After breaking up with their partner, many people will delete all contact with them. They have already thought about not having contact with each other until they die, but sometimes they miss their previous relationship very much, and then they feel that they have done something wrong. The thing is very silly. You will do a lot of stupid things after a breakup. So, what stupid things have you done after a breakup? What stupid things will you do after a breakup?

1. Stupid things you did after breaking up

Silly things 1

Deleted his WeChat, but always remembered his WeChat ID. One day I woke up and found that he was added to my friends list. It is still a mystery. Now that I think about it, I probably added it back in my sleep the night before...

Silly Thing 2

After a while, I started to learn sketching. The first time I drew a portrait, I obviously copied it from a picture. When a girl took it home and showed it to her mother, she said it looked like a boy or a girl. When I covered the girl's hair, I realized that it was exactly his facial features... I was teased by my mother for a long time and it was an unforgettable old love. And I didn’t realize it at all at the time...

Silly Thing 3

I was so angry when I saw his new girlfriend that one day I made a serious list of his shortcomings. Wrote three items. Then I wrote and wrote, and when I came back to my senses, I found that I had written a list of more than 20 advantages... Foolish thing 4.

It will be his birthday two months later. I prepared a painting for him a long time ago, and it looks great as a portrait. But we broke up on my birthday, and I felt sorry for my painting. After struggling for a long time, I registered a small account and sent it to him via email. A few days later, I received a reply, "Is it you? Hahaha." I was stunned at the time and immediately replied, "It's not me, it's not me, it's not me, it's not me, it's not me, it's really not me!" When he came to his senses, his hand speed was faster than I came to my senses a second faster and the email was sent. TT has never logged into that email since then...

Silly Thing 5.

He likes pineapple cakes very much and hates cats. Then on the first anniversary of our breakup, I bought two boxes of pineapple cakes and fed them to stray cats. Even took photos! Posted on Moments! Nine! Later he wrote in the comments, "Three seconds of despair."

2. Be friends after a breakup

(1) Be calm in your heart

It is okay after a breakup It is very difficult to be friends, except when one party has really fallen out with the other party and it is impossible to talk to each other. Under normal circumstances, it is also possible to be friends, but first of all, you must be calm in your heart and don't mind it just because you have been together. What, just treat him like an ordinary classmate or ordinary friend.

(2) Keep a distance

After all, we are people who have been together, and there is a unique sense of familiarity, but you must get rid of this feeling, keep a distance from the other person, and ignore it. Don't ask too many questions about things, and keep things simple when getting along, so as not to bring about some unpleasant feelings.

(3) Reduce contact

The contact after the breakup must not be the same as before the breakup. There are reasons for breakups. Since it is irreversible, then you must be more thorough and don’t let yourself If you fall into a sad situation again, reduce the contact between the two parties, so that you will not think of it often and forget it faster.