Although there is indeed a saying that the five elements are mutually reinforcing and interfering, this has a certain scientific basis. Let’s take the earth element and the wood element as an analogy. The wood will slowly grow in the process of growth. The earth is drilled out, so the ancients believed that wood restrains earth. Therefore, many people would say that people born by earth and people born by wood are restrained. In fact, it is far from this level. If this is really the case, then we Just don’t make friends, because according to the Five Elements, there are factors that are mutually reinforcing and incompatible in many places. People born with earth are not necessarily unsuitable for people born with wood, because under normal circumstances, it depends on other factors, such as horoscope predictions. There are only two words that represent destiny in science, and there are still 6 words that need to be carefully considered. In addition, let’s put aside superstition and pay attention to the following points when interacting with others:
1. Learn to think from others’ perspective
First of all, the first thing we need to pay attention to is that if you want to interact well with others, you must learn to think from others’ perspective. A master of interpersonal relations once said, As long as everyone learns to think from others' perspective, the friction between us will be minimized. Therefore, often thinking from others' perspective can help us establish good interpersonal relationships. It doesn't matter what life he is.
2. Don’t worry about everything
Having a magnanimous mind is one of the most important ways to help us establish interpersonal relationships, so I suggest that you don’t worry about anything, especially in For colleagues at work, this is even more important. Being fussy will not only make others think you are stingy, but it is also not conducive to our cohesion.
3. Seek help appropriately
In the process of interpersonal communication, it is not good for us to help others blindly, because from a psychological point of view, everyone hopes to Making friends under equal conditions, if we seek help from others appropriately, it will also help us establish good interpersonal relationships, so don't be afraid to ask others, and ask others to help us generously.