1. Our eyes always look too much at the outside world and too little at the soul.
2. The secret of happiness that Confucius can teach us is how to find your inner peace.
3. Everyone hopes to live a happy life, but happiness is just a feeling, which has nothing to do with wealth and poverty, but is connected with the heart.
4. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the appropriateness of interaction with others, let yourself become a person who makes others happy, and let your happy heart become an energy source like sunshine to radiate others, Warm others, let family, friends and even the wider society gain a little reason to be happy from themselves.
5. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom.
6. Bravery without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.
7. In fact, what is a teacher? I have a student, and a small gift she gave me made me understand what a teacher is.
A little girl made a gift for me under the quilt with a flashlight during military training, because she wanted to give it to me on my birthday. She gave it to me with one injection. I embroidered a small cross-stitch on the ground and put it in a plexiglass cover and gave it to me. I didn't understand it when I was looking at it. What I saw was a very elegant woman embroidered in it, bending over and holding a needle, and then there was a dirty little child with a snotty nose underneath. Then she raised her arm and she was grabbing the needle. Child's arms. I also asked this girl, I said oh, what is she doing, is she giving him vaccinations? Then the little girl laughed and said you can see for yourself, and she left.
Later I took out a letter from the glass cover and folded it very small. In that letter, she told me that in fact, every child is an angel who fell to the ground. On the ground because their wings were broken, so before he forgot about the sky, he always wanted to find the person who could sew his wings. This requires that no one in the adult world laughs at the youthfulness, recklessness, and abruptness of these children, but can tolerate them, love them, and encourage them to sew their wings and remember the sky again. She said that when I met you, it was actually I met a man who mended wings for angels.
In fact, I think this is the best explanation of the role of teacher so far.
8. The so-called experience is "experience it with your body and test it with your blood." It is a very profound infiltration.
9. Enlightenment is a long process. Continuous enlightenment and experience are a kind of ritual in your heart.
10. In my opinion, whether it is Zhuangzi or Confucius, all the theories of ancient sages and sages that apply to individual life have only one purpose, which is to maximize people’s happiness. As long as you feel in your heart If you are awake, full, and have a sense of happiness, then I think this is one of the meanings of sages.
11. The real cultural classics are the kind of things that can be extremely profound, but they can also be extremely simple. Its profoundness is its spiritual connotation, and its simplicity is its surface form. Simplicity and profundity are sometimes not contradictory.
12. There is a principle in communication, that is, you should always keep it very simple or even silly, so that it can be easily spread. If you make it particularly profound, , it can’t be spread. The premise of redistribution is to make it simple and stupid.
13. My father taught me that everything starts from the source.
14. I like to divide life into two levels: the life level and the survival level, and the bigger they are, the clearer they can be. The so-called life level is what you should stick to in your heart; and the so-called survival level is what you need to make achievements in reality.
15. As a person, when you are young, you have the responsibility to transform your knowledge into productivity. You cannot say that you can go away alone when you are young. In fact, this kind of non-conformity will make people lose a sense of value realization, and you will also be quite irresponsible.
16. Life is actually the barrel effect. You should never ask about your highest level - what is better about you, and your lowest level should be considered the most.
17. One of my favorite passages in "Zhuangzi" is: "To praise someone in the world without admonishing them, to criticize them in the world without discouraging them is to determine the distinction between inside and outside, to argue between honor and disgrace. That's it. Yu Dan's classic quotations from Chicken Soup for the Soul, Yu Dan's insights from The Analects of Confucius
"The Way of the Soul"
If you can let go, be tolerant and leave yourself a brighter future
Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. Giving is more satisfying than receiving.
There is a clear joy in everyone's heart.
Faith. The power of love is enough to unite a country.
Our joyful attitude towards life is the highest tribute to classics.
To be a person of faith in this world. Smart people may be a choice.
The pride of a gentleman is a kind of broad-minded courage born from virtue and benevolence. Become calm and brave in your heart.
Be a brave person and use the power of your life to resolve the regrets in your life.
Our eyes look too much at the outside and too much at the inside. Less. Expand the world infinitely externally, and discover the inner world infinitely deeply.
The most important time is now; the most important thing is what you need to do now; the most important person is the one who needs your help. People. Realism and idealism are beliefs born from the earth. Idealism is not pragmatism.
Too many choices, so happiness. It has nothing to do with poverty and is connected with the heart.
"The Way to Make Friends"
Instead of fighting with others, it is better to fight with your own abilities.
The soul is pushed by what you gain. Satisfaction will eventually become a pain in life.
Technology is never the ultimate guarantee, and people's rationality to avoid danger is the most fundamental prerequisite.
Your indecisiveness lies in overdoing it. Waste your life energy.
Make friends who enjoy life in poverty and happiness.
Making good friends requires kindness and wisdom. There are two prerequisites: one is willingness, and the other is willingness. Ability.
Tao Yuanming plays the music of the soul. Happiness in life has nothing to do with material things. Real happiness comes from the soul, education and longing.
Choose a friend. Just choose a way of life, open up a friendly world, and have a radiant life.
The prerequisite for making friends is to cultivate your character and ask yourself whether you are a benign element or an inert element. What kind of friend.
Opportunity is a monster. When it comes to you, you have doubts, but when you pass by, you can never catch it.
A good friend is a book that can open up a world. Create a good life; friends are a mirror that can reflect your own reflection. Tolerance is the most profound virtue in the world.
Excessive criticism is not as lasting as the power of tolerance.
A kind of light reflected in the care for every plant, every tree, every flower and every leaf.
It is also a bad thing for a person to burn a rage.
A friend is someone who is clear and rational and keeps you away from danger, and is an open-minded and magnanimous person who makes people happy.
"The Way of Life"
When you are forty, you will not be confused, and your heart will not be troubled.
Do what you want without going overboard.
Only by establishing an inner value system can pressure be turned into tension in life.
Knowing destiny means having the inner determination to resist the temptation of the outside world.
The extremely brilliant has turned into dullness.
Being obedient means being compassionate, understanding and tolerant of others. The state of being alone and seeking defeat.
Good learning is learning that leads to behavioral change.
Standing at thirty is to build spiritual confidence. It is a spiritual standard. Clear and introspective, confident and firm. Determine what standards you should hold for what you have done in your life.
The fewer material things there are, the easier it is for people to be confused.
Respect others with the utmost respect, understand what others do from their starting point, and have a compassionate attitude. Rain can only occur when two clouds meet at the same height.
"The Ideal Way"
We are accustomed to our roles and perform happily in them.
All external forms are for inner settlement.
Ideal is what a person cares about most in his life, and it is a kind of spiritual sustenance.
The ideal way gives us a starting point and reserves a little energy for our souls.
Everyone has his or her own Da Vinci Code, finding a symbolic sustenance. Find your inner base, give yourself a little spiritual ritual every day, believe that our ideals are rooted, and let us all be quiet students in front of Confucius's table.
We do not lack grand ideals, but we lack practical paths to our ideals.
A successful career is not necessarily what you have in mind.
Things that seem worthless on the surface will give you a calm starting point.
Go to nature. Don’t pursue material luxury, pursue spiritual luxury.
The power of ideas is one of the greatest forces in the world.
"How to Live in the World"
Life is limited, and life has an end. Leave limited emotions where they should be used most.
The highest and most beautiful state of life is: before the flowers are fully bloomed and the moon is not full, you have expectations in your heart.
Confucius’s four-word way of doing things: going too far is not enough.
Confucius believed that it is worth advocating to repay grievance with straightness and to use virtue to achieve virtue.
The desolation of the spiritual environment and the waste of life energy are a waste of spiritual resources.
Confucius’ cautionary words: It’s like walking on thin ice when facing an abyss.
Let your own happiness become an energy source to illuminate the world, warm others, and give our loved ones a reason to find some comfort in ourselves.
Distance and independence are respects for personality, and this distance should also be maintained among the people closest to you.
The most appropriate distance is to keep each other warm without hurting each other.
Think more, think more, see more, blame less, complain less, and regret less.
In our world, many times what we do is the icing on the cake, but in fact, what we need more is to provide timely help. All love aims at gathering, but only one kind of love aims at separation, and that is the love of parents for their children. Tantrum boy: You can apologize to someone but it will always leave a hole in their heart.
"The Way of a Gentleman"
A villain is a person who does not have a broad vision and seizes the advantage in front of him.
Perseverance and determination are the criteria for a person to be close to a gentleman.
A gentleman who is great will help the world, and a poor man will be good for himself.
The Bible says: The three things that cannot be chased in the world are words spoken, arrows shot, and opportunities lost.
Classical beauty is a kind of harmonious beauty.
The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of words.
The standard of a gentleman: a kind person, a noble person, and a person who is easy to get along with.
Confucius said: A benevolent man has no worries, a wise man has no confusion, and a brave man has no fear.
Starting from self-cultivation, a true gentleman will be the best version of himself from now on. Yu Dan's classic quotations
Yu Dan's classic quotations:
1. Our eyes always look too much at the outside world and too little at the soul.
2. The secret of happiness that Confucius can teach us is how to find your inner peace.
3. Everyone hopes to live a happy life, but happiness is just a feeling, which has nothing to do with wealth and poverty, but is connected with the heart.
4. With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the appropriateness of interaction with others, let yourself become a person who makes others happy, and let your happy heart become an energy source like sunshine to radiate others, Warm others, let family, friends and even the wider society gain a little reason to be happy from themselves.
5. Caring for others is kindness; understanding others is wisdom. Positive Quotations
6. Bravery without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.
7. In fact, what is a teacher? I have a student, and a small gift she gave me made me understand what a teacher is.
A little girl, when she was in military training, she used a flashlight to make a gift for me under the quilt because she wanted to give it to me on my birthday. She gave it to me with one injection. I embroidered a small cross-stitch on the ground and put it in a plexiglass cover and gave it to me. I didn't understand it when I was looking at it. What I saw was a very elegant woman embroidered in it, bending over and holding a needle, and then there was a dirty little child with a snotty nose underneath. Then she raised her arm and she was grabbing the needle. Child's arms. I also asked this girl, I said oh, what is she doing, is she giving him vaccinations? Then the little girl laughed and said you can see for yourself, and she left.
Later I took out a letter from the glass cover and folded it very small. In that letter, she told me that in fact, every child is an angel who fell to the ground. On the ground because their wings were broken, so before he forgot about the sky, he always wanted to find the person who could sew his wings.
This requires that no one in the adult world laughs at the youthfulness, recklessness, and abruptness of these children, but can tolerate them, love them, and encourage them to sew their wings and remember the sky again. To say that I met you is actually to meet a person who sews wings for angels.
In fact, I think this is the best explanation of the role of teacher so far.
8. The so-called experience is to experience it with the body and test it with the blood. It is a very profound infiltration.
9. Enlightenment is a long process. Continuous enlightenment and experience are a kind of ritual in your heart.
10. In my opinion, whether it is Zhuangzi or Confucius, all the theories of ancient sages and sages that apply to individual life have only one purpose, which is to maximize people’s happiness. As long as you feel in your heart If you are awake, full, and have a sense of happiness, then I think this is one of the meanings of sages.
11. Real cultural classics are the kind of things that can be extremely profound, but they can also be extremely simple. Its profoundness is its spiritual connotation, and its simplicity is its surface form. Simplicity and profundity are sometimes not contradictory.
12. There is a principle in communication, that is, you should always keep it very simple or even silly, so that it can be easily spread. If you make it particularly profound, , it can’t be spread. The premise of redistribution is to make it simple and stupid.
13. My father taught me that everything starts from the source.
14. I like to divide life into two levels: the level of life and the level of survival, and the bigger they are, the clearer they can be. The so-called life level is what you should stick to in your heart; and the so-called survival level is what you need to make achievements in reality.
15. As a person, when you are young, you have the responsibility to transform your knowledge into productivity. You cannot say that you can go away alone when you are young. In fact, this kind of non-conformity will make people lose a sense of value realization, and you will also be quite irresponsible.
16. Life is actually the barrel effect. You should never ask your highest board what is better about you, and your lowest board should be considered the most.
17. One of my favorite passages in "Zhuangzi" is: To praise someone in the world without admonishing them, to criticize them in the world without discouraging them is to determine the distinction between inside and outside, and to argue between honor and disgrace. Already.
Selected Quotations from Yu Dan
When misfortune strikes, the best way is to let it pass as soon as possible, so that you can free up more time to do more valuable things. Only then will you live more efficiently and be in a better mood.
This little story tells us that there will be many unsatisfactory and even unreasonable things in life. We may not be able to change them with our own personal strength, but we can change our mood and attitude. In a sense, what a person has in his mind is what he sees.
This story applies to each of us.
Think about it, everyone, why do we all live in this world, some people live happily and warmly, while others blame and complain all day long? Are their lives really that far apart?
In fact, it’s like there is half a bottle of wine in front of us. The pessimists say, why is there only half a bottle of such good wine left! Optimists say that there is still half a bottle of such good wine! Different expressions are due to different mentality. A complete collection of Yu Dan's classic sayings A complete collection of Yu Dan's classic sayings
1. Only by establishing your own inner value system can you turn stress into the tension of life
2. Always think about your lover, always If you can't afford your lover's nagging, you should be humble to your lover. A man should be the general manager.
3. The ideal way is to give us some resources to reserve spiritual happiness.
4. The more fierce the competition, the more you need to adjust your mentality and relationships with others.
5. Repaying grievances with directness and repaying kindness with kindness advocates a kind of respect for efficiency and personality in life.
6. The more a person cares about, the more he or she feels inferior.
7. The word crisis, one means danger and the other means opportunity. Don’t give up any effort.
8. The prerequisite for a person's luck is actually his ability to change himself.
9. There is a kind of self-confidence and calmness under the control of rationality in his heart. This is because he has a broad mind and lofty ambitions.
10. When a person does things, he must know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he must have restraint on himself, have firm and uncompromising standards of life in his heart, and at the same time, he must be useful to society and do things for society.
11. Confusion is mostly due to a lack of broad vision. How can a frog in a well know what a vast world means?
12. The Analects of Confucius conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life.
13. Real wealth is a way of thinking, not an income number.
14. Chinese philosophy advocates a kind of solemn rationality and gentle and honest beauty.
15. Learning should be increased, pride should be reduced, opportunities should be multiplied, and laziness should be eliminated.
16. Investing love in one person is risky; investing love in many people is dangerous.
17. In my opinion, a person's development often does not depend on how lofty the ultimate ideal is, but on what kind of starting point there is in front of him. We often don’t lack grand ambitions, but lack the practical path accumulated step by step towards that ambition.
18. Only those who are virtuous and benevolent can truly be brave in spirit.
19. Enemies become comrades mostly for survival, and comrades become enemies mostly for money.
20. It is easy for Chinese people to imitate Americans, but it is difficult for Chinese people to imitate Chinese people.