However, this method of finding an object is based on interest.

Don't believe too much, feelings can be cultivated slowly after marriage. That was the way of marriage a generation ago. Times are different now, and reality is often more important than feelings.

The foundation of marriage comes from emotion. If there were no feelings for each other before, marriage would be extremely unstable. As long as there is a third party involved, feelings will fall apart overnight.

Friends who have been to the Civil Affairs Bureau should know that there are far more divorced people than married people, and those who apply for divorce according to law have to queue up.

But many friends, especially male friends, have no choice but to date each other. It's so hard to find a girlfriend that marriage is ruined. There are also some friends who are tired of falling in love and talking, and don't expect much from love. They just want to find someone who can live.

Buddha said: Everything has a cause and effect.

The same is true of marriage and love. Don't think that you can find satisfaction by lowering your standards. Remember that love and marriage are fruits. Pay more, and you will reap what you sow. If God doesn't give you the fruit you deserve, it means that your happiness is at the next stop.

If you get what you don't deserve, you will lose what you don't deserve, so only by putting up with what others can't stand can you enjoy what others can't.