Hehe, it represents a meaningful smile. It can express gentle humor; Can express helplessness, indifference or boredom; Can be used to deny each other, while expressing contempt or ridicule; Can be used for embarrassment when there is nothing to say, or perfunctory when you want to end a chat.
Hehe, simple and complex, subtle and fickle, usually only understandable, but also prone to ambiguity and misunderstanding, which has become the fuse of being blacked out by friends. It should be used with caution by unfamiliar people and is not recommended for formal occasions.
Hehe, it's a social phenomenon. On the document website HowNet, a master's thesis of East China Normal University entitled "Research on the Role of Hehe in Network Conversation" has been downloaded 30,437 times and cited 19 times.
Hehe, generally I don't like it. It was voted as "the most hurtful word".
Hehe, it used to be a word I hated.
Until I found Su Shi, a person who likes "Hehe" and can see through life between "Hehe".
In the winter of the eighth year of Xining (AD 1075), Su Shi wrote to his friend Xian.
Su Shi first praised the poetry of the virtuous and foolish for its desolate ancient style, and then talked about his recent creation.
"I dare to be caught off guard by my poem, but I have to do it. I have no free time. It's a small word recently. Although it doesn't taste like Liu, it is also a family. Haha. " -"Qingxin Zijun Book"
I dare to make a fool of myself if you ask me for a poem, but I can't do it without writing it, that is, I don't have time. I like to write small print recently. Although there is no smell of Liu Yong, it is a family of its own. Ha ha.
Although modest, it can be seen that Su Shi is very satisfied with his new words.
That's his first bold poem "Hunting in Mizhou, Jiangchengzi": "I said that I am a teenager crazy, pulling yellow in the left and holding pale in the right, wearing a golden hat and mink fur, riding a thousand horses to roll Hiraoka ..."
Su Shi attaches great importance to this word, and there are some thoughts behind it: I have made some new attempts, I don't want to cater to the secular atmosphere (I don't want to be like Liu Yong), I want to take an alternative road. Ha ha, a kind of affinity, a kind of pride, but also with a little secretly pleased, a little proud of Su Shi, vividly on the paper.
A great writer can be very naughty.
"When it comes to a few poems, they are all detached and strange, and the handwriting says yes, I can't put them down. The future is a treasure, and people without it today are particularly concerned about the public. Haha. " -"He Mi Yuan Zhang"
Brother Miffy, your poems are really good. It must be a treasure in the future. Nobody pays attention to it now, because you are still alive. Ha ha.
At the time of writing this letter, Mi Fei had not mixed up any tricks, and Su Shi was indeed the first person to understand pearls. Miffy must have enjoyed the big brother's joke approvingly.
Hehe, it has narrowed the distance between the two. With the constant encouragement of Su Shi, Mi Fei sent more poems to Su Shi.
Su Shi's wood and stone drawings have Mi Fei's postscript at the end of the volume.
Su Shi takes good care of his younger brother. In front of my brother, you can be a hooligan.
"I often met in acquaintances, but my bad brother only got a pole. He didn't say "Zi Shuo" to polish the pen. He just wrote praises everywhere, got ready to get burned, and there were some pieces of paper left. I asked this man to invite him, but it didn't take long to keep it a secret. No, you can not only scribble everywhere, but also write a cloud pen and 250 poems. Haha. " -"He Wen and Ke"
Wen and Ke and Su Shi, who are good at painting ink bamboo, are cousins and close friends. Su Shi saw the ink bamboo painted by Wen Tong among several other friends, but he only got one, and that one was only painted with a bamboo pole ... Su Shi's heart was full of grievances.
Let alone the fact that I wrote Confucius for you. Just say I write praises to you everywhere, let you drive well, and you have to give me some anyway. I'll send someone to your house to get it now. You'd better not delay too long Otherwise, I will scribble everywhere and write on it, saying that you drew it. Or complain about your previous agreement and claim 250 silk. Ha ha.
This can be called the highest level of asking others for it: moving with emotion, being clear with reason, being good with virtue, and being confident. Hehe, I don't accept refutation.
In the face of such a cunning and lovely Su Dongpo, what can honest Wen Tong do with him?
After reading such a letter, I feel the true nature, which is more real than Su Shi standing in front of us. That sincere heart is as smart and clear as a mountain stream.
Wentong presented Su Shi with a "Snow Valley Bamboo Map". After Wen Tong's death, Su Shi "cried at the sight of this bamboo."
Among Su Shi's 1000 letters, there are more than 40 "hehe".
Su Shi, who likes "Hehe", has a flamboyant personality in the wind of elegance. He is witty and humorous, and in a playful tone, he puts off the pretense of utility and courtesy, showing sincere friendship.
Su Shi has a wide range of friends and is well known. These friends often send him help and comfort when he encounters hardships. While expressing gratitude, Su Shi also gave back an optimistic and open-minded attitude.
"Every time I miss you, it will be a fortune, and it will take a lot of effort and expense, so I won't worry about it ... hehe. 」
"Ha ha. The wine is extremely mellow, so it must be an old friend's task to go down to the hall. 」
"A disease has been coughing for more than a month. Although there is nothing to worry about, there is nothing to feel bad about. On the south bank of Lingao, I added three rooms, which are particularly open and open in summer. I am very grateful ... Hehe. 」
"Because of this, someone gave up the wisdom of the secular, physical and mental security, children detached from things. If it weren't for his father, he wouldn't have this child. Ha ha. 」
Su Shi never lost his smile because of suffering. Sometimes, there is sadness in laughter, but it also has the power to support life.
Su Shi has experienced ups and downs in his life, but he has always faced the ups and downs of life with a detached attitude and profound wisdom, and set up a life model of smiling and facing life for future generations.
A positive attitude towards life is to face up to suffering and find pleasure in life. Give everyone who cares about themselves a reassuring explanation. Even in the bleakest despair, it can bring warmth and strength to others. Measure yourself and others.
Hehe, it seems that after a thousand years of time and space, the voice still lingers, making people see Su Shi's brilliant and free and easy smile.
A scholar-bureaucrat with lofty personality has both wisdom and natural demeanor, and a mind that overlooks the wind and waves and embraces the world.
Su Shi's life is embodied in the struggle between the old and new parties in the Northern Song Dynasty. He runs counter to Wang Anshi politically. However, when the political smoke cleared, Su Shi could still take the initiative to resolve the differences with his opponents and shake hands happily. Regarding Su Shi's talent and tolerance, Wang Anshi lamented: "I wonder if there will be such a figure after hundreds of years!"
In Su Shi's mind, there is no grudge that cannot be resolved.
Another political enemy of Su Shi persecuted the Su brothers in every way. Later, Zhang Dun was demoted and Su Shi was reinstated. Zhang Dun's son was worried about retaliation, so he wrote to Su Shi to plead for his father. However, Su Shi only said that "the Chinese source is slightly different" (there was a little disagreement at one time), and he gently took over the political turmoil of that year.
Su Shi's sister married her cousin Cheng Zhicai, and later she was abused in her husband's family and died young. Su Xun scolded the Cheng family from top to bottom in public, and wanted his son to sever ties with Cheng Zhicai. Forty-two years later, under the arrangement of fate and chance, Su Shi and Cheng Zhicai reconciled their grievances, and the two families reconciled as before. "Two nephews have been together for many days, and it is a great comfort to see the sincerity of filial piety. Finally, I still said "Hehe".
Forgiveness is the greatest virtue in the world. Many times, the story behind it is so heartbreaking and broad-minded. It's never as simple as it sounds.
Except Su Shi, who has that kind of mind to say that "hehe"?
In the first year of Yuanfeng (AD 1078), a friend Sun Qi asked for a book, and Su Shi wrote back:
"The paper shaft was taken away, and there were two pieces of blank paper, which were left to people after five hundred years. Haha. " -"with grandchildren"
There are a few feet of white paper behind this word, so leave it to the person who will write my postscript after 500 years. Ha ha.
A confident and heroic Su Shi, standing at the peak of the times, looked down at the future and looked at us jokingly.
Didn't Wang Anshi ask: I don't know how many years it will take to have a figure stone?
I really want to answer him: after 1000 years, there is still no one. Ha ha.