In the workplace, people generally only have common interests and few have true friends. There is no need to talk to colleagues in the workplace.
Normally, for the sake of work, on the surface, colleagues get along well with each other and have a harmonious relationship. Colleagues in the workplace are simply job competition. There is no need to be heart-to-heart.
The real relationship between colleagues who work in the same unit is work competition.
In the workplace, everyone has an enterprising spirit and an unwillingness to settle for less. When working together, there will definitely be disputes over workload, salary, promotion speed, relationship with the leader, etc. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is a struggle for interests. Therefore, colleagues working in the same unit are always in a state of competition.
Colleagues with good character will compete based on their personal abilities; colleagues with poor character will compete for superiority by belittling their colleagues and ruining their reputation.
Therefore, once you have a heart-to-heart relationship with your colleagues and have a deep friendship with them, and let your colleagues know your background, you may become a weapon for your colleagues to attack you, uselessly speak out against you, and provide your colleagues with materials to disparage you. Until then, you will have nothing to say and nothing to say.
In addition, the relationship between colleagues is temporary but different
Normally, for work, on the surface, colleagues get along well with each other and have a harmonious relationship. However, from the heart, this harmony is harmonious but different, each has its own thoughts and plans.
You and your colleagues work in the same unit, and the time may be as short as three or two years, as long as ten or eight years, and a few people may work longer. No matter how long the affair is, it is temporary, and even if the relationship is good, it is superficial.
Once you leave the unit, the relationship between colleagues will no longer exist, let alone the so-called relationship between friends. The contact with each other will soon be interrupted, let alone mutual contact.