Summary: In the face of her husband's confidante, wives are sour and astringent, with mixed feelings: Should they accept her husband's confidante or should they always be on guard? Experts remind that in the face of her husband's confidante, women may wish to play dumb appropriately. Don't blindly accuse your wife of feeling jealous or even angry when she finds out that her husband has a confidante. At this time, the wife must first accept her negative emotions, keep rational communication with her husband, don't make a fuss, and don't blame blindly. You know, confidante exists objectively in interpersonal communication. On the other hand, husbands have confidantes, and there is also a positive side: maybe what you didn't satisfy your husband was just satisfied by their confidantes. Moreover, confidante generally has no exclusive idea, so it is better to regard her husband's confidante as a complementary relationship with herself rather than a competitive relationship. Make friends with confidante. Husband's confidante is someone else, not himself. His wife is angry and sad. However, if you find that your husband has a confidante, you will make a scene and find you. On the contrary, your husband will look down on you in his heart. Your husband may not comfort you, but he will comfort your confidante. A clever wife might as well be "stupid" when facing her husband's confidante. If the husband admits that he has a confidante, the wife can take the initiative to make friends with the confidante, turning jealousy into curiosity, and learning from the confidante is more conducive to the relationship between husband and wife. At the same time, making friends with confidante can also help husband and confidante grasp the degree of communication. Don't let a confidante become a lover. For men, most confidantes are kept from their wives. If a man just regards his confidante as a friend, he can confess to his wife without ulterior motives. Men should also remember that "a friend of a gentleman is as light as water", don't have too much contact with confidante, don't talk too deeply, don't meet too late, and don't be too hidden. This can not only abide by the boundaries, but also prevent the confidante from crossing the border and being honest and loyal to his wife. Some people understand "confidante" as "lover" and "third party", while most people understand "more friends, fewer lovers". In fact, the biggest difference between a lover and a confidante is that the latter does not involve sex and love, but plays the role of listener and spiritual comforter. A woman who can become a man's confidante is usually smart and considerate, so we should master the "degree" and don't give two people the opportunity to turn into lovers. Care and friendship should be enough. This is the skill of being a confidante. Liang Ping, Chairman of Alai Sichuan Writers Association in Weibo, and Li Haizhou, Vice Chairman of Sichuan Writers Association are recommended.