What kind of friends a person has directly reflects his character. To understand a person, we only need to observe his social circle, from which we can see his value orientation. This is what we often say, "Birds of a feather flock together." People often say, "Depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." Friends are undoubtedly very important in one's social activities.

However, some people gang up, run amok, use each other, and build their friendship on the basis of so-called friends and self-interest ... these can't stand the test of time! On the way to make friends, some people walk very easily. This is because they adhere to the principle of making friends, that is, being comrades with Tao, being ready to help others and being generous to others.

The unity of ambition and Tao means that only when friends have the same ambition can they learn from each other and advance on the same road. Li Bai and Du Fu were great poets of their time. They met in Luoyang and have known each other for a long time, so they roamed the famous mountains in Sichuan together. Du Fu was attracted by Li Bai's elegant demeanor and talent, but he was also worried about his sharp-edged attitude and arrogance. So I gave him friendly advice: "Who is the hero who drinks crazy songs and has an empty life?" Li Bai also attached great importance to Du Fu's friendship. When they shook hands with tears, they decided to meet again: "When will Shimen Road open again?" Today, their brotherhood is still a much-told story. Now some people are loyal, have no ambition, and may even be punished for a moment of anger. Turns out they don't even have real friends! Why bother?

Generous help means selflessly and enthusiastically helping people who are in trouble or at fault, and being warm and friendly to others! The ancients said: "I can't make people happy with spring breeze, I can't water people with summer rain, and I will be poor!" " "A young man lost his foot and thought he would never see anyone again. He was silent all day. At this time, sincere friends extended a helping hand to him and influenced his cold heart. Extending a hand of friendship not only helps others, but also gains friendship. Why not?

To be generous to others is to treat people or things around you with humility like the sea. This is an upright man and a gentleman's demeanor, a temperament of going far and near, and a demeanor of a prime minister who can hold a boat in his stomach, which also contains the connotation of not doing to others what you don't want others to do to you. Making friends with this mentality only makes room for others to make mistakes in their hearts, but it fulfills their personality charm. Isn't it just a step back?

Ba Jin said: "Friendship is a bright light in life. Without it, there would be no glory in life; " Without it, life will not blossom and bear fruit. "Indeed, friendship can add joy and courage to a person's life, and can make people brainstorm without being lonely. But what matters is how you choose your friends and how to establish and develop your friendship!

Now, there are classmates and a group of so-called buddies, eating and drinking Lazar, fighting. This is something that schools and students can't tolerate decisively, and the consequences can only be tasted by themselves! I also hope that everyone will take a warning and make good friends instead of bad friends! Establish and develop true friendship!

It is our principle to make friends with similar interests, be helpful and be generous to others. Only on the basis of this principle can we win sincere friendship and have fun!