? Yes, I am a veritable older single woman who wrote this article. The starting point of writing this article is to thank those "matchmakers" who come and go and help me in my lifelong affairs. They expect nothing in return. At best, a grilled fish, an afternoon tea or a movie is enough. To tell the truth, although the results are always unsatisfactory, I thank them from the bottom of my heart. Thanks to their enthusiastic matchmaking, countless singles looking for fate can meet the right person with little chance of success and finally make a positive result. Secondly, I'll talk about what I rely on to support the strong courage of being single for so many years.

First, the change of blind date attitude

? I used to hate blind dates. Someone asked me about blind date, so I either changed the subject quickly or decided to express my opinion. What's more, I ran away. Later, my view changed, probably because my view of things changed with age. Perhaps because of my cousin's influence, my cousin finally made a positive result after countless blind dates. The other party was also excellent and my cousin was very happy. In fact, blind date is more suitable. Because the "matchmaker" will give both parties some consideration, including the other party's mate selection criteria, conditions and many other factors, and will have some basic understanding. (In addition to the equal economic strength of the two families and the similar family growth environment, there is another point that the three views of the two sides will not deviate too much, so it is really reliable to think about blind date.

Second, practice blind date in person (chatting with "matchmaker")

? However, I haven't seen any of them for different reasons. The above picture is a partial screenshot, but now it seems that I am extremely grateful to these "matchmakers" who are with me or not, because you are constantly creating new hopes for the blank period of single life. As long as there is hope, everything is easy to say. You are really cute, so I am thinking that one day, I will not be single. The first thing is to pull this group to set the table for my single matchmaker. I want to thank him, thank you for rebuilding my hope for single life. At the same time, I will let you see my complete happiness.

Third, I dare to face being single-from my strong backing.

? Yes, at my age, many people are already preparing to have a second child, and some have even come out. However, the reason why I can face older single young women so calmly and neatly stems from my parents and my family. Whenever I think of my parents and my family, I feel full of strength. My parents hardly urge me to find someone to marry. I never set standards for finding a partner. The only thing I emphasize is my personality. I never say anything to compare with others. It is very interesting that I sometimes overhear my parents talking with their neighbors in the street. Someone asked your daughter why she is so old and not married. Her parents seem to have agreed to fight together. Answer: My daughter is a homesick child and always wants to spend more time with us at home. Haha, this answer is really excellent. My brother and future daughter-in-law, they are very supportive. I know, my parents are actually very worried and anxious. When they occasionally ask me about my current situation, I can clearly feel it, but they want me to be really happy. They never transfer their anxiety to me. Therefore, they are my extremely strong backing and my powerful source. As I grow older, I gradually understand that getting married and starting a family is not just.

? Finally, I want to say that I am as eager for happiness as most ordinary girls, and I also hope that someone who knows can share my joys and sorrows. After all, the days of being displaced are not so pleasant, but I hope to meet the right person in my best state, so that we all have the strength and mind to manage happiness.

? Of course, with the rapid development of society and the rapid changes of the Internet, various social software emerge one after another. So nowadays, boys are less and less patient and determined to pursue a girl they like, because there are too many opportunities to choose, so why bother? I won't wait passively. If there is such a person, I will become brave and positive. After all, as Mr. Jiang Yang said, a lifetime of happiness is more important than initiative. "

Finally, I would like to thank those enthusiastic matchmakers and wish every older youth who can't make it. I wish life as you wish and happiness as you wish. I often encourage myself with one sentence: "I just want to believe that I will get married in this life."

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