Cai is a famous "family educator". Cai Xiaoyao's own path to education was relatively difficult. Born in Ruian, Zhejiang in 1941. Because of his family background, he was expelled from a key high school and then returned home to start self-study. He completed high school courses in one year and took the college entrance examination that year. Or because of my family background, I didn't go to college. Later, Cai became a primary school teacher in his hometown. Due to his outstanding work, he was rated as an advanced individual. Later, on the recommendation of the school, Cai was admitted to the Department of Physics of Hangzhou University, now Zhejiang University, with perfect scores in three subjects. Because his family was poor, he dropped out of school to study medicine to support his family. It is precisely because of his academic regrets that he is particularly concerned about his children's academic and educational issues. I hope every child can succeed in school and have a bright future.

Cai has six children in his life, five of whom have received doctorates and one has a master's degree. They all have successful careers. The eldest son, Cai, holds a Ph.D. from Cornell University in the United States. He is currently a tenured professor at the University of Pennsylvania and a reviewer for the National Foundation of the United States. The second son, Cai Tianwu, was admitted to the CASPEA doctoral program funded by Li Zhengdao and later became a vice president of Goldman Sachs. The third son, Cai Tiansi, has a Ph.D. from St. John's University in the United States and is now starting a business in China. Cai Tianrun, fourth son, Ph.D., Arkansas State University, USA, now a private hospital. The fifth son, Cai Tianjun, has a master's degree from the University of Science and Technology of China and now works at China Construction Bank. The youngest daughter, Cai Tianxi, became a doctoral student at MIT at the age of 18 and the youngest associate professor at Harvard University at the age of 28. The third-generation grandson and granddaughter of the Cai family were also admitted to MIT. If it is an accident to develop one child into a talent and two children to become a talent, or it can be said to be accidental, then there must be a pattern for Cai Xiaoyao to develop all six children into talents. Cai’s success in family education is no accident. His educational ideas and methods are worthy of our study and research.

A warm, comfortable and loving family atmosphere is a good soil for children to grow. All children have great potential. It’s not about how good Cai Xiaoyao’s family conditions are. On the contrary, their family of eight was once poor and lived in an old house. When the children were young, the family rented an old house in the countryside, with two floors and 16 square meters on each floor. As a rural doctor, Cai Xiao used the first floor to open his clinic at night, and the second floor was where a family of eight lived in a small space. But this is an old house, carrying the children's happy childhood and lofty ideals. Cai Xiaoyao spent the night in this old house, reading and entertaining the children. He never forces his children, but practices by himself, sacrificing his own communication and entertainment time to accompany his children in learning. He copied test papers for the children and organized the materials.

Mrs. Carnegie said: "Don't pay too much attention to the appearance and form of the family. The most important thing is to pay attention to the unique family, full of love, warmth and bright atmosphere." As a parent, if you give your children more Time, such as browsing mobile phones, watching TV series, shopping, socializing, and giving your children more high-quality company will make them better. This reminds me of Wu Yishu, the winner of the second season of the Chinese Poetry Conference and admitted to Tsinghua University. His father is a lawyer and also attaches great importance to his daughter's family education and training. After 4:30 every afternoon, Wu Yishu's father would always turn off his mobile phone and accompany his daughter to study professionally. Bing Xin said: "A beautiful family is the source of all happiness and strength." In order to create a happy, harmonious, learning-friendly family atmosphere for children, parents must accompany them with high quality.