I want to say a lot. If you get divorced, it's really not easy for you to find it again with your children, but it's definitely not the way you and your wife are going now. Sooner or later, she will cheat. My wife has a bad temper, so I'm afraid you can't calm her down.

Talk to her obedient people first and see what she thinks. On the other hand, if she doesn't run, she will change her mind in a few years and still be someone else's wife.

I have been there before. I suggest a divorce.