The importance of social etiquette in interpersonal communication

There is such a prophetic story worth pondering:

One day, an old frog met an old man. The spider vomited his bitterness and said: "I have worked hard all my life, but I can only make ends meet. Now that I am old and weak, the fate that awaits me is to die of hunger. And you, I have never seen you work hard but have enough food and clothing. Even if you are old now, you still don’t have to worry about food and drink. There are people who cast nets and bring you delicious food. This world is really unfair!"

The old spider replied: "You are wrong. Back then, I worked hard every day, weaving my web, and finally I had something to rely on. Even now, I still have to repair the holes that often appear. The reason why you live a hard life and are old and helpless. That's because you live on four legs, and I live on a net. The net will not weaken when I get old, so although I am old, I will not worry about life if I am like you. If I rely on my slender legs to live, my life will be a hundred times worse than yours."

Isn't that true for people? You can't defeat a lion by relying on personal energy, but you can't defeat it by relying on external energy. Lions can be kept in cages for people to watch. Therefore, personal energy and success, in a sense, come from good interpersonal relationships and good social interaction. A person's life is a life of social interaction. If you observe carefully, interactions between people can be seen everywhere, and they all embody the true meaning of social interaction. When you encounter difficulties, your friends will come to help; when you open the door to the other person, the other person gives you a friendly smile; when you walk into school, into the workplace, back home, or even walk on the street, there is always a smile on your face. It is about dealing with others in a certain way.

Someone once said: "It is incredible for an isolated person to carry out activities and production outside society, just like many individuals who do not live together and talk to each other but have the same language." Human beings The reason why we call it "social person" rather than "isolated person" is to emphasize the necessity and importance of interpersonal communication.

So, how to establish good interpersonal relationships and good social interaction? This is inevitable

It is necessary to emphasize the importance of social etiquette in establishing and maintaining interpersonal relationships and social activities. sex.

Etiquette is the minimum moral code that human beings require to abide by in order to maintain normal life in society. It is gradually formed by people in their long-term living together and interacting with each other, and is based on customs. , habits and traditions. China is known as the "Land of Etiquette". Thousands of years of glorious culture have cultivated the noble morals of the Chinese nation and formed a complete set of etiquette. Etiquette culture has long penetrated into every aspect of our daily lives. For a person, etiquette is an external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communicative ability; for a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization, moral customs, and living habits.

From a communication perspective, etiquette can be said to be