-"The Past in Jiang Dream"
Many people are familiar with this word, which is Su Shi's mourning for his dead wife Wang Fu. Ten years later, in the sixth year of his marriage with Wang Runzhi, one day was Wang Fu's anniversary. His dreams and soul were disturbed, and he still remembered her dressing under the window of Xiao Xuan. She is affectionate, and she can see it now.
Wang Fu in history is "sensitive and quiet". She studies and remembers extensively. Dongpo is occasionally left behind, and she can also mention something from the side, which is in harmony with Dongpo's harps. Dongpo claimed that "there are no bad people in the world" and said, "My words are unintentional and I have no intimacy with others, so I need to lose my heart." There are endless things, if you are greedy, spit them out, and people will remember to be disreputable ... "It is easy to treat all the people you associate with as good people. Wang's quiet and cautious, and Dongpo's free and open-minded just complement each other.
There is a story of Wang's "listening behind the scenes" in Dongpo's anecdotes, which means that whenever Dongpo has guests, Wang Fu always hides behind the screen and listens with bated breath. But I think it should be some relatives and uncles at home, or irrelevant officials and friends, who come to Dongpo to do business and chat, and occasionally talk about something new during the conversation. It doesn't matter whether the woman listens or not, just because she has gained knowledge. This is naturally Dongpo's open-minded and enlightened place. It was the Song Dynasty, and the whole humanistic thought had been tightened inward since the Tang Dynasty, and the world of women was getting smaller and smaller. Dongpo can treat Wang Fu like this, which shows that he is not an ordinary person.
However, if a bunch of dignitaries come to visit and retreat to the secret room, how can they get a woman to interfere in current affairs behind the scenes? Su Shi, however enlightened, would never do such a thing. As a scholar-bureaucrat, he can't escape the ethical code, even now. In fact, men in China have never seen the slightest change in their bones. In some things, they are so firm that people are afraid, but after the storm, they remain the same.
Often, after the guests left, she often gently advised each other that what she said was well-founded and evidence-based, and even Su Shi was convinced. He won her, and she was a real wife's wife's help. So Su Shi rose to the peak in his early years. In addition to the help of sages such as Ouyang Xiu, the power of "a good wife and less suffering" should not be underestimated. Even Su Xun, Su Shi's old father, was extremely satisfied with this first wife.
I don't remember when I read this song "Jiangchengzi". It should be in the era of infatuation with Hong Kong opera. There is a scene in the TV series in which a woman stands on the edge of a cliff, and the cold wind is bleak. After singing these words, she jumped down and wore a red wedding dress. Looking back, she has Brigitte Lin's unbeaten style. At that moment, I began to cry. These words make people feel sad.
And Jin Yong wrote about Yang Guo. 16 years later, he waited for the little dragon girl in the valley of despair and became old overnight. This is the most traumatic passage in The Condor Heroes. Old Jin Man wrote this-
In an instant, a few words came to mind: "Ten years of life and death are ambiguous, and you will forget it without thinking." A lonely grave thousands of miles away, desolate and nowhere to talk about. Even if we don't know each other, our faces are dusty and our temples are frosty. "This is Su Dongpo's eulogy. Yang Guo devoted himself to martial arts all his life and didn't read much. A few days ago, he happened to see this sentence engraved on the wall of a small hotel in the south of the Yangtze River, but he found it very meaningful and read it casually several times. At this moment, he recalled that he couldn't remember who wrote it. I thought to myself, "He lived and died for ten years, and I was separated from the dragon for sixteen years. He still has a solitary grave and knows where his wife is buried, but I don't even know where her wife is buried. " Then I thought of the second half of the word, which is the scene of the author dreaming of his dead wife one night: "At night, I came home from my dream and Xiao Xuan was dressing up;" "Relatively speechless, only a thousand lines of tears! It is estimated that the annual heartbroken place, tomorrow night, Dwarf Songshan. " I can't help thinking, "and me, and I can't sleep for three days and nights, and I can't even dream!" " "
Whether it is words or images, this passage always makes me cry and never fails. In retrospect, I should have been impressed before I saw The Condor Heroes, so when I watched it later, it was like meeting an old friend, and I had an unparalleled intimacy. I remember another poem "Maibeitang" written by Yuan Haowen, which begins with: "What is love in the world?" It is also because of the propaganda of Jin Yong's novels that it is widely known. It can be seen that martial arts is also good, depending on what people think. In the same way, the world often evaluates Su Shi as an uninhibited ci school. In fact, Zi Zhan's love poems are as pure and elegant as his poems, as gentle and charming as his graceful school, and as rigid as his personality, which is better than one of them, that is, rivers and waters flow east, and no one can refuse to accept them.
He is as talented as Li Bai. Every time a genius is not detained by secular methods, his experiences are often described with a faint pen, but the wind and rain can't detract from his meaning.
Su Shi was affectionate and generous all his life, and he had the happiness and trouble of being calm and calm. Just like pop stars and groupies nowadays, women show kindness every time.
I remember when he was a judge in Hangzhou, one day he hosted a banquet with his friends by the West Lake. Coming from a distance, a colorful boat, with a woman in her thirties, is beautiful in light makeup. When the woman arrived on Su Shi's boat, she reported her family background: "My little girl has heard of Su's high surname since she was a child. I heard that you came to visit the West Lake on purpose today, and you were not afraid that your parents-in-law would accuse me of being unruly. See you today.
You, it's really an honor. Nothing can express my admiration. My little daughter is good at playing guzheng. Let me play a song for you today. "Say, she played a tune, the piano sounds like complaining. Her noble and refined bearing and superb skills touched everyone present.
After the woman presented this piece of music, she begged Su Shi to say, "My little girl is really lucky to see Su Gong today. I just want you to give me a little word as the glory of my life. I wonder if you can promise? " Su Shi is not good at refuting her kindness and immediately wrote a poem:
Phoenix Mountain Chu Qing is rainy, the water is clear and the sunset is bright. A lotus flower is still blooming. Where do the double herons fly? Mu Pingting if you are interested. Suddenly, I heard that there was mourning for Zheng on the river, which was bitter and affectionate. Who will be sent to monitor? Smoke gathers in the clouds, which is auspicious according to the agreement. I want to wait for the end of the song, but I don't see anyone. Count the peaks.
-"Jiangchengzi"
According to the Yuan Dynasty's "Nv Hong Yu Zhi", there was a woman in Huizhou who refused to get married at the age of fifteen. When I heard that Su Shi had arrived in Huizhou, I said happily, "This is my husband." Wandering outside Su Shi's window every day, listening to his poems. Later, Su Shi found that he admired himself and was afraid of inconvenience, so he left Huizhou in a hurry.
A few years later, he revisited his hometown and heard that Chaochao was dead and buried in the sand. Deeply moved, he wrote a song for her, "Buji, Hang the Moon and Sparse the Trees"-
The curved hook moon hangs on the sparse buttonwood; In the dead of night, the water from the water clock has been dripping. Who saw you alone, Hong Ying. At night, it suddenly becomes afraid, suddenly flies and comes back frequently, but no one always understands its infinite inner feelings. It kept wandering among the cold branches, but refused to perch on any tree, and finally landed alone on the cold shoal.
Some people have commented that Dongpo's "Bu Operator" has the unique advantages of "lofty meaning, ethereal brushwork and simple language", which is "the uniqueness of Poxian". The lightness of "Dominating the World" is different from the brilliance of the bright moon in the sky, the grandeur of "Niannujiao River does not return" and the heroic agitation of "Hunting in Jiangchengzi Mizhou".
But between him and Chao Chao, just like the meeting of stars and fans, it looks sexy and pleasing to the eye, causing the parties to daydream, just like catkins in the spring breeze, disappearing, but never falling into the painting hall again.
These women are just an episode in his life. It's not heartless or unlucky, but we will meet many people in our life. How many can really stop? Life is a ferry that will eventually be barren, and even we ourselves are passers-by. He can't even keep Chao Chao, let alone Wang Fu.
Wang Fu died at the age of 26. Four years after his death, Su Shi remarried. I only think he is good, and so is the wife who continues to marry. She has a gentle personality. Contentment and cherish happiness are none other than Wang's cousin, also surnamed Wang, who is called "Twenty-seven Niang" at home. Leap respected this brother-in-law since childhood, and I don't feel wronged to marry him after my sister died. The twenty-six years that she accompanied Su Shi were the most important in his life. Su Shi's career has been ups and downs, and she has deep feelings for him. When Dongpo was detained again, he died in the capital. After leap's death, Su Shi stopped marrying, leaving Chaoyun to serve him until his death.
Now it is no longer stubborn to think that it is commendable for a person to love only one person in his life. In fairy tales, the prince always loves only the princess. This is a fairy tale, so keep it pure. The reality is that the princess and the prince have grown up slowly, and people will gradually drift away from each other. The castle has fallen, and the pink roses have faded.
Wang Runzhi must know that Su Shi wrote Jiangchengzi. He can't bear to be jealous and complain. A person, for another person, his (her) position in his (her) heart is irreplaceable by anyone. The image of future generations should not overlap with that of ancestors, and each has its own position.
Love should be so open-minded, bright and winding. So, ten years later, he still remembers Wang Fu dressing under her window, weeping silently in front of her grave and feeling sad everywhere. He didn't live up to expectations before his death, but after his death, he said he was lovesick and wrapped himself in gorgeous words. Such love is deep and pure. It doesn't matter how many times you get married. He can always say that you are my beloved wife.
Cherish every lover, there is no vague substitute for each other, and you clearly know who you need and what you need. If you love only one person when you love, don't have side things to get involved. This love is like a relic, a golden treasure.
Male, not Yang Guo, female, not little dragon girl, what qualifications do we have to ask for perfect love? Keep it for the sake of keeping it. Finally, if you love it, you might as well let it go and leave three feet of space for each other to miss.
Read "Jiangchengzi" and everything in Su Shi and my heart.
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