What do boys with inferiority dare not take the initiative to do? Every child has his own bright spot, but children with inferiority will deny and belittle themselves too much, raise others, and can't look at themselves and the people and things around them objectively.

? What should boys with inferiority do if they dare not take the initiative?

? If parents want a boy with low self-esteem to regain his confidence, try to do the following:

1, do more encouraging communication and give boys positive self-psychological hints.

Spend more time, communicate with children, understand their inner thoughts and respect them. No matter what your child is thinking, look for the positive side and say something encouraging. Every time you observe your child's small progress, you should cheer for him and build your child's self-confidence. Psychologist Carnegie said: I want to win, I will win, I will win. Psychological suggestion is very important for children. When you guide your child to think in the direction of success, he will work hard in that direction and even a little success will be praised.

2. Help boys change the habit of using negative language.

Children with inferiority always like to say "I can't do it" and "I will fail". At this time, parents can help boys analyze their own advantages and try to say "I can do it" and "I can do it". Can do "and other sentences. Set goals that children can achieve, and with more successful experience, children will naturally reduce those negative words and lower their self-esteem.

3. Help boys establish equal peer relationships.

For example, a boy has vitiligo. He used to be an optimistic and cheerful child. As his illness worsened, his mottled skin was seen by his classmates and people began to laugh at him. The students play together.

In fact, in this case, parents can turn to schools and teachers for help. Many children laugh at him, not because they are full of malice, but because they don't understand the disease or physical defects. Under the education of teachers, in a friendly school environment, especially young students will not only become friendly, but even lend a hand of friendship, so that different children can make more friends. Friendly relations between peers can reduce children's inferiority complex.

4. Lead children into a comfortable social circle.

For children with low self-esteem, many people will suggest: expanding social interaction and cultivating children's communicative competence. However, blindness must be avoided when expanding social communication. When encouraging children to participate in group activities, it is not appropriate to interfere with their social activities too much. Only in the circle where he feels comfortable can he really open his heart, gain real friendship and restore optimism and self-confidence. Don't force your child to join the circle that parents think can improve him. In an uncomfortable circle, it may hit the child's heart.