Furthermore, if you are really in a hurry to find someone, you can try to expand your social circle and level, and take part in more social activities after work, such as colleagues' dinners and classmates' dinners, or play a script to kill a werewolf and make friends from different jobs and regions.
If you think offline socializing is a waste of time, you can also try to make friends online, such as exploring, meeting strangers and making sweet friends. It all depends on your interests and geographical matching friends. You can also try to communicate with them online, share your happiness or unhappiness in life, see if they accept you through the internet, and then consider whether to meet offline. Take your time.
Finally, I want to say that sometimes my parents give me anxiety. You can also talk to my parents about your emotions appropriately. Don't keep everything in your heart. How can they know about your difficulties if you don't tell them? And maybe they are not as difficult to communicate as you think. Finally, I wish all the best and find the right person as soon as possible ~