it is true that many men are like this, but it is not absolute. A competitive man will be like this, because he doesn't want to lose to others. He wants to make his girlfriend live well through his own efforts. When he is at the bottom of his career, he will be very anxious and want to change the status quo as soon as possible. At this time, he probably doesn't want to communicate with some good friends and brothers, including his girlfriend, of course. He really works hard silently, so don't worry too much, just give him support silently. Of course, there are also some men who are good at communication, and even in the trough, they can make their girlfriends understand. Personally, I think this is better.