0 1 "Naked marriage is naked marriage, as long as you are good to me."

Many women always forget the bitterness of marriage in the face of sweet love.

Therefore, even if the other party has nothing, he is willing to go to the naked marriage at all costs.

Sister Xi is my former colleague. Speaking of her marriage, she couldn't help blushing and losing her direction.

27-year-old, shortly after graduating from graduate school, her parents were anxious to marry her off, and she was introverted, fearing that it would be difficult to find her in a few years.

So, she logged on to the dating site and made a crazy blind date. Of all the people she met, she only chose Tian Ge, which has no house, no car and no savings.

Just because this boy looks gentle and honest, she believes that with him, everything will get better gradually.

After dating for more than half a year, I began to talk about marriage. Embarrassed, brother Tian can't even afford a decent ring. Sister Xi knew he was poor, but she didn't expect him to be so poor. She tentatively asked him:

You have worked for so many years, why don't you have any savings? Getting married and having children will cost money everywhere in the future.

Brother Tian prevaricated and told his sister the truth:

Sissy, I won't lie to you either. My job always hits a wall. Every time I go to a company, it doesn't take long to close down. Later, I tried to start my own business, but it didn't succeed. So, it's really embarrassing now. ...

Know the reason of the city elder sister, not only didn't abandon the three thousand pieces of small ring, also behind him to comfort him:

It's okay. Just work hard. Let's work together in the future, as long as you are good to me.

This seems to give Brother Tian a reassurance. He feels that he has really married a considerate and responsible wife. He quickly promised to Xi jie:

Honey, give me two more years, and I will definitely give you a decent home.

In this way, two people got married. Except for an unwelcome wedding.

Give me a few more years, and I will definitely buy a suite in full.

In a marriage without material foundation, men always like to draw cakes, while women always like to be stiff.

Because the economic conditions don't allow it and the living environment is quite poor, my sister Xi doesn't want to have children as soon as she gets married. She fantasizes that when her husband gets along well, she will make a new plan for her children.

However, after three or four years, my husband still achieved nothing, and the living expenses at home were basically borne by my sister alone.

In addition to the couple's life, she occasionally subsidizes her husband's business expenses and pays alimony to her in-laws every month. Even the renovation of her husband's old house in the countryside is a big deal for her.

Even if she tries hard to make money, take business and travel to earn extra money, she can't keep up with the speed of spending money. She feels that she will never save enough down payment.

After all, she is just a small employee of a private enterprise, with 80,000 to 90,000 a year, leaving only 10,000 to 20,000.

Seeing that house prices are getting higher and higher, she is in a hurry. If she doesn't buy a house again, she won't even have to read books after giving birth.

Xixi discussed with her husband, hoping that he could find a home to raise some money and add her savings to see if he could barely pay a down payment and mortgage a small apartment first.

Who knows, the husband directly backed out:

Come on, honey. My career is unstable now, and you must be under great pressure to repay the mortgage alone. You wait another three to five years, and when I make a lot of money, I'll buy you a house in full.

Naive sister once again believed Brother Tian's promise. She remembered that when she was old, she would have a child no matter how hard it was. It would be better to consider buying a house after giving birth. When you cross the bridge, it will be solved.

But she never imagined that what "wait a few years" and what "buy a house in full" were all "talk in a dream" made up by Brother Tian.

This husband who has accomplished nothing is simply the legendary "entrepreneurial bitch".

Careless entrepreneurship again and again, blind investment again and again, looking for a wife again and again, but in the end nothing.

Sadly, on the day when I found out I was pregnant, Brother Tian came back with a depressed face. Unfortunately, one of his upcoming projects was cut down by others.

Sister Xi touched the fetus in her belly and tears fell down.

She doesn't know if this child, born in such a home, can be happy …

03 "Don't divorce, you haven't bought a house for our family."

Women's stupid efforts in marriage can't touch each other, but can touch themselves at most.

Well said, it is a responsible woman. If you don't know, you'll be taken advantage of, okay?

Perhaps, Xi Xiu girls come to work hard. Pregnant or worried, "working hard" and "helping the poor husband's family" are all right.

When she felt the child's heartbeat and the wonder of her new life, she felt that she could no longer pay for her husband's family blindly, and she had to give her child a home.

The husband asked his parents to chip in to buy a house according to her wishes. Hearing this, the old man flew into a rage and was puzzled:

Son, isn't your wife good at making money? She has raised her for so many years, it's our turn to worry about buying a house in old bones!

Immediately, Tian Ge's mother called her daughter-in-law and said a lot:

Xixi, my good daughter-in-law, you are so capable that you should have bought a house for our family long ago. You see, you are a graduate student and a senior white-collar worker, and your salary must be very high. Anyway, you saved hundreds of thousands. Don't save private money, it's not a problem to take out all the money to pay the down payment. When my son is developed, I will pay you back at one time!

There really is no one. Mother-in-law should say such arrogant and vulgar things.

After almost 8 years of marriage, Sister Xi not only didn't get anything from her husband's family, but was exploited by her husband's family year after year.

"buy a house for our family", "deposit hundreds of thousands" and "pay it off at one time". These words are of course, but my mother-in-law's mouth is so light, but I never thought about how their family hollowed out her sister Xi.

No one will know that after marriage, the quality of life of my sister Xi plummeted. In order to support family expenses and save money to buy a house, she scrimped and saved, did not wear makeup, did not travel, did not buy brand-name clothes and bags, and gritted her teeth to live. As a result, she saved more than 200 thousand. The down payment is still 65438+ ten thousand.

The more I think about it, the angrier I get. Sister Xi can't stand it any longer. She began to anger her mother-in-law:

Sorry, your wishful thinking has failed! Don't take my contribution for granted, how selfish you are, how chilling I am! I don't want to buy a house and I don't want your son!

My mother-in-law thinks it is incredible. How can a daughter-in-law who has always been honest and obedient know that she is crazy? She continued to attack:

What? You mean you want a divorce? Your heart is really cruel, you can't leave! You have the fragrance of our family in your stomach. Besides, you still have to buy a house. We'll try to get you 20 thousand, and you can borrow tens of thousands online, okay? You don't want your child to be born without a home, do you?

Sister Xi was stunned by what her mother-in-law said. On the verge of divorce, this woman still cares about her "wallet" and even instigates her to get a loan. It's too overbearing and terrible.

Obviously, my mother-in-law doesn't agree to divorce because she wants to keep her at her mother-in-law's house, continue to squeeze her, exploit her and empty her!

She realized that the more she paid, the more she was occupied. She told herself:

From then on, I would rather be a single mother with no one to follow than a lamb to be slaughtered.

After all, she is not a fool, nor Lei Feng, nor a philanthropist.

Bian Xiao's words

Poverty alleviation marriage, like a vampire, gnaws at your value.

It is also like a bottomless pit, devouring everything you have.

We don't object to your naked marriage, your marriage with love, and your being with a person who has nothing.

I just want to tell you that no matter how much you give, no matter how much you forbear, no matter how much you give for love, you may lose hope.

Why do you think of him as a lover who supports each other for life, but he thinks of you as an ATM that is constantly squeezed at both ends for three days?

Entering marriage, both sides want to get better and better. What's the point of this marriage if it gets worse and worse, even if it is hollowed out by the other party?

Naked marriage is easy for a while, but difficult for a lifetime. How many 8 years can a woman have, how much selfless courage, and how much capital to lose everything?

So, don't get married because you hate it;

Don't think that the cakes painted by men can really satisfy hunger;

Don't let yourself fall into a poverty-stricken marriage again.

Love is precious, and naked marriage needs to be cautious!