Bai's elegant demeanor and talent, but he was also worried about his sharp-edged attitude and arrogance. So, I gave him friendly advice: "Who is the hero who drinks crazy songs and has an empty life?" Li Bai also attached great importance to Du Fu's friendship. When they shook hands with tears, they decided to meet again: "When will Shimen Road open again?" Today, their brotherhood is still a much-told story. Now some people are only loyal to others, but they don't care about their own ambitions. They may even be punished for a moment of anger, and as a result, they don't even have real friends! Why bother?
Generous help means selflessly and enthusiastically helping people who are in trouble or at fault, and being gentle and friendly with others! The ancients said: "I can't make people happy with spring breeze, I can't water people with summer rain, and I will be poor!" " "A young man lost his foot and thought he would never see anyone again. He was silent all day. At this time, sincere friends extended a helping hand to him and influenced his cold heart. Extending a hand of friendship not only helps others, but also gains friendship. Why not?
Being generous to others means treating people or things around you with a broad mind like the sea. This is an upright man's demeanor, a temperament far from home, and a style of being able to punt in the belly of a prime minister, which also contains the connotation of not doing to others what you don't want others to do. Making friends with this mentality is just to make room for other people's mistakes in your heart, but it has fulfilled your own personality charm. Isn't it just a step back?
Ba Jin said: "Friendship is a bright light in life. Without it, there is no glory of survival. " Without it, life will not blossom and bear fruit. "Indeed, friendship can add joy and courage to a person's life, and can make people brainstorm without being lonely. But it's important to see how you choose friends and how to establish and develop friendships!
Now some students, with a group of so-called buddies, eat and drink Lazar from time to time and fight. This is something that schools and students can't tolerate, and the consequences can only be tasted by themselves! I also hope that everyone will take a warning and make good friends instead of bad friends! Establish and develop true friendship!
It is the principle of making friends with like-minded, ready to help others and generous to others. Only on the basis of this principle can we win sincere friendship and have fun!
Under the blue sky and blue sea, a silver ship sailed through the wind and waves. A line of sailors stood motionless on the deck, between the sea and the sky. This is the style of a sailor-calmness in calm, calmness in stormy waves, and maturity after the storm. When you are in adversity, will you still remember the lyrics: in the rain, this pain is nothing, dry your tears, don't ask, at least we still have dreams.
The mid-term exam quietly passed away in the tense and busy figure of the students, but it left various feelings in our hearts: either because of a little sense of accomplishment or even pride, or because of the frustration in the shadow of the exam, or even swearing to take the new exam, and so on. In short, some people are happy, some people are miserable, and some people work hard.
The sailor told us not to be fooled by peace. Calm may be a precursor to a storm, but calm does not mean that there are no underwater reefs. The old man said: be careful to sail for thousands of years. So don't be blindly optimistic about the success of an exam, you can't be perfect. You may know nothing, you may be careless, even without these, you can get full marks, and the method will still be poor. If you are arrogant, the undercurrent will set off huge waves, the reef will turn into explosives, and failure is only a matter of time. Therefore, we should be kind to the analysis and summary after each exam, constantly reflect on ourselves, find problems and take the initiative to improve. Please don't say success easily before reaching the other side of the ideal.
The sailor told us not to give in to the wind and waves. The stormy waves are not terrible. If you are familiar with its temper, you can master the way to overcome it. Just as dark clouds can't cover the sun, we must firmly believe that the stormy waves will eventually pass, after all, when it is calm, it is mostly. As the saying goes: victory or defeat is a common occurrence in military strategists, not to mention that we have to go through countless exams since childhood. Save your strength and be fully prepared before the exam; Go ahead in the examination room and go all out; Although the victory ending is gratifying, the failure ending is more significant. The pain of failure is the driving force for growth. Even if you fall a hundred times, you must get up for the 101st time. The lesson of failure is the nourishment of growth. I realize that this is just a mountainside that life climbs, and I'm still on the road. We should use rich knowledge and experience to shoot live ammunition for future battles.
Sailors also told us how to see rainbows without experiencing wind and rain. Only through the baptism of countless storms, repeated experiments and continuous discovery of loopholes and defects can we master the skills of identifying undercurrents and reefs and grow into real sailors and sails. Thanks for the exam, which has set up a springboard for the success of our life; Thanks to the exam, it paved the way for us to climb the peak. From the exam, we experienced failure, pain and success, and also got the opportunity to temper, reflect and sublimate ourselves. Thanks to No.1 Middle School, a pure land full of competition, it gives us the only way to enrich and improve ourselves to overcome the big waves in the future-wisdom. With a wise, pious and enthusiastic heart, I am actively involved in life, study and work, instead of passively escaping from this world or being a wild crane in the clouds. In the face of scores and rankings, win without arrogance and lose with grace; Don't be surprised by humiliation in the face of glory and humiliation. We are still young, we still have dreams, we will not give up easily, we will be like bullets, once we attack, we will go all out. In the storm, this pain is nothing. When the new sunrise comes, we will break into butterflies and fly freely in the world we yearn for. ...
Finally, I want to give a sentence from Mr. Bing Xin, a literary master, to every classmate who works hard like a sailor: "People only admire her brilliance as a flower of success now! However, at the beginning, her buds were soaked with tears of struggle and scattered with blood and rain of sacrifice. Therefore, if we fail, we don't have to regret it, because that success is a star that we can't pick with all our efforts. If we blindly complain about others and regret complaining, it will be a failure, because that kind of success is a treasure that we bend down to pick up but don't bend down to pick up. "
Spring has quietly come to us, the spring breeze gently blows the flowers red, and the spring rain quietly moistens the leaves. We are as vibrant as red flowers and green leaves. Who ever thought who let the spring breeze and spring rain moisten us silently?
Who cooked a delicious breakfast for us when we got up in a hurry in the morning? When we hurried out of the house with our schoolbags on our backs, whose figure lingered at the window and looked around? When we returned to the farm with a tired body, who had cooked the bath water for us? Who quietly put a glass of milk at the corner of the table when we were studying late into the night? What kind of person can do so much without asking for anything in return? It's mom.
Since childhood, my mother has always been the closest and favorite person around us, asking questions, knowing the cold and knowing the heat. Before we could express ourselves clearly, my mother took pains to teach us English. When we were unable to protect ourselves, my mother used her broad and selfless love to shelter us from the wind and rain without hesitation; When we thought we were going to get rid of her shelter when we grew up, mother looked at us silently and carefree; When we are happy, my mother smiles at us with bright eyes; When we are sad, my mother knows that she can't help us, but she is still sad with us ... My mother has done too much for us, but she never asks for anything in return. What a generous and selfless love it is!
Since ancient times, many scholars have greatly exaggerated the greatness of Feng's maternal love, which has given us something we can't forget. We get far more from it than we pay, learn to be tolerant, understand, be broad and think for others, but what have we done for our mother? Do we just accept my mother's free love with peace of mind? Shouldn't we do something to make mom happy and proud?
The beautiful May has quietly arrived, and the air is filled with fragrance. In this warm season, the eternal theme of May is Mother's Day. What should we do for our mother on this ordinary and special day?
Mom doesn't want gorgeous and expensive jewelry or expensive gifts. The best gift for her is ourselves. Perhaps just yesterday, a budding carnation, a clean and tidy tablecloth and an innocent smile made her feel gratified. Because-children grow up and know how to love their mothers. This is telling mom: mom, I love you!
5. Sunshine is a language.
In the morning, sunshine talks to trees in the clearest and brightest language. The green leaves trembled with excitement at once, and the whole body was bright, showing off on the branches like a foil forged by gold. The sunshine talked with the flowers on the grass, and the flowers immediately looked up, and the melancholy petals curled up quickly spread out, like students listening to the teachings.
Our school is a symbol of sunshine. It is a "sunshine building" full of vitality. We are flowers waiting for sunshine to smile and shine, and we are a group of energetic sunshine students.
However, sometimes on sunny days, we don't pay attention to the sunshine; The shining sunshine is sometimes like an orator who speaks to the public, and we don't understand it, just like every plan arranged by the school, we can't fully understand it; Some students don't understand the reasonable adjustment made by the school to the weekend time. Facing the language of sunshine, we seem to be full of doubts and incomprehension.
But this time we were wrong. As we all know, the pleasant sound of sunshine is the sunrise after dark, the spring after severe cold and the dusk before dark. At these times, sunshine will tell you the joy of reunion, the warmth of friendship and the success after many failures in emotional language. Sunshine has been caring for every grass and tree in every way, trying to face this lovely creature with the brightest and brightest smile.
In the face of this small change in school weekend time, do students still adapt? Do you have any questions about the school arrangement? I think most students on campus should be very much in favor of this move. How eager we are to go home on Friday at the thought of reuniting with our parents whom we haven't seen for many days. Thinking of the previous regulations of staying in school on weekends and Fridays, and seeing that students can go home happily with their parents after school that day, how can we not feel a strong anxious to return when facing the empty classrooms and campuses in front of us? Now the third year of senior high school has entered the critical period of senior high school review, and the sleep quality of the students living on campus is directly related to the learning efficiency of the next day. Therefore, in view of these two factors, the school listened to the opinions from all sides, made such a decision cautiously, and made every effort to coordinate with the bus company to break the convention of leaving on Friday and adjust the departure time to Sunday. This decision will greatly improve the learning efficiency of boarding students and day students. Come to think of it, didn't we have a good time these two days? Yesterday's evening self-study was as orderly as usual, which also made a good transition for the next two weeks' study. The only worrying thing is, how should we treat Friday's study course? Are you too excited to attend class, "being in Cao Cao's heart is in Han", or keep a calm heart and seriously grasp every 45 minutes that belongs to us? Let's take practical actions to give the school, parents and ourselves a satisfactory answer!
We are like hard-working gold diggers, grasping the language rhythm of sunshine from the flashing spots in poplar leaves; Like simple farmers, we stick our fingers in the soft soil and feel the warmth of language. In the dialogue with sunshine, we feel bright, warm and exciting.
School is a ray of sunshine, a language, an understandable language.
7. Self-confidence-create your own foundation
Napoleon Hill, the founder of successful science, said: "Self-confidence is the only channel for human beings to use and control the infinite wisdom of the universe, the foundation of all miracles, and the birthplace of all mysterious miracles that cannot be analyzed by scientific laws." Orison marden also said such an intriguing remark: "If we analyze the personality materials of those outstanding people, we will see that they have a common feature: before they start to do things, they always fully believe in their abilities and eliminate all difficulties and obstacles until victory!"
Self-confidence does promote a person's success to a great extent, which can be seen from the entrepreneurial history of many people. Self-confidence can save people from difficulties, let people see the light of success in the dark and give people the motivation to struggle. Perhaps it can be said: "With self-confidence, half the battle is won."
Similarly, two hard-working people and confident people always spend their working hours in a more relaxed way: when they finish the task well, they will think that it is because they have strength, and when they encounter an impossible task, they will think that the task itself may be too difficult. People who lack self-confidence will attribute success to good luck and regard failure as their own incompetence. Because of this small psychological difference, although they spend almost the same amount of time and energy, the more confident one tends to gain more.
How many scientists at home and abroad, especially inventors, are not full of confidence in their own projects? Repeated failures will only inspire their fighting spirit again and again-they think that the more failures, the closer they are to success. However, self-confidence will not be attached to people for no reason. People must first have real talent and knowledge, and then they will have real self-confidence and regard it as an extremely useful motivation. Empty and confident, that's just self-righteousness. This so-called "self-confidence" can not only push people forward, but also cause harm to people.
Wang Xiaoshan, an online commentator, once said, "If there is nothing real except confidence, there is only one future-death, and it is ugly to die." This sentence sounds a bit excessive, but in fact, if you only have confidence, it is really very dangerous.
Similarly, self-confidence is not enough in our study. Self-confidence should be combined with hard work. It is often seen that some students walk into the examination room confidently without a trace of nervousness during the examination. But after the exam, some of these students scored quite high, while others were ashamed to meet people. This seemingly unreasonable thing is actually very simple: one of these students is very confident and hardworking; One is self-confidence, but not hard work. These two kinds of students seem to be full of confidence to take the exam, but because of the different accumulation of knowledge at ordinary times, the consequences are completely different.
Therefore, as a person, we should first be a person full of classics, and then we should be confident. Because self-confidence is just an empty force, if you want to succeed, you have to attach self-confidence to the machinery that burns self-confidence and let it play its due role.
8. Helping others is the foundation of happiness.
When a little girl passed a meadow, she saw a butterfly was stabbed by a thorn, so she carefully pulled out the thorn for it and let it fly to nature. Later, in order to repay her kindness, the butterfly turned into a fairy and said to the little girl, "Please make a wish! I will make it come true. " The little girl thought for a moment and said, "I hope to be happy." So the fairy whispered a few words in her ear and flew away. Later, the little girl really lived happily all her life. The secret of happiness is to help the people around you as much as you can.
In March, some students bravely participated in a series of activities to offer love, and they also worked hard. In recent years, as always, the social work team of our school regularly visited the nursing homes and children's welfare homes in Cheng 'ou, cleaning and weeding them, delivering meals to the elderly and children, performing programs for them and playing together. Although we don't need to do anything, we bring them laughter and prestige.
People in trouble, sad people, have a flower, it feels like having the whole spring. As long as we give them a warm love, then we will create a happy paradise for them.
I once read such a story that a little girl brought a flower when she went to the hospital to visit her brother. A patient in the next bed saw it and hoped for such beautiful flowers. Therefore, every time the little girl goes to see a doctor, she never forgets to bring a flower to a stranger. Later, in order to spread happiness, the patient opened a small shop next to the hospital so that people who passed by his shop could also bring a flower. As a result, every corner of the hospital is full of joy.
In our life, we all like the feeling that others care, but we prefer the feeling of being cared for. We all hope to get the support and understanding of others. In good times, when we help others, we also help ourselves. There is an old saying: "if you want to be self-interested, you should benefit others first;" If you want to achieve it, you must get it first. " We are all in a big group, and everyone can't exist in isolation. Sometimes, we also need the help of others, and this time, it is often those who have helped us.
So does helping others mean doing something vigorous and good? Actually, it is not. We can do many things. Ru Ru, since the ground is dirty, we can go and clean it. So-and-so is not feeling well, so we can go and see what we can do. We can keep quiet when others are studying. When going up the stairs, let the anxious students go first. These are small things, and we can totally do it. Why not?
Students, as long as we always think of others, help each other and care for each other, our life will become more beautiful and our big family will be more harmonious. Don't forget, helping others is the source of happiness. We should be happy people.
9. Face up to setbacks and move towards success.
Teachers and students:
Good morning! The topic of my speech is "Face up to setbacks and move towards success"
There was a man who failed in business at the age of 2 1. At the age of 22, he lost the election of the state legislature in the United States; At the age of twenty-four, business failed again; At the age of 26, my lover died; At the age of 27, he had a nervous breakdown; At the age of thirty-four, he ran for the United States House of Representatives and was defeated again. At the age of forty-five, he lost the election for the United States Senate; Nominated the vice president at the age of 47 and lost the election; At the age of 49, he ran for the United States Senate and lost again. However, it is such a person who has lost many wars. At the age of 52, he was elected as the sixteenth president of the United States!
This man is Lincoln.
Successful people need perseverance and extraordinary courage. It is not a bad thing for a person to experience some setbacks. "Since ancient times, great talents have suffered a lot, and there have never been many great men." On the road of our growth, there are smooth roads and bumps; There are flowers and thorns. When you reach for beautiful flowers, thorns will also stab your hands at the same time. If you don't want to reach out because you are afraid of pain, then for such a person, no matter how beautiful the flowers are, they can't reach them.
Success always belongs to those who challenge failure. We have youth, and youth has not failed. As long as we can overcome the thorns and ourselves, even if we are black and blue, we can at least prove that we have struggled, and we are not slaves to setbacks!
Students, have you ever encountered setbacks in your studies? If the test fails, the test is not ideal; I couldn't write a composition topic for a while, and I didn't have a clue about a math problem at that time. At this time, you should face up to setbacks, never give up and strive for success. Didn't Lincoln finally become president after nine blows?
Students, we want to say to success: Don't come too fast and too easy, you'd better have the last laugh; We should say to setbacks: let the storm come more violently!
In the face of success, please laugh it off; In the face of setbacks, please smile calmly and straighten your strong back!
thank you