Interview is a challenge that many people will face, because a good interview result may determine a person's future career path. In this process, interviewers usually try their best to show their strengths, including personality, ability and experience. However, sometimes the interviewer may lie to make himself look better and meet the requirements of the company. So, what's the biggest lie you ever told in an interview? I believe everyone's answer to this question will be different.
However, from my point of view, the biggest lie in the interview is about my work experience. Some people may exaggerate their work experience in order to enter their favorite company, or describe jobs with no relevant experience as related to the target position. Although experience is one of the important factors in interview assessment, if you exaggerate your strength with false information, it may have a negative impact on yourself. If verified by the employer, these false information may make you lose this job opportunity. Besides, some people may lie about their personality.
For example, an introvert may say in the interview that he likes to make friends and deal with people, so as to enhance his competitiveness. On the contrary, an extrovert may say that he likes to be alone, in order to look more focused and motivated in some positions. However, I don't think lying is the best way to solve the problem. The interviewer should be frank, admit his own shortcomings and propose improvement plans. Companies usually prefer to hire honest and reliable employees when recruiting. Therefore, in the long run, honesty is a better choice. People who are afraid of society once dreamed of an ideal life: living in their own small home, chatting with close friends and family, and going out if they want. And all uninterested social activities can be put off with "Oh, I'm sorry, I have something to do temporarily".
Via@ 嗬嗬嗬嗬嗬嗬嗬嗬, but as long as you enter the society, you will find that this fantasy is so fragile that it is easily shattered by the word "good at communication" in the recruitment demand. I also need a job, so I can only lie to HR with a smile. "I am gentle, good at dealing with colleagues and can communicate with colleagues in time." Then, when you need to contact a strange colleague, try to get online and you won't go offline. Online communication can also use "hahahahahaha" to pretend to be cheerful, and offline, you can only bite the bullet and pray for Deng Chao's possession. As long as people live offline, social interaction is inevitable. Even if you go out for a walk casually in T-shirts and shorts on weekends, you may meet acquaintances. When they met on a narrow road, I could only smile, but I still mobilized my whole body and tried to say hello. After the fight, I had to reflect guiltily: "Was my performance ok?"? No one can see that I don't really want to say hello? " When via @ Xu Jieer realized how much I needed acting in my life, she could immediately understand why she was worried that Tony Leung Chiu Wai might be the best actor. There are too many moments in life that need to be disguised. Just act them out.
I'm Tony Leung Chiu Wai and his e-wife Carina Lau 02. Every time I pretend to be cheerful, I want to dig a hole for myself. If pretending to be cheerful is described as a disaster, then the harm it brings to people in social security is undoubtedly progress. When people just realize that they need to enter social mode, I feel flustered, embarrassed and helpless. Just as it is difficult for Mao to describe himself resting backstage, if he meets other artists giving gifts to everyone, he will be ready when he hears something in the lounge next door. My mind began to imagine the other person coming into my room, thinking about how many "thank you" words to say and how many bows to bow. Countless ordinary social terrorists will also experience similar experiences when their colleagues distribute snacks and specialties, quietly observing where their colleagues send them and when it is their turn. The reason why I observe from the corner of my eye is that I am afraid that if I pay too much attention, it will appear as if I really want that specialty or snack.
The hardest step for Via @ Xu Jieer is to know that colleagues are distributing special products, but also to pretend to be surprised when receiving special products: "Wow, what is this! Thank you, thank you! " I tried to pull out a cheerful and ignorant smile at the corner of my mouth, praying that my response was polite and enthusiastic enough. After the embarrassment, the torture of social disaster is not over yet. For introverts, what is more painful than pretending to be cheerful is the post-traumatic stress disorder: after pretending to be cheerful for one minute, I will fall into at least 10 minutes of regret, self-blame and irritability. And you need to be alone for at least ten hours to calm your inner embarrassment and anxiety.
Reader @ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫19999 They found a bench to rest, but never expected that their friend was so tired that he fell asleep on the bench. Therefore, every passing park worker and some tourists kindly came forward to ask if they needed help, because they were worried that their friends lying on the bench would faint. She has now forgotten how many people laughed and explained that her friend was sleeping that night, and also forgot the specific wording. Later, because I was afraid of waking my friends, I saw someone coming towards her, so I took the initiative to meet her, pretended to be a social cow, and tried to say in a funny tone, "Don't worry, she's just sleeping."
But she still clearly remembers that when she watched the light show later, her whole portrait fell down, and she didn't even lift her mobile phone to take pictures and punch in. I kept asking myself questions in my mind, such as why I pretended to be a funny girl, why I was so upset when others noticed me, and so on. Moreover, after returning to China, I did nothing at home and lay down for two days at the weekend, only to feel a little social vitality. A cruel fact that will torture introverts for a long time is that no matter how many times you pretend to be cheerful, you will still feel more or less irritable and resistant afterwards. Because for I people, socializing is basically a pure process of consuming vitality, and they can only get vitality from solitude and inner world.
Pretending to be cheerful countless times may make you practice various scenes more smoothly and make people look at the flaws. I still don't like those occasions in my heart. However, the more cruel fact is that the only child can avoid visiting relatives and friends and making new friends on the grounds of introversion. Adults always have various reasons to escort them. They had to smile and pretend to be happy.