When I was in junior high school, I was just like you. I am also introverted, timid, thin-skinned, shy and quiet. Dare not talk to classmates (not very familiar), just want to escape and stay away.

I had a very good girlfriend at that time. My personality is completely different from mine. She is lively, cheerful, enthusiastic and popular, and many boys like her. I feel inferior in front of her. I can't even take a picture with her and look in the mirror.

I hated myself at that time. I don't know what to do. This character is also very bad, and I suspect that I have autism and depression. So I decided to change myself and looked up some information on the internet. Keep a healthy mind and a happy mood. There are not many friends now, but they all talk well. I feel that the whole person has become confident.

So don't have too much pressure in your heart. Let's talk about how I make myself cheerful.

1. There must be a reason for your introverted inferiority, so you should find out the reason for your inferiority. I am often teased for my clothes, and I feel that I am nothing like others. Gradually, I stopped talking and became very introverted and self-abased. )

2. After finding out the reasons for your inferiority and introversion, you should make some changes in this respect. Try to make yourself better. So there won't be such a strong sense of inferiority.

Most introverts don't know how to talk to others. You can buy some books about improving emotional intelligence and oral English. Or watch these on the internet. You can also learn some speaking skills. Make you less nervous when talking to others.

You may feel nervous when you meet someone you don't know. At this time, you should keep a very peaceful mind. Take a deep breath. Take a deep breath. Don't be calm, don't be nervous. I remember that when I saw some strangers, I would be very nervous and sweaty, and I didn't know what to say. Now I'm not so nervous. I will take a deep breath and tell myself not to be nervous and keep a normal heart. )

5. There is also the aspect of making friends. I think most people are still very friendly. So, if someone greets you, you should also smile and respond with a smile. What activities do you want to participate in or get together to play? Don't refuse. This is very good for improving your emotional intelligence and making friends.

6. If you still can't talk to other friends normally, or you still feel inferior, you can see a psychologist and consult online.