What’s interesting is that in those “maternal and fetal single dating groups”, many people who claim to be “maternal and fetal single” have actually had one or two short-term relationships or long-distance relationships, but they feel that “ It’s as if we haven’t talked about it before, I don’t feel anything at all.” In this sense, the identity of "maternally single" seems to be a safe haven, hiding in it, where one can accept one's emotional ignorance with peace of mind and highlight one's innocence.

Professor Yu Feng, deputy director of the Institute of Social Psychology of Xi'an Jiaotong University, pointed out that the growth of the "maternal and fetal single" group also reflects the increasingly heavy social pressure faced by young people.

In his view, there are two main types of people in this group: some young people ignore or miss the development of love because their lives are too busy, and they may suffer from cognitive dissonance and constantly hint that they "You are not suitable for falling in love" "You don't want to fall in love" - ??in fact, who doesn't want to be loved?

Another type of young people have suffered negative emotional blows, thus developing a mentality of "learned helplessness" and feeling that they are unable to cope with various difficulties in the process of love.

“Everyone has their own preferences and the right to find their own happiness. But if they don’t get out of their original social circle, they will find that the people they meet again are not much different from before. They may continue to be single.”

Yang Chen, deputy director of Lin Zi Psychological Counseling Center, also said that for these young people, reflecting on their experiences and summarizing their real needs is a good way to grow. "You still need to make more emotional attempts. Only when you try can you get feedback, and you can learn from every attempt."