1. The issue of personal charisma
This type of person may be the kind of "heartthrob" type of person we say as the saying goes, with extremely strong personal charisma. To a large extent, it is the charm exuded by his temperament. As soon as others see his conversation and demeanor, they are very willing to interact with him.
2. From a scheming point of view, some people are all-rounders, good at pleasing others and good at pleasing others. This is actually a kind of ability, which can be used both ways.
3. Due to personality reasons, some people are unwilling to take the initiative to communicate. People with very passive personalities will feel embarrassed when talking to strangers. No matter how good their external conditions are, they will still be embarrassed. It is difficult to expand one's circle.
4. The problem of aura. In life, we often see that A and B have a good relationship, B and C have a good relationship, but A and C have a good relationship. It's hard to explain. Your feast is like chaff to me. That's why everyone grows up in a different environment and looks at problems from different angles. It is inevitable that they will treat their relationships with others differently.
Try to learn how to communicate: strive to create your own external environment and internal environment.
External environment: First of all, you must have a positive, energetic, clean and tidy image. No one wants to associate with a person who looks decadent or who looks like a drug addict.
Secondly, you should practice your ability to deal with others, pay more attention to common sense of etiquette, and try to understand other people's temperament and habits. This should be explored slowly.
Internal environment, strengthen self-cultivation, improve one's own quality, and increase one's own aura. Read more books, learn more new knowledge, think more about problems, exercise more, and maintain a good condition. In this way, with a good foundation and deep physical fitness, you will naturally be able to handle interpersonal relationships with ease.