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Some people are alive and he is dead; Some people die, but they can always come to your dreams at midnight, which is fascinating. Although the body can't come, the heart yearns for it.

Nalan Rong Ruo is such a person whose soul lives forever.

Nalan Xingde, whose name is Rong Ruo, is a famous poet in Qing Dynasty.

The world is often called "the son of Nalan".

Many people like Nalan Rong Ruo, which started with his talent and loyalty, but they are deeply saddened by his life tragedy.

Nalan Rong is an out-and-out official second generation, talented second generation and rich second generation.

What is rare is that although he is an all-rounder by sea, land and air, as the second generation of officials, Nalan Rong Ruo won't shout loudly that my dad is Nalan Gang when riding a horse and hitting people;

As a second generation, he would not tell the people of the Qing Dynasty that the pirates who burned, killed and looted along the coast were actually good people while receiving the salary paid by the Qing Dynasty.

But as a rich second generation, he finally caught up with the trend of the times-Nalan Rong Ruo really doesn't care about his family background when making friends, but the reason is not that everyone is not as rich as him.

How can such a son of Nalan be disliked?

In a word, Nalan Rong is the most affectionate person.

And the deepest affection is precisely the root of his life tragedy.

Throughout Nalan Rong Ruo's short life, it can be roughly divided into three stages, which can be summarized in three words:

Fresh clothes, angry horses, harmonious voices, and the melancholy of the world.

He was born in Rong Ruo, and he is worth a lot. In his own words, it is "a dusty country, a well-dressed family."

I was born in the bustling and noisy capital and was welcomed to Plutocratic family.

It is said that Nalan Rong Ruo was born in Houhai, Shichahai.

Everyone who has been here knows that Houhai is still full of tourists and traffic until today.

Nalan Rong Ruo's father, Nalan Mingzhu, served as a senior official of the Qing court and was once in power.

The ancestors of Nalan family are Mongols. As early as the Jin Dynasty, Nalan family was one of the first choices for royal marriage.

Later it was classified as Manchu. In the Qing Dynasty, Nalan family belonged to Zhenghuangqi and was a noble with pure blood.

Moreover, the Nalan family has close in-laws with the Essien Qiao Luo family.

How close?

Please listen to me:

Nalan Rong Ruo's great-grandfather's sister married Nurhachi and gave birth to a child named Huang Taiji. Huang Taiji is the father of Kangxi, that is, the father of Shunzhi, so Nalan Rong Ruo and Emperor Kangxi are cousins, and the relationship is still within the five clothes.

Rong Ruo's mother's surname is Aisinggiorro. She is Dourgen's brother and the daughter of King Aziz of England, that is, Nurhachi's granddaughter and Huang Taiji's niece, so Rong Ruo and Kangxi are cousins.

The cousins were born in the eleventh year of Shunzhi, which is the same year according to the lunar calendar algorithm.

In Qu Yuan's words, it is probably:

Emperor Levin is a descendant of Miao nationality, and I am the emperor Kao Boyong.

I went to Meng Xi with my virginity, but Geng Yin and I surrendered.

Bottom line: Nalan Rong Ruo was born very expensively.

During the Pearl period, the Nalan family was in full swing. And his life, it is in the pearl's career is thriving, the apprentice.

All this seems to show that Nalan Rong Ruo was born a star and was destined to shine.

It stands to reason that even if you are born in such a family, even if you are a fool, the saliva you shed is not real money, but also elegant.

Life is not a "cool" word!

At first glance, Nalan Rong Ruo's life seems really like this.

The light of Nalan teenagers is manifested in two aspects, one is poetry, and the other is ambition.

Poetry:

Born in such a gaudy family, Nalan Rong Ruo naturally received a good education, and his aristocratic temperament naturally emanated from his works.

However, Nalan Rong Ruo does not stick to his own background, but loves to make friends with people from all walks of life, from Jianghu literati to humble cloth clothes, and even adherents of the Ming Dynasty who are unwilling to cooperate with the Qing court.

Therefore, Nalan Rong Ruo's poems are not flashy rhetoric, but show the most affectionate and natural natural interest everywhere.

At that time, Nalan Rong Ruo was known as "the first scholar in Qing Dynasty". Liang Qichao also praised him as "the first person in the early Qing Dynasty" in his poetic attainments. There is even a harsh person, Rainbow Guowei, who called Nalan Rong Ruo's poem "Since the Northern Song Dynasty, there is only one person."

What's even more rare is that, generally speaking, the more knowledgeable people are, the more lofty and cheap they are, and the more difficult it is to get the love of ordinary people.

But Nalan Rong Ruo is different.

Cao Xueqin's grandparents Cao Yin and Nalan Rong are good friends. He knows Nalan Rong Ruo very well. He once wrote: "Everyone is competing to sing" Drinking Words ",but Nalan knows his mind several times." "Drinking Water Ci" is the name of Nalan Ci collection, which was not only loved by literati at that time, but also known to all obedient children.

Ambition:

But don't get me wrong, Nalan Rong Ruo is not a rich and powerful son who can only sing poetry all day. He is also an ambitious young man with a heart to help the world and a skillful bow and horse.

Nalan Rong Ruo won the exam at the age of eighteen, and ranked seventh in dimethyl at the age of twenty-two, that is, the tenth in the country.

Today, that is the material of Tsinghua Peking University.

When he was young, Nalan Rong Ruo also had great ambitions to rule the country and level the world.

Once he saw a self-portrait poem by Zhao Mengfu, so he imitated Zhao Mengfu's dress and drew a self-portrait. In the picture, the childe is naturally personable and handsome.

Zhao Mengfu, the 11th grandson of Zhao Kuangyin, Song Taizu, died in Song Dynasty and was the most famous painter in Yuan Dynasty. He is called "the second of Wang Xizhi".

Nalan Rong Ruo showed this self-portrait to his friends, and everyone praised him in the most wonderful language.

Instead of getting carried away, he was a little unhappy.

Until his teacher Xu Gan said, "Your style is really Rainbow Xizhi!" he is filled with a wild ecstatic happiness.

This shows that Nalan Rong Ruo spoke highly of himself when he was young.

For us, the lesson here is: kiss up, not the horse's leg. Otherwise, the harder you clap, the more serious you may be kicked by the horse.

So flattery is a technical job, not a manual job. Skilled jobs are always more popular.

Wang Xizhi is a romantic figure who leads the trend in his own time. He has two characteristics: temperament and career. But Wang Xizhi is also a person who doesn't care about powerful people.

Therefore, from this story, we can sum up the characteristics of Nalan Rong Ruo when he was young: he was in the imperial court, his heart was tied to the world, and he yearned for rivers and lakes.

However, these also became the beginning of his life tragedy.

The world has always loved gossip, among which gossip is the most talked about.

After all, you love me and I don't love your story.

There are three main paragraphs about Nalan Rong Ruo's love.

There are many legends about his first love.

The most popular story is that Nalan Rong Ruo's first love was his cousin, but her cousin chose a female tutor and became the concubine of Kangxi. Even my cousin is Hui Fei of Kangxi, and Hui Fei is indeed named Nalan.

However, Hui Fei gave birth to a prince in the ninth year of Kangxi, so she entered the palace earlier. In the ninth year of Kangxi, Nalan Rong Ruo was only sixteen years old. So it seems that the time is not right.

Nowadays, in many TV series, it is even more impossible to see Nalan Rong Ruo and his cousin Nalan Rong Ruo imploring Kangxi to fulfill him and his lover, and even competing with Kangxi for a touching love of a woman. In fact, Nalan Rong Ruo served as the bodyguard of Kangxi for a long time.

But why do you want to do it in a TV series? Of course, that's to attract you to see it or have a serious meal. Love stories naturally want Baoshan to love Lian Bi, Lian Bi to love Shilin, and Shilin to win the first prize. Only in this way can people be deeply moved and unforgettable. If the Tang priest really married the king of the daughter country, what would happen behind the story of Buddhist scriptures?

So these words are novels, just listen to them, don't take them seriously.

Relatively speaking, Nalan Rong Ruo's first love is that your maid is more reliable. But his status as Rong Ruo, at that time, nature is also impossible to marry a maid. So no matter what happens, Nalan Rong Ruo's first love will definitely end in vain.

However, Nalan Rong Ruo is, after all, a cultured person, and his hobby is to write poems when he is lovelorn.

As is widely known today, "If life is just like first love, why worry about painting a fan in the autumn wind" is the best interpretation of Nalan's first love.

What really made Nalan Rong Ruo love deeply was his wife, Lu. Nalan Rong Ruo once described his relationship with Lu as "one person for life", and even left a lot of poems to record his married life with Lu.

It can be seen from these poems that Lu is an all-round talented woman with picturesque eyes, brilliant talent, broad mind and charming temperament. She is not only Nalan Rong Ruo's wife, but also his good friend and confidant.

During Nalan Rong Ruo's short fairy-like marriage, Nalan Rong Ruo never spared pen and ink to describe his wife Lushi.

Because there are too many poems, I won't list them one by one, so as not to accidentally hurt the single Wang who is reading this article.

But a little accidental injury is harmless, so let's give an example.

Nalan Rong Ruo often describes his wife as "under the wind in the forest", such as "a home full of weeds under the forest" and "a boudoir under the forest is rare".

So what does "wind under the forest" mean?

We usually describe a beautiful woman, or a little jasper, or educated, but there is a higher-level description (emphasis should be placed here, especially on male friends, which can be used to flatter one's girlfriend in a fancy way), that is, undergrowth flattery, which originated from Xie Daowen, the first talented woman in the Eastern Jin Dynasty.

How good is Xie Daowen? You just need to know that she is as good as she wants.

Lin Daiyu's famous saying "I can't help but admire my talent" in A Dream of Red Mansions is borrowed from Xie Daowen's allusions.

So you know, in Nalan's heart, his wife Lushi is not worse than Brother Bao's sister Lin.

Talent and taste, beauty and wisdom coexist, lanterns are hard to find. These are all told by Nalan Rong Ruo in his poems.

As we said just now, if Nalan Rong is a man with great feelings and nature, he is also a man with a heart of Gao Zhiyuan. We don't have to imagine how beautiful she is, but we just need to understand how good she is in the eyes of Nalan Rong Ruo.

In this way, they embroidered the couch and blew red rain when they were idle; The sunset is slightly drunk, and * * * leans on the carved column.

Then, the fairy couple was only two years old.

Yes, such a beautiful time, only two years.

In the second year after their marriage, their son was born, but Lu was always weak after delivery. Although Nalan House tried everything, in the third year after their marriage, Lushi died.

This year, Nalan Rong Ruo was twenty-three years old.

What kind of pain did the death of his wife bring to Nalan Rong Ruo? I don't know, needless to say.

The ancients once said, now I know the taste of sorrow, and I want to say it.

For such sadness, Nalan Rong Ruo seems to say simply: "At that time, Tao was unusual."

Once everything was beautiful, then only Tao was ordinary.

Having it and then losing it is the most painful thing.

It's gone, so we know what it is.

From then on, Nalan Rong Ruo can only read the west wind to enjoy the cool, and reminisce about the sunset.

The ancients in China have always had the tradition of "mourning is greater than dying in the heart". Autumn wind, plants wither, leaves wither, bleak and desolate.

This kind of desolation is too heavy for sad people to bear.

There is an allusion that Xiao Shenyang once showed a Dream of Red Mansions to Emperor Qianlong. After reading it, Qianlong said that this is the story of Pearl Family!

Later generations said that Cao Xueqin modeled Jia Baoyu according to Nalan Rong Ruo.

Aside from this world, Nalan Rong Ruo is indeed a very sensitive and delicate person, which is really similar to Jia Baoyu.

And we all know how crazy Jia Baoyu is about Lin Daiyu.

For more than a year after Lu's death, Nalan Rong Ruo refused to let her be buried, so the coffin has been parked in Shuanglin Temple, which is Zizhuyuan Park in Haidian District of Beijing today.

Nalan Rong Ruo often visited his dead wife. How are these days?

Nalan once wrote a little word. In that sentence, in the cold palace, Nalan sat alone with bright lights, and the little things that husband and wife got along with came to mind. Sometimes, the wife will sit by and write a love poem for herself, and sometimes she will feel sorry for her husband who stays up late and urge him to go to bed early. And Nalan looked up and smiled: "There is still the last paragraph unfinished, you go to sleep first!" "The wife shook her head, put on a coat for him, made a cup of hot tea, sat down beside her, picked up the unfinished embroidery and accompanied her husband who stayed up late.

After a long time, he raised his head and looked at his wife who bowed her head and embroidered. Her heart is full of happiness. She tried to reach out and help her cut her hair, but suddenly she closed her eyes. The wife who sat next to her just now disappeared like a shadow. ......

"Sitting with the light on, sitting for a long time ... it's too late to sleep. Gunter, who knows this hate. Everyone in heaven and earth is melancholy, and the sound of Buddha and fire is sad. I have doubts before dreaming. "

When you feel sad, you can't tell reality from dreams.

The death of Lu changed Nalan's life track and belief, and made him gradually become a sad person obsessed with Buddhism from a charming scholar. He also nicknamed himself "Lengga Mountain Man" to express his emptiness and illusion about the vicissitudes of the world.

Where to go this time almost exhausted all his hopes for life. Inspired the tragic factors hidden in his character.

However, life goes on.

At this time, Nalan Rong Ruo was already a high school scholar. But perhaps Kangxi appreciated him too much, or perhaps Kangxi wanted to win over Nalan. In a word, Nalan Rong Ruo didn't enter imperial academy or be sealed by the court like other scholars, but showed his ambition politically. Instead, Kangxi personally appointed him as his personal third-class bodyguard and awarded him a title of five grades, which was higher than the position of the top scholar.

In principle, this is an honor that many people dream of. At that time, the officials who came to congratulate broke the countless thresholds of the Nalan family.

But he is the only unhappy person, Nalan Rong Ruo.

First, his wife just died, and he was really unhappy.

Second, it doesn't accord with Nalan Rong Ruo's life ambition.

The emperor's bodyguard, which others can't wait for, is a constraint for an expert like Nalan Rong Ruo.

What does it mean to be a bodyguard? Defend the safety of the emperor, convey the imperial edict, and be temporarily assigned by the emperor to perform any special tasks. Or the emperor wanted to recruit a group of people to sing praises on a whim, and the guards had to participate in poetry as royal literati.

If you still can't imagine the work and posture of a security guard, think about the secretary ceiling of the recent fancy flattery.

But he didn't slack off because of this, but he was diligent and conscientious. In and out of the suite, be careful.

Kangxi loved him far more than other guards, rewarded him constantly, and was eventually promoted to a first-class guard.

In fact, Kangxi did not neglect him. During his tenure as a bodyguard, Kangxi also sent Nalan Rong Ruo to lead thousands of military horses to the Great Wall to appease and woo neighboring tribes in Junggar.

Moreover, he lived up to expectations and accomplished the task well. After his return, the court finally understood the attitude of the ethnic tribes around Junggar and decided to send troops to Junggar.

It can be seen that Nalan is really talented in politics. He is not a rich flower in the world, and he is completely different from Baoyu.

And Kangxi didn't just treat him as a slave. It's just that for Nalan, a job that can't fulfill his ambition in life is not a good job, and it's useless to raise his salary.

But he had no choice but to be the emperor's bodyguard. This is nine years.

In the past nine years, during this period, the high-spirited young people have gradually drifted away, and the royal guards in their prime have gradually seen through life.

"Think about leisure. The prancing horse always grows old together. Don't change your youth and be young. How many heroes only waste mountains. "

Hair is dyed white by years, and heroism is erased by years. This damn time!

A good life and a short life can't be wasted on fame and fortune. No matter how many heroes he has, in the end, he is just a pile of loess.

No one knows how Nalan Rong spent these nine long years. Without the confidant of Lu, he was still troubled by trivial matters all day.

Gradually killed the great ambition of life, at this time, Nalan just wanted to stay away from the court, and his natural nature in his bones became more and more obvious.

Nalan once wrote in a poem that although he is in a big house, he often thinks of mountains, rivers, fish and birds.

However, Nalan Rong Ruo is not as ignorant as Baoyu. On the contrary, he was very cautious around Kangxi and never directly participated in the competition for the crown prince. As the son of a high official, how can you be ignorant of politics when you are with the emperor all the year round?

But the problem is that these are not what he likes. He is a man with the deepest feelings. He has already seen through everything and just wants to keep the purest feelings in his heart.

But after all, he has to consider his family and can't let go.

Behind him, is the nalan clan. So he has been cautious, just like sister Lin who just entered Jia's house, and she is cautious everywhere.

Before becoming the emperor's bodyguard, Nalan Rong Ruo once said in a poem to his friend, "Morality is crazy!" I, Nalan Rong Ruo, am also a proud and unruly person!

And such an arrogant person has been trapped in such a bound life for nine years. How depressed and melancholy it should be.

Nalan Rong Ruo lost the motivation to live, and his soul was wandering, so he said he was a melancholy guest in the world.

In that case, it's time for the disappointed man who came to visit the world to leave.

In May of the 24th year of Kangxi, Nalan Rong Ruo, who had been a bodyguard for nine years, suddenly fell ill. He died soon after, at the age of thirty.

He died on May 30th, 24th year of Kangxi. Eight years ago, on May 30th, the 16th year of Kangxi, his wife Lu died.

Couples who died on the same day eight years apart may really have their own destinies.

I am a melancholy person in the world.

Know what you're crying about.

Recalling my life in a heartbreaking voice

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