Hello, I think this is because parents and elders often don't understand the type that children like. Parents and those close relatives who care about and care for us always think that they know their children very well and know what kind of partners they need and like. In fact, they are based on their own preferences, in other words, they think that what their children like, they will find the other half for their children.

In fact, when children become adults, the communication with parents and relatives tends to be stylized, that is to say, they are close on the surface, live together, and seem to meet often, but rarely communicate effectively. I'm talking about simple communication in daily life, which is profound and touches the soul. Being with parents and relatives seems difficult to achieve.

First of all, there is a generation gap between the two generations, with different values and different views on many things. As the saying goes, "more words than speculation", communication is prone to contradictions.

Therefore, it is difficult for young people to open their hearts to these elders, and their true thoughts will not be confided to them. Because they don't understand, they are likely to interfere in their own lives. Therefore, parents and elders are always wishful thinking about their children and try to figure it out with their own ideas. The same is true of emotional things. This kind of speculation often does not conform to the children's real thoughts and actual needs.

Many times, parents will feel that when they are young, they have gone through some detours and pits emotionally, and they don't want their children to fall into it.

It is precisely because he is young that he should help his children to correct those wrong ideas in time, so he is likely to find a person who is more suitable for married life according to his current age and impose it on his children, hoping that the children will fully accept their emotional values.

Good luck.