Because women in the marriage market are no longer mortals. They regard themselves as "fairies" and believe that men must obey them unconditionally.

Recently, Zhang posted marriage information on the Douban platform. In the marriage information, he introduced himself as a slash young man. In addition to teaching in a second college, he also taught competitions and wrote programs. Now, with a monthly income of 50,000 yuan, he lives in his hometown and has only one requirement for choosing a mate: he is willing to develop in the Jinzhong area of ??Taiyuan, Shanxi. This marriage proposal was accompanied by Zhang's personal life photos. From the life photos, we can see that he is a man about 1.7 meters tall, fat but sunny.

But such a normal piece of dating information actually attracted feminist siege on the Douban platform. They said that Zhang was a sign of "mental poverty" and a representative of an overconfident man who was not worthy of having a girlfriend. These feminists themselves have a salary of 3,000 yuan, but they are over 1.5 meters tall, but they require their boyfriends to be over 1.8 meters tall, earn hundreds of thousands a month, and buy cars and houses unconditionally. In addition, their names must be added to the real estate certificate, which is simply a fantasy. Such a morbid marriage and love market did not form overnight. I think this has something to do with the long-term imbalance of middle school education.

Professor Zheng Qiang once said that the biggest problem in middle school education is that it has greatly damaged the self-esteem of Chinese men. Indeed, in feudal society for thousands of years, women have always been the vassals of men. After liberation, women's status has increased. "Women hold up half the sky" is the best portrayal of the rise in women's social status. Therefore, it is expected that women's status will rebound to a certain extent. among. However, with the continuous improvement of the level of social development, secondary education is increasingly biased towards women, which is an important reason why the marriage and love market is so pathological.

I believe many of my friends have seen the video of the Internet celebrity? Vicious tongue? Matchmaker. She said: Every girl should buy a flashlight and take a clear picture of herself before going on a blind date. Don’t make 3,000 a month. , who is over 1.5 meters tall, asked the man to buy a house and a car. In today's marriage and love market, many women say this sentence with a very confident tone: If you love me, you must love my family unconditionally and give to my family unconditionally. This is not talking about marriage, at least it is not a blind date as expected in the normal marriage market.

There is nothing wrong with Zhang’s posting of marriage information on the Douban platform, and he did not make any radical remarks in his marriage information. He only showed his progress over the past year and his current income. Due to the mismatch between his appearance and income, he has attracted some feminist attacks, but I believe he will find a girlfriend who loves him.