Let's start with friends This has been a tradition for thousands of years. We are all smart people and stupid people. I can tell you responsibly that when you get rich, you will be miserable and you will lose those poor friends. Why? Look at all the things you wrote about yourself after you got rich. Let me tell you, you think getting rich is too easy, and success is not that easy. Your heart is higher than the sky and your life is thinner than paper. You inadvertently neglected the process of getting rich. Sometimes it takes risks for the poor to become rich, and many times. When you really succeed, you will know how difficult it is to succeed. Even if it's not a difficult or simple question. Sometimes it really depends on the sky. At that time, you were no longer a silly child who didn't make money. If it is so easy to become rich, then the money is worthless. Only you know how much you have paid for success. It is definitely bitter tears. Many times, you have to face some painful failures: when you really have nothing, you are down and out, or even you are being asked for debts, at this time, your family is complaining to you, others are mocking you, your neighbors are rolling their eyes at you, your wife is impatient with you, and your so-called friends have long been pulled by your family, reducing contact with you, preventing you from asking for help, and even secretly calling you stupid and scary. At this time, you will know what a friend is. At that time, you had few friends This is an iron cruel fact, because no one is willing to take risks for you, not only because of poverty, but also because of personality. If someone helps you at this time, you will definitely help him later, because he took a risk for you. From this point of view, a good friend who keeps his word will pay the price, which is paid when he has nothing. And if you are a man who borrows money from a woman, there is nothing you can do. What does that woman's husband think? What does her husband think of saying that she is a friend? So supporting him is better than supporting her husband? Think again, you have become a rich man, and you even gave your life. How is he? Because a friend, a so-called relationship, has tied you firmly. Will you eat and drink again? Then how timid should he be? Then he's just one of your dogs. A rich man, no matter how stupid he is, can become a rich man. He is not simple. By this time, you already know that emotion is the most useless thing. Its purpose is to comfort people and make them sound good. It has been said before that living conditions are different. It is also true that poor friends are usually willing to buy food before they are willing to consume it, which is common practice in front of rich friends. And he always takes advantage of you. When this is a natural thing, you will be disgusted with others. Also, you are rich, many people want to have sex with you, and relatives who have nothing to do with you come to see you. Both your parents may become people you hate. To be a low-key person, you can keep a low profile, and your parents may not keep a low profile. Because they can't handle so much money, they are poor to the bone! And it's not your own efforts. So brilliant. You haven't seen the money. Doing business with one million dollars is different from doing business with ten thousand dollars. It's different to use. At this time, your father may be proud to invite those so-called friends to show off, especially if you are from the countryside. What is the last thing he wants to do? Don't worry, you have too many problems to solve. Why do you earn money? You want peace! You should have your own time to live! How annoying it is to ask someone you don't know for help from time to time. Of course, it doesn't matter if this is your hobby. In fact, you don't have to think about this problem. Can you give him a lot of money? Who is he? How much did you pay? Why didn't he pay for it himself? At this time, you believe that everyone has the ability to succeed, but you are unwilling to pay. This is the risk. No matter how knowledgeable you are among talented people and beautiful women, one risk will kill everyone, including your closest parents. You gave him a lot of money to help him. Is he selfish? He doesn't take risks himself, just because your friends let you take risks. If you fail, bear it yourself. If you succeed, he will be exposed. Isn't that selfish? Then again, what is he alive for? He is too timid! Also, in my opinion, it has never been the ability of the rich, because the rich already have money, what is the use of money to him? Worse than waste paper! Why pay attention to money? It is precisely those poor friends who are too utilitarian who are greedy for money with so-called feelings and say some terrible things. Well, if you say friends, can we not talk about the economy? Once a friend talks about the economy, he is not a friend. Help, of course, is to help others, but it should be appropriate to help those who are generous and those who have both ability and political integrity. Don't help those poor people who are driven into scoundrels. Do you think you are kind if you help those who don't want to get rich through your own efforts? Are you a true friend? You killed your friend for your feelings! Your son must be the black sheep of the rich second generation, because you can't get rid of the bondage of feelings! No virtue, no wealth. When you succeed, you will naturally understand. Even if it succeeds, it is impossible to be virtuous. For example, are you a man of your word? Do you have it with you? Commitment comes at a price! Sometimes even life! You are not yourself, do you still want your friends around you to keep their promises to you? Are you selfish? Everyone is smart and always wants to get a reward without taking risks. The earth is stingy, with limited resources. Only a few people can allocate a lot of resources, but God is generous, leaving us with risks and opportunities. So you have to make good friends, help him at the critical moment, what is the critical moment, you have nothing at this time, everything is to help him, and sometimes he doesn't have to do anything but stand by at the critical moment. This is character. When you are in a dilemma when starting a business, if a friend pays all the property for you because he is your friend, then you will definitely help him, because this is a critical moment. Personality is needed at critical moments, and changing personality requires a price. What's the use of character? Its use lies in making real friends. People who can do great things have more or less personalities! I wrote so much casually that I won't ask any more questions.
I also want to say that even relatives need to do business according to the shareholding system, that is, how much each person pays. Who is your friend? When others succeed and you need help, then this kind of help is definitely not the ordinary help of borrowing an eraser and picking up a knife in primary school. One of his feelings is to let you help him become rich. Will you help him or not? Dream! Not only can't you help yourself then, you won't even bother to talk to him. In fact, he won't let you help him like this. He is not stupid. Get something for nothing Don't speak yourself so well. You'll understand when you have money. In short, you should not share with anyone, even your parents, what you bought at great risk!