1. Generally speaking, there are no fairies who are out of touch. Everyone thinks he is above and out of reach. In fact, she is as ordinary as us, doing what we are all doing tomorrow and worrying about the surrounding environment. It's not villas, luxury cars or ten-carat diamonds that can impress them. For them, the real luxury is the kind of long-lost touch that can touch their hearts.
Don't think that you can buy love by cheating. No matter how perfect the scam is, there are flaws, and no matter how careful the lie is, it will be exposed. Whether you are good or bad, poor or rich, women are eager to see the true side of men, and cheating on women will not end well. Therefore, generally speaking, don't offend women, even if they are as docile as sheep on weekdays, they may actually become savage girlfriends at any time.
Generally speaking, everyone is eager to experience an encounter. How many of those fates and coincidences have been rehearsed in my mind for dozens or hundreds of times? Find the right time, the right place, the right way, and meet unexpectedly. I believe the story of snail girl. If you can't give him anything but love, then be his shadow, pay for him silently, do the little things that are ignored by others, persist, and have no regrets.
Generally speaking, before pursuing a person, you must do your homework and know her preferences and living habits. If she likes watching art movies, you must take her to a gunfight movie. If she doesn't touch seafood, you have to take her to eat Australian lobster. She is afraid of sunshine, but you must take her to the seaside. In the end, it must have ended in discord. Refreshing and pleasing to the eye, not only refers to the appearance, but also includes the dress. She is small and fresh. You can choose the English style. If she is a rock star, she will add fur or rivet ornaments to herself. If she is a fashionista, she should read more magazines and know the most cutting-edge pop elements. I don't know if clothes like ours taste ok.
Generally speaking, a man's sense of responsibility is very important. There are many temptations from outside, including honey juice and traps. In the end, you lose far more than you gain. It's easy to lay mines around you, but mine clearance is not that simple. It is always the most dangerous time bomb. Don't touch the bottom line of marriage and don't get yourself into trouble. Fashion doesn't mean high-end, just like cell phone ringtones, it's the easiest to expose your little preferences. The divine comedy is funny, but if it is on a formal occasion, the mobile phone suddenly sounds the most dazzling national style.
6. If you can't give her anything but love, be her shadow. Hold on, don't complain, and one day she will find you and what you have done for her. Love can be vigorous or quiet. Women seem strong, but they are fragile. They are eager to be cared for. The male chauvinism they have always insisted on is completely unworkable in their eyes. Therefore, it is better to put down the so-called face and show the delicate and considerate side of men.
7. The atmosphere of dating is also very important. You should make both people feel relaxed, especially when they meet for the first time. As a man, first of all, you should be a gentleman, so you should choose the location of the date in a prosperous area, as close as possible to the girl's residence, to dispel her concerns, and remember, don't spend too much luxury, and don't make the girl feel pressured. Talk naturally during the date and chat like friends. Don't be too enthusiastic, keep asking questions, don't be too serious and calm, don't be too cool and don't show off your knowledge. She doesn't need an encyclopedia. Find topics that interest her and guide her to talk more. Of course, if she is more interested in food, I suggest you give her more dishes. I believe you will have a very successful date if you do these things well.
Generally speaking, the first condition for a successful date is to have enough self-confidence. If you don't find yourself attractive, others certainly don't think so. Get rid of those negative thoughts in the deepest part of your heart, know yourself correctly and strengthen your advantages. Before you met me, you could forgive me if you didn't know how to pretend to be beautiful, but now listen carefully, don't just wear wild models, don't think it's fashionable, it will definitely look good. You should choose clothes that suit you, not the latest, change clothes. Unified style will cause visual fatigue. Think about it. In addition, proper nudity, such as V-neck brother, can also attract people's attention. Of course, girls who are slim but not plump enough should avoid this kind of dressing, and choose tight hip skirts and sleeveless tops to highlight their advantages. In short, you must remember that what suits you is the best.
Generally speaking, men's thinking is too rational and women's thinking is too emotional. If you want to impress a girl, you must love her in the way she wants, and bring some small romances and surprises, such as suddenly appearing at the door of her company after work, taking her to see a fireworks on a memorial day, preparing a meal for her on a rest day, a big dinner and so on. There is not a woman who doesn't like flowers and sends them from time to time.
10. Romance is not equal to high consumption. Girls pay attention to details, a firm hug and a warm look can make them feel like a deer. Girls need you to take responsibility more than those sweet words. When men walk, protect them in their arms and block the cold air for them. How can she not be moved by such delicate protection? There is a saying that details determine success or failure, and there are too many ways to move a girl. This practice is only part of it. Pay attention to her and make her feel. For example, when you are walking in the street together, you suddenly pull her to stop and push an eyelash under her eyelids for her. This action is just a trivial matter between your fingers, but it fully shows that you have paid 100% attention to her. If she hadn't watched and peeked at you carefully, no woman could have resisted men's cheating.
165438+ In general, it is also a good anti-fraud measure to ask the other party for home electricity. If he's hiding something or not single at all, he won't give you a landline at all. Write this down, be careful and bold, and you will definitely find the one that belongs to you in the vast network.
12. Liars are everywhere, and online is the most common. On the dating network, the first priority is to protect yourself, because you don't know who is talking to you at the computer. If you are lucky, you may meet an honest general, but if you are unlucky, you may meet a romantic Yu Ding. Anti-fraud is definitely the most important part of making friends online. You are not eager to meet or exchange phone calls. Communicate more online. If a man really likes you, he is very willing to contact you in any way. On the other hand, if a man just wants to cheat you, he will certainly show a very passive and uncooperative state. So when he leaves quickly, when you feel the other person, give yourself an extra guarantee and confirm the identity of the other person. The method is simple. You can directly ask him for documents that can prove your identity, or your work unit, position, etc. , can be verified. Girls who pay attention everywhere are not easy to be deceived.
13. Dressing is very important, taste is the priority, followed by brand. Try not to choose clothes with huge trademarks. When you go out in a suit, you must look back. If your crotch is a big gap, you can wear black-rimmed glasses, but only if you have temperament, otherwise you can wear metal frames or contact lenses directly. Ipad is a good thing, but it is still a good thing when dating. Liulin height1.73m, Pubian height1.77m and Yu Ding height1.80m. With these four people as coordinates, please take the temperament route if you are shorter than Liulin. Casual clothes are safer between Liulin and Pubian, and between Ding Yu and Pubian. I really envy you. Congenital conditions are so good that you can wear them casually. If you are taller than Ding Yu, the sports style is the most. If you are fat, dress for quality. If you are thin, the more capable you are, the better. Remember, don't be too neat and shiny with small eyes and thin eyebrows, and don't wear a gold chain for a buddy with a righteous face and a gangster face.
14. The time and place of the first date are very important. Considering the type of your date, such as a lady, Xiao Qingxin, a literary fan, a business fan, and a girl with an unknown routine, afternoon tea can never be wrong. Remember to arrive a quarter of an hour early. Meeting in the afternoon has two advantages. A girl can see her face clearly by wearing light makeup. Second, if we have a good chat, we can naturally have dinner together. If you are bored, you can find a reason to leave and prepare for the next game. As for sports and crazy girls, you can invite friends to play and play ball. The key friend you found was used as a foil. They must not be more handsome than you, more temperamental than you, more talkative and better in character than you. You know a friend's wife can't play the most basic principles of being a man. Therefore, it is actually very important to make a few friends with average looks. Zoos, parks, botanical gardens and Expo sites are all very unsuitable for the first date. These parks really can't be reserved. It is really stupid to make an appointment there. Look there, there are so many flowers, dogs and cats. Yes, look there, animals. If you want to stop looking at the plants there, why aren't there any zombies? Send the girl home after the date. If you like her, don't forget to send a message. If you want to be better, you can call her directly. It's okay. Everything is fine. From the experience, Loli is generally planted in the hands of her uncle, her uncle in the hands of her royal sister, her royal sister in the hands of a handsome boy, and her handsome boy in the hands of the Queen. The queen's mood is not necessarily whose hand it is. ( www.duanjuzi.com/oumei/3262.htm )
15. Generally speaking, two people who live near each other are more likely to have a good impression on each other. The proximity of space and meeting again and again provide very convenient conditions for getting to know each other, and also lay a very good foundation for you. If the person you like meets this requirement, then I really envy you. Congratulations, you're halfway there, and the rest is for you to see. First, you need to find the right time. You can seize natural opportunities or create man-made opportunities, but you should remember that both can only be completed after you have a deep understanding of each other.
16. You must find out her hobbies and living habits first. Only in this way can you create a good place, time and environment for this love show in her casual state, and even choose a warm and romantic light for the scene. If you can do this, your love show will be in an excellent state, which will not only help you guide the other person into a moving and warm mood, but also create a very atmospheric environment for the dialogue you want to talk about, so in this environment, your romantic sentences will not appear abrupt, thus making your love show more effective.
17. Generally speaking, there are many reasons for breaking up. His betrayal is not only his problem, but also his own reason. A fox can only seduce a shaken heart. How to keep a love? First of all, believe in love and don't always doubt whether your other half has changed his mind. Misunderstanding is a mistake, but it won't. When some words stay in my heart and some things are unclear, the contradiction will be solved.
18. Which is more important, face or feelings? Most people say the latter, but choose the former. Although their hearts are still tightly tied together, they will never see each other again. Can't you admit your mistake? People are still waiting for your apology. Men will never understand what women say. She said that she likes to hide two meanings, whether she likes it or not, so she may say yes or no, but what she said is not necessarily what she thinks. You never know what she is trying to say. It is better to ask directly than to guess.
19. People generally have rebellious psychology, which leads to the strange phenomenon that they turn a blind eye to love in prosperity and are braver in adversity. Therefore, when the pursuit of the person you like is fruitless for a long time, it is better to try another way. When people are threatened by someone who can't get or lose, they will be more eager to get or afraid of losing, and the meaning and value of this person's existence will be amplified in an instant. Psychologists have found that there is Romeo and Juliet effect in love. In other words, the more the outside world opposes a relationship, the more attractive lovers are in each other's eyes, so the more they can feel strong love for each other. This is an instinct to survive in adversity, so don't blindly pursue it. After giving some attention and showing love, you can love the person you like.
20. Generally speaking, many people like to choose to be indifferent, hot and cold, and keep it in a way that they can't control completely, so that the other party can keep the enthusiasm of chasing, just like two people can't hug each other all the time in a dance. In fact, whether you are reserved or active, if you don't want to miss a relationship, you must seize every opportunity to get along with her. She will not be moved by your silent waiting, nor will she stop chasing happiness because of your persistence. Confess early, don't miss the passion she once lit for you.
2 1. Keep a proper distance and let the other person realize that you are not going to hang yourself on this tree, which may inspire unexpected effects. The success of a relationship is not whether you really hold hands with the other person. Generally speaking, true success depends on feelings and quality. Many times, holding hands does not mean success. If it is not sincere, it may be an unfortunate beginning. Similarly, breaking up does not mean failure. If it is really inappropriate, breaking up is the best choice. Therefore, the key to the success of a relationship is whether you have it or not.
22. Maybe she will say that our constellations are not suitable, so as a statistic, constellations endow everyone with different personality characteristics. Most people admire the magic of constellations, but in fact, this is only a relative probability, not an absolute, tacit constellation, and hostile constellations may not necessarily come together. Constellation can't be used as the only tool of love. What's more important is to dare to try and find your own heart.
Generally speaking, the fatal weakness of the spare tire is that she values the car too much. In other words, she is not necessarily good in your heart. It's just that as a spare tire, you treat her too sacredly, making you have no resistance to anything she says and obey unconditionally. Actually, it really is. Blind obedience, no opinion, will lose the sense of existence. It is often said that men are not used to love, but to understand, and women are not used to understand, but to love. In fact, this statement is only half right. Anyone needs to be understood before being loved. Otherwise, without the foundation of understanding, your love will have no place and will not develop for a long time. Bad karma, who wants to get rid of the spare tire, must first find himself in this love and love someone, not at the expense of himself, otherwise your love will be particularly cheap.
24. If your girl thinks of you when she is sad, when she is lonely, and when she is hurt, she really envies you, which just shows that she has you in her heart, but she doesn't realize that in order to help her realize that you can choose to alienate yourself and play hard to get, let her realize the crisis and feel the pain of your absence. Being on call 24 hours a day is like letting her eat seafood every day. Even Suzhou, Hangzhou and Hangzhou will be tired of eating. At this time, if you suddenly don't give her food, leave her and let her eat steamed corn-bread pickles without giving mala Tang. After two days, she will go crazy, and then she will realize how delicious you gave her, and then she will naturally be good to you.
25. Generally speaking, Romeo and Juliet met after a brief encounter, and butterfly lovers fell in love at first sight. Meeting the ideal prince charming in life seems to be a good sign for the arrival of perfect feelings. Romance and beauty in love at first sight are rare, but in fact, appreciation of appearance and manners is nothing more than goodwill. If we regard it as love, it is a misunderstanding of love.
26. True feelings are not afraid of experience and test. Only by careful observation, calm thinking, careful analysis and careful cultivation can we truly measure each other and win real and lasting love after fully understanding each other. Many times, we can't catch what we lost, but we can get unexpected surprises. Life goes on. Don't dwell on the past. As time goes on, memories will be forgotten. People who put their hearts in one place and are willing to be close to your heart are already waiting for you at the next stop.
Generally speaking, the pursuit of psychological satisfaction will greatly increase the chances of sparks between two people. Afraid of moving people with emotion, it will drop a bad reputation. Promote touching love, what is the unreserved contribution one day? Love is from the heart, which proves his position in his heart, even surpassing his self-esteem and pride, because she can be crazy at all costs, because love is a crazy thing.
28. Love is patience, yes, but more than that. Sometimes, that kind of deep and strong feelings makes people unconsciously regard love as penance. They can give everything to love you and endure the pain of parting for love. If he has been waiting for you, you will gain love. If he has gone away, you still have the most beautiful memories. From the general point of view, love is a bet, with high cost and high risk, and the return rate is really small, but everyone is willing to be a gambler, win the beauty at the poker table, bet all the value on it and be prepared to lose at any time. When you have no choice, it becomes the most wanted chip in your eyes.
29. Every mature woman has a very naive little girl, and every naive little girl has a silly little question mark, that is, am I very likable? At this time, you need to learn to praise each other. Of course, it is a good choice to praise the other person's appearance and figure, or her ability to take care of the family can not be ignored. There is not a girl who doesn't like you to praise her kindness and beauty.
30. Love is actually a contradiction. When a man pursues a woman, he is willing to give up all his freedom. When he catches up, he will feel the importance of freedom more and more. Men have the arrogant mentality of being heroes, and it is easy to fall in love with a woman who complains to him. Therefore, if you want a man to like you, it is actually a good way to talk to him about his troubles. In addition, in the relationship between men and women, a woman needs a man to tell her that he is willing to make any sacrifice for her, while a man needs a woman to tell him that he is actually very capable. When one day, men are unwilling to sacrifice for women, and women begin to complain about men's dissatisfaction, it is actually a dangerous signal. At this time, it is time for you to pay more attention. Then I want to emphasize that health is the most important thing. Take good care of yourself for the people who love you and the people you love.
from/note/397529 10 1/