Hello everyone! In the busy junior high school year, I am honored to have this opportunity to speak here. We are in the third year, similar to the revolution, and the initial stage has made us weather-beaten. In this school year, which is full of confusion for us, many question marks are always issued in our minds. We are walking at the crossroads of life, and we can't help feeling, "What should we do now?" Yes, many of us think about it all the time. We feel very confused, helpless and regretful. I am trapped in my future, helpless now, regretting the forgotten time before. We have to ask ourselves again, "Is it too late?" This is really a serious problem. Even if many people in front of you tell you it's too late, you will still be there thinking about this problem.
It is an undeniable fact that everyone has failed. However, how should we face the failure? Fortunately, the teacher told us the method from primary school, and we all listened to it. We have listened to 1000 times since primary school. But why do many of us still stand still? Because we don't face every failure seriously, we have no experience in facing failure. Failure is terrible. Parents will scold you, teachers will condemn you, and classmates will laugh at you. As soon as this pile of things arrived, we were at a loss Our first reaction was to put it aside and let him talk about it later. But every failure is similar, that is, their effects are similar. Every failure disappoints you and makes you afraid to face it.
There must be more than one failure in a long life, right? From the first failure, we embarked on such a road of no return. If no one corrects you, I'll tell you that this is the way to go when you fail the second time, right? Over time, such cowardly escape has become a habit, and what I did wrong before is always so unbearable. When ambition comes at us, we cheat it and repel it with our conscience. Many times it comes, but we always cheat it and beat it back. It is also a spiritual thing. The blow we gave it made it very timid and afraid of us, so it slowly moved away from us. We seem to recall something at a moment of failure, but we can't remember its name. Its name is self-motivated. When it comes to self-motivation, everyone says yes. What's so good about it? It gives us confidence and makes us face difficulties bravely. It is our loyal friend. It gives us motivation, let us actively open the shackles in our hearts, move forward and move forward, which is the key to our success. It gives us constant care and reminder, and raises every leap of our thoughts. It is a good friend of mankind, and we are really ashamed of it. The most beautiful thing in the sky is the stars, and the most precious thing in the world is friendship. When we leave our most sincere heart to a friend, don't forget that there is such a friend. So how can we get this old friend back? First of all, we must be friends with it again. First of all, we should establish a common hobby, for example, we must face failures and setbacks bravely like it. Then carry forward their own advantages, that is, seriously think about the reasons for failure in the failure and correct it in the right way. An old friend will secretly pay attention to you under your style, and will not be tempted for a while. At this time, we just need to treat you in the same way every time we fail. "The prodigal son never looks back!" It will definitely come back to us. Will we let go again at this time?
The above is a brief introduction to this method of making friends, and we must deeply analyze its conditions. That is, we should establish self-confidence and broaden our horizons. This means that you must look at the world with a philosophical mind. The times need philosophers, the society needs philosophers, and the construction of the motherland needs philosophers even more. As the saying goes, "Smile, it's ten years old. A sorrow, a white! " Time goes by day, happy, time will pass, sad, time will pass. Instead of living in sadness, why not stay happy and live? There are many subjects in grade three, and many people lament that liberal arts are complicated and science is difficult. However, important subjects don't change every year. We have to face them every year. Why can't we watch them with a smile? When magicians use fickle tricks to create all kinds of things, we can't help but wonder how these things came from. After thinking hard for a long time, we still haven't come up with an answer. When we carefully study the people and things around us, or observe them on the spot, it is easy to solve the mystery. Such a ridiculous answer was discovered only when the truth came out, but times have changed. Misleading mentality is a mystery, and it's only our initial misunderstanding that it's discovered after it's uncovered. Therefore, we should cherish time, cherish the present, grasp our own mentality and face a brand-new self with a smile. Gorky said: "It is never too old to learn."
Open your heart and smile at the world. You lost yourself, but you won the world. Since you have chosen a distant place, you are doomed to travel far. I don't think about whether there will be a storm around me. Since the goal is the horizon, I can only leave the world with a smile.
Chapter 2: Face failure with a smile. Speech failure is a word that no one wants to face, and it is also a word that no one will be unfamiliar with. I believe that everyone has failed in the process of growing up, big and small, everyone has failed, and even failed many times. So, what attitude should we take to face failure? At this moment, what I want to say most is: Laugh at failure!
I don't know if you have heard of this story: there is a Hollywood movie star in the United States who was once listed as a "great American" by Time magazine-but he also came out of a series of setbacks and failures. He was born in poverty. When he was a student, his grades were poor. To make matters worse, he was not only born left-handed, but also suffered from dyslexia and was regarded as mentally retarded. At the beginning of his career, he was denied because of his dark skin and unattractive appearance, but he was still confident and said to his family, "Look, I will definitely become a Hollywood superstar within ten years!" " "But it wasn't smooth sailing afterwards: the first" debut "was just a small role that passed without spending a penny. Later, although he appeared in four films, and he also played the leading role in one of them, he failed because of the poor plot and immature performance of the film.
However, all this did not knock him down. He constantly rethought and perfected himself, and finally achieved initial success in 1986' s Top Gun, a film about American navy fighter pilots.
I think, I don't need to say that everyone has already thought that this person is the American Hollywood superstar Tom Cruise.
After listening to this story, did you realize? In fact, success and failure are like a cycle, and there is a close relationship between them. Where there is success, there is failure.
Therefore, there is no need to be pessimistic when we encounter failure. Not only that, we can also laugh! Because, I always thought: God is a girl. Moreover, God is not only a girl, but also a wayward girl. Yes, she likes to play such jokes on us. And all we have to do is stand the test. Even if we lose many battles, we still have to lose many battles. Believe that God is fair, the joke is only temporary, and you will succeed in the end! In fact, it is common for a person to fail, and so is success. All this is like spring blossoms: spring goes and spring comes, and flowers bloom again. When failure is getting closer and success is getting farther away, we should all believe that as long as we keep working hard, success will come again soon.
Here, I call on everyone to remember: even if you fall, you should laugh bravely! Don't hesitate, let's join hands and face failure and success with a smile! I believe our tomorrow will be better. My speech is over. Thank you!
Chapter 3: Face failure with a smile. Laugh at failure. This is a word that everyone doesn't want to face, and it is also a word that everyone will not be unfamiliar with. I believe that everyone has failed in the process of growing up, big and small, everyone has failed, and even failed many times.
So, what attitude should we take to face failure? At this moment, what I want to say most is: Laugh at failure! I don't know if you have heard of this story: there is a Hollywood movie star in the United States who was once listed as a "great American" by Time magazine-but he also came out of a series of setbacks and failures. He was born in poverty. When he was a student, his grades were poor. To make matters worse, he was not only born left-handed, but also suffered from dyslexia and was regarded as mentally retarded.
When he first debuted, he was denied because of his dark skin and ugly appearance ... but he was still full of confidence and said to his family, "Look, I will definitely become a Hollywood superstar in ten years!" " But it wasn't smooth sailing afterwards: the first "debut" was just a small role that passed without spending a penny. Since then, although he appeared in four more films, and he also played the leading role in one of them, he failed because of the poor plot of the film and his immature performance ..... However, all this did not knock him down.
He constantly rethought and perfected himself, and finally achieved initial success in 1986' s Top Gun, a film about American navy fighter pilots. I think, I don't need to say that everyone has already thought that this person is the American Hollywood superstar Tom Cruise. After listening to this story, did you realize? In fact, success and failure are like a cycle, and there is a close relationship between them. Where there is success, there is failure. Therefore, there is no need to be pessimistic when we encounter failure. Not only that, we can also laugh! Because, I always thought: godisagirl. Moreover, God is not only a girl, but also a wayward girl. Yes, she likes to play such jokes on us.
And all we have to do is stand the test. Even if we lose many battles, we still have to lose many battles. Believe that God is fair, the joke is only temporary, and you will succeed in the end! In fact, it is common for a person to fail, and so is success. All this is like spring blooming: spring has gone, spring has come again, and the flowers are blooming again ... When the failure is getting closer and the success is getting farther away, we should all believe that as long as we persist in our efforts, the success will surely come again soon ... I hereby appeal to everyone to remember: laugh bravely even if you fall! Don't hesitate, let's join hands and face failure and success with a smile! I believe our tomorrow will be better. My speech is over. Thank you!
Chapter four: smile at the failed speech and forget the troubles; Smile and start again; Smile and embrace your dreams. Even in the face of failure, as long as we smile all the way to the sun, we can see the dawn ahead. Smile is a "girl without sadness".
The road of life has ups and downs, and there are also storms. When we are caught in this ups and downs, how should we face it? As I said at the beginning, I smiled, threw away all the painful burdens and relaxed myself. At this time, the smile is optimistic and open-minded-thinking that failure is just an exercise, gritting your teeth and trying your best to fight, cutting through the thorns with an optimistic sword and waving all the way forward. Face everything with a smile, you will become brave and strong, and your steps will become easier and easier; Face everything with a smile, and you will find that everything is under your control and you are getting closer and closer to success. Smiling is the driving force of progress. Failure is a comma for the strong and a period for the weak. The chapter of my life should not end hastily because of a failure, but should stand up again and continue to write a better chapter. Liu Xiang, an Asian trapeze, was once the pride of China, but after numerous successes and glories, failure also entered his life relentlessly. Hundreds of millions of people are waiting for the prosperous Olympic Games in 2008, but their expectations for the motherland are dimmed by Liu Xiang's retirement. Because of the serious leg injury, it failed to live up to the expectations of the people of the whole country and even the whole of Asia, and the reports of crying for it were also extreme. In this regard, the tough guy clarified: "I didn't cry, and there is no need to cry. This is not necessarily a bad thing. I think it may become a good thing and become part of my life experience. " Liu Xiang's relief is amazing. I believe he will regain his heroic spirit on the runway and become a strong man. Sure enough, Liu Xiang lived up to expectations and took the lead in the 20 16 competitions, once again proving himself to the world. Failure, in fact, is not so terrible, smile, nothing can pass, smile focuses on getting up again, losing only hesitation and hesitation, winning perseverance and unyielding. Success is often accompanied by perseverance and unyielding. In the past, maybe I was too.
Pursuing perfection, the dictionary is full of words: champion, first, best ... a failure in a competition, a failure in an exam, and a mistake in performance, all of which have plunged me into a melancholy swamp. The more melancholy, the more frustrated; The more lost, the more painful; The more painful I am, the more I struggle ... fortunately, a reminder from the teacher and a motto in the book made me wake up in time. "Winning or losing is a common thing for military strategists", "There is no best, only better", "There is no doubt about mountains and rivers" and "Just ask about cultivation, don't ask about harvest" ... I began to set off calmly at another starting line. Walk forward fearlessly with a smile, all the way to the sun, and the flower of victory is about to bloom brilliantly! In life, someone will always say to me, "Hey, Feng Zixiong, you can't. You can't beat others, you can't even beat yourself. " If it were someone else, I think most of them would be frustrated by it, hesitate and hesitate. Everyone who knows me knows that I always keep a smile on my face, which even becomes my characteristic. I believe that a smile is not only an expression, but also an attitude. A frozen smile is like a landscape painting that appreciates both refined and popular tastes. It is subtle and gentle, like spring breeze, blowing away the haze, leaving the sunshine in your heart, and making you wake up tomorrow and be full of enthusiasm again. I have read some books. In books with different themes, smile is an eternal melody. When the faces of the sages gradually peel off on the cover, they often find a smile.
I still remember Esmeralda smiling at Tahimodo at Notre Dame de Paris. For a deformed freak, this is a change, wave to him. I still remember armand's smile at Margaret in La Traviata. For a fallen girl, this is a Xinsheng Duan coming towards her. I still remember that in Uncle Tom's cabin, in the face of the dark oppression of slave owners, Tom never forgot to smile. I think this is his infinite yearning for freedom. I still remember Anne, a girl from Het Achterhuis, secretly laughing in the middle of the night when she was chased by the Germans. I think this is her strong desire for life. I still remember that in Robinson Crusoe and Gulliver's Travels, Robinson and Gulliver chose to greet the next morning with a smile, even though they unfortunately drifted to an uninhabited island or an unusual giant country. I think the smile at this time is a kind of strength, an invisible but solid strength. Needless to say, Helen Keller was physically disabled, strong-willed and smiled all her life. What shocked me even more was an Australian disabled youth named nick vujicic. He has no limbs, but he has a positive, optimistic and open-minded heart. He believes that his life can be wonderful.
Speaking all over the world, he always said, "The biggest deception in the world is that you think you are worthless." In this way, year after year, he always writes the sunshine smile on his face, as if it also shines into your heart. In Life Without Limbs, he wrote, "I hope everyone who is down and out can, like me, choose to face life with a smile after hugging me." A disabled person can do this. What reason do we have to frown? Think about the shocking Auschwitz concentration camp. Many war correspondents said there was no sunshine, but I saw a child clearly in a news picture. A child with eight teeth in the concentration camp smiled. I think this is more dazzling sunshine, but it makes me feel a little distressed. Smile, although the rich are rich, they refuse to abandon them. The poor are poor, but no one can give them. He can give relief to those who are physically and mentally exhausted, and also give courage to those who are desperate. As I said, smiling is an attitude. He is sincere, not trying to smile.
In this complicated world, I laugh at other people's fame and fortune. I covet happiness for half my life, but I have learned how to defeat the enemy without fighting. Who speaks softly and spends half his life alone, I wonder whether to laugh at persistence. A person's life is a one-way trip, and no one can guarantee to accompany you all the way to the end. Smiling is one of them. A person's life is inevitably unlucky, and his life is full of fate. When Xun Mei's feelings of walking through the snow drift away with the third floor of Yangguan, it is inevitable that he will be poor, and the wind and frost will carry him on the road. He will still cry and be depressed, as if his poems were abolished, and he will market the bitter rain of hating Taiwan, as if he were in an array of sadness, and his voice will break the smoke of the sunset. Tagore, an oriental poet, mentioned in his Birds that "if you lose the sun and shed tears, you will also lose the stars." Einstein told us that "pain is in a pessimistic sigh and sunshine is in a philosophical smile." And I want to say, you might as well give yourself a smile when you are in trouble and tell yourself that the sunshine is always after the storm, and give yourself a smile when you are confused. Maybe that person is in the dim light. In Narcissus' Law, Edwards' daughter told her that if she is willing to do it, it is not too late, and everything will start tomorrow. And I want to say, smiling doesn't need you to wait for a long time, raise your mouth with me, from now on!