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A letter to a distant classmate about holding hands.
Little friend of love:

Hello!

Although we have never met, as the saying goes, it is a great pleasure to have friends from afar. Friends are an indispensable part of life. Emotional communication between people is inseparable from friends. I hope this letter of friendship with rich money can build a bridge of friendship between you and me.

My surname is Lang Mingbao Qing, 14 years old. I was born in Gaocheng City, Hebei Province. I'm in the sixth grade now, and I'm going to graduate from primary school soon.

I know your parents have to go out to work for the sake of your family's life and let you live with your grandparents or grandparents. Are you used to everything? Is there anything you want to say to me? Anyway, I have a lot to say to you,

When you live in grandparents' house, don't make the old people angry, because they have broken a lot of hearts for us, and your parents are not around you, so there is no maternal love. But the old people must take care of you a hundred times, so don't be willful.

It's almost summer vacation I sincerely invite you to my home. I want to be friends with you forever. In spring, I will accompany you to see the golden rape flowers and sing loudly in the lakes and mountains; I want to play football on the green grass, have a picnic in the suburbs and climb mountains with you.

Friend, would you like to associate with me and share joys and sorrows with me? Then contact me! I hope we can be best friends! My mailing address is Wu Jie Primary School, Gaocheng City, Hebei Province, and the postal code is 052 160.

Want to make friends with you.

June 2007 10

Willing to stay and build strength.

Dear children:

We know that you suddenly lost your parents' company because your parents went out to work. Since then, you have rarely seen or heard from your parents. You feel that there is an irreplaceable warmth and protection in this world. After you have to taste some bitterness and pain in your life, a heart that was still immature and always expected the care and care of parents began to become sensitive, self-pitying, inferior and sharp. If so, dear child, please don't be pessimistic, don't be disappointed, and don't lose your original life dream. When life gives you this, the first thing you have to do is accept it. Moreover, you should not only accept it, but also learn to adapt and change in this life, learn to use your own strength to cheer up your spirit, enhance your fighting spirit, and live a grateful, proud and happy wonderful self!

First of all, as a left-behind child, you should be grateful. "Filial piety is the first of all virtues". It was your parents who conceived in October and gave birth to you. It was your parents who endured the pain of parting, went out to make a living and raised you. It is precisely because of their hardships outside that you have your existing living conditions and learning environment. Your parents are the most hardworking, tenacious, respectable and exemplary parents. You should repay them with diligence and hard work.

Secondly, as a left-behind child, you should be more proud. "Since ancient times, great talents have suffered a lot, and there have never been many great men." You are proud because you have the toughest character of a child your age. Although I suffer from premature parting, the less I depend on my parents, the more I suffer from difficulties. You are proud, because you are special contributors to the construction of the motherland. You have sacrificed your precious parents' affection and the care you should enjoy, and achieved the great cause of the motherland.

Third, as left-behind children, it is your responsibility to stay happy. Happiness is your birthright. The absence of parents forces your mind to think about many problems you face, but in the end, it will bring you some pain in life and make you gain something at last. Then, no matter how difficult it is, you must burst into confident laughter and live a wonderful life.

"Heaven will descend to people, so we must first suffer from their minds, their bones and muscles, and their bodies and skins." One day, you will understand that staying at home without your parents is the best start for you to undergo life training and lay down your lofty ideals. As several left-behind children said at this year's Spring Festival party, "Others are better than my parents, and I will be better than them tomorrow!" You will be more diligent than tomorrow! It's harder than tomorrow! Compare tomorrow with responsibility! Compare tomorrow with indomitable fighting spirit! We believe that with the care and love of the * * * production party, people's government, society, teachers, grandfathers, grandmothers and relatives, with strong confidence, diligent study and independent living ability, you will definitely integrate into the happy campus and thrive with your classmates!

Press release issued on May 25, 2007

Dear child:

Although I haven't met all of you, I know that you all have smiling faces like flowers, laughter like birds, dreams like rainbows and childlike innocence like gold. And I know you're still a little worried and don't want to be known. Because your parents went out to work, you suddenly lost the company of your parents. Since then, you have rarely seen or heard from your parents. I feel that the world suddenly lacks an irreplaceable warmth and protection. After you have to taste some hardships and pains in life, a heart that was still immature and always wanted to look forward to the care of parents began to become sensitive, self-pitying, inferior and sharp. Feeling that I lack the warmth of my parents, I began to have a sad view of my family and doubted the value of my existence: "Dad, Mom, don't you want me?" There is a kind of pain, struggle and hesitation in your heart that you have never experienced before. Even on a certain day, when you suddenly see someone else's parents sending clothes in winter and umbrellas in rainy days, or when the mother and son walk past you talking and laughing, you are still talking and laughing with your classmates, and suddenly you burst into tears and your heart is full of sorrow for your parents. Back to a deserted home, looking at elderly grandparents or relatives who are always busy with something, facing a house without parents, in this lonely and cold life situation, you have never felt sorry for yourself, and suddenly you have a deep disgust and despair about this life without parents. Even, you have never been indifferent and hostile to your family, your school and the world you live in.

If so, dear child, please listen to me: don't be pessimistic, don't be disappointed, and don't lose your original life dream. When life gives us this, the first thing we need to do is to accept it. Moreover, we should not only accept it, but also learn to adapt and change in this life, learn to inspire our spirit with our own strength, enhance our fighting spirit, and live a grateful, proud and happy wonderful self! Why?

First, as left-behind children, we should be more grateful.

First, be born as a human being and be grateful to your family. "Filial piety is the first of all virtues". Dear child! It was our parents who conceived in October and gave birth to us. It was our parents who endured the pain of parting, went out to make a living and raised us. Although they don't have a high level of education and professional skills, it is precisely because of their hardships and their efforts outside that you have your existing living conditions and learning environment. Your parents are the most hardworking, tenacious, respectable and exemplary parents. Because of this, a left-behind child wrote in a letter to his parents: "No matter you are poor or rich, I will always be grateful to you! I know that every book in my hand is soaked with your blood and sweat, and I will repay you with my harder work and diligence! "

Second, when we grow up, we are grateful to the school. "Knowledge is the ladder of human progress". School is our beautiful spiritual garden. Without the care of parents, it is the school that has taught us good behavior habits, and it is the school that has increased our knowledge and talents; It was the teacher who gave us motherly care and strict father education. It is they who have sacrificed their precious time and paid more efforts to care for us and cultivate us than other children. A series of caring eyes, warm smiles, concerned inquiries, and even the painful responsibility of hating iron and not turning into steel have searched for us again and again in stations, docks and internet cafes ... The bits and pieces that exist in our memories are full of the teacher's deep love for us! Thanksgiving school, we should thank teachers!

Third, be peaceful and prosperous, and be grateful to society. Four years ago in March, the Iraq war that shocked the world started. Hundreds of thousands of Iraqi civilians died in the war, millions of families' children and parents, and all schools were razed to the ground. You may not think that because of the war, 820 thousand children your age can't carry schoolbags and go to school normally; Because of the war, countless children were forced to leave their homes and stay in refugee camps; Because of the war, many children fled the motherland with their families; There are many children who can't escape. They can only be baptized by war and suffer spiritual destruction. Dear children: Seeing this, how can we not be grateful for our peaceful environment? It is the progress and development of society that keeps us away from the smoke of war and the claws of disaster; It is the progress and development of society that has created today's peace and prosperity. Let our parents go out to survive and develop with peace of mind, and let us enjoy such a quiet living environment and a good learning environment. If there is no peace in society, what can we have?

Second, as left-behind children, we should be more proud.

We are proud, because we have the most tenacious character of children of the same age. "Since ancient times, great talents have suffered a lot, and there have never been many great men." Without the care of your mother, you may have to take care of your younger brother and sister when your parents should have taken care of you, although you have suffered the pain of leaving early. However, the less dependent you are on your parents, the more you are tempered in difficulties. As a left-behind child named Wang Biao said, "I think the life left behind is far from as bad as I expected. On the contrary, because adults are not around, we learn to do small things by ourselves and strive to do big things, which is a good opportunity for us to exercise our abilities. When my parents don't go out to work, they will especially spoil me and don't let me do anything, which leads me to develop a bad habit of relying on others for everything. " Some people may say that you are like flowers and grass. Dear child: Grass is the most tenacious symbol of life. Since the special times and special family environment have given us seeds and life as tenacious as grass, we should be as tenacious as grass, as United as grass, as rooted in deep soil as grass, and as vigorous as grass to grow forever.

We are proud because we are special contributors to the construction of the motherland. Only when the country is rich can the people be strong. Since the reform and development, state-owned enterprises, private enterprises and foreign-funded enterprises have mushroomed, the appearance of the motherland's cities has changed with each passing day, and the country's economic strength has been rising. China's achievements in economic construction in the past 20 years have attracted worldwide attention. In the process of economic construction in China, no one can deny the great contribution made by migrant workers. Your parents are the most important builders. They walk gloriously in the city and even walk in the forefront of this economic era! Dear children, it is your parents who have made this city prosperous and economically developed. It is you who sacrificed your precious parents' affection and the care you should have enjoyed, and achieved many great undertakings in our motherland! Everyone is responsible for the prosperity of the country. So you should be proud, because you are special contributors to the construction of the motherland in the new era. The motherland has begun to pay attention to you from top to bottom.

We are proud because we have 20 million brothers and sisters who have touched China. There are 654.38+200 million working parents in China, leaving us with 20 million left-behind children. After experiencing the hardships of life and soul, more of you finally chose to be the pride of your peers. At an early age, in learning, I am not afraid of hardship and face difficulties; In life, assume the responsibility of taking care of grandparents; Some children have also become a strong spiritual pillar for parents who go out. Dear children, under the same blue sky, "We are both patriots and left-behind children", they can do it, and I believe you can do it. Just like some left-behind children suggested to you at this year's Spring Festival party: "Others compare with my parents, and we will compare with them tomorrow"! What will we compare tomorrow to? We will compare tomorrow with diligence! It's harder than tomorrow! Compare tomorrow with responsibility! Compare tomorrow with indomitable fighting spirit!

Third, as left-behind children, it is our responsibility to stay happy.

Happiness is our birthright. Dear child: When you encounter any big difficulties and suffer any big grievances, don't be disappointed or pessimistic. In life, in fact, everyone will inevitably encounter difficulties. Dialectically, we can stand the test of some difficult environments at the beginning of our experience, which is not a good thing! Life without parents around, it forces your mind to think about many problems you face, problems you want to escape but can't escape, it may make you cry more than once, it may make you despair more than once. But in the end, it will bring some pain to your life, and it will also make you finally gain something. "Doing something is the highest state of life". Then, no matter how difficult it is, we must burst into confident laughter and live a wonderful life. We are not for our parents, not for others, but for ourselves! So dear child: Can you try to make efforts from the following ten aspects to fulfill your promise of happiness to yourself, your parents, your school and society?

First, believe in yourself. No matter how difficult it is to study in life, you should bravely say to yourself, "I can do it!" " "People all over the world believe in you, not as much as you believe in yourself; Even if the whole world doesn't believe you, you should believe in yourself.

Second, respect teachers. In daily study and life, try to ask adoptive parents or school teachers some questions they don't understand and some puzzles in life; Every month in my spare time, I try to communicate with my parents by writing about my harvest for one month. Stick to this habit and I believe you will have a standing weapon to overcome some difficulties. Then, you will enjoy the joy of success every day, even if it is only a little joy!

Third, be tolerant. "People are not sages, to err is human." Tolerance is the secret of lasting friendship and a person's greatest virtue. "Radish and cabbage, each has his own love", don't care too much about the attitude of classmates, neighbors and family members to you, and don't demand that everyone can be your favorite friend.

Fourth, learn to praise. For the students who have more contact with you, find out his advantages, praise him sincerely and learn from him. This is your skill to get the best popularity in a group, and it is also an effective way to correct yourself and help others correct their shortcomings. Everyone cares about others' affirmation of themselves, doesn't he?

5. Willing to endure hardships. Life is always "bitter before sweet". The more you are afraid of suffering, the more you will encounter endless suffering; The more you can bear hardships, the more you can achieve great things in your heart. Any grievances and setbacks are only tests of will for people. If you are weak-willed, it is a swamp full of dirt, which cannot be surpassed; If you are persistent, it is a ladder to climb a cliff!

Sixth, be brave in change. "An inch of time is worth an inch of gold, and an inch of gold cannot buy an inch of time". Stay away from internet cafes and video games, stick to your personal integrity and learn to say "no" in front of bad behavior. Be close to classmates, study and family. Good boys are more perfect, which one doesn't like!

Seven, cherish life. The world is so big and there are so many people, but you only travel once in your life. No matter when and where, no matter how difficult things are, only life can't be easily given up. This is because only life is the most precious and irresistible gift your parents give you, and only life is the greatest strength to get out of your predicament!

Eight, be kind to yourself. Physical and mental health first, academic performance second. Develop a good mental state and sleep habits. When you encounter unpleasant things, even if it is your own fault, you should forget them as soon as possible! Think of the happiest thing that has happened to you. I ran to sing when I couldn't remember. If you can't sing, sing silently! After all, let the rare life melt and overflow your own joy!

Nine, believe in miracles. Even in the most difficult days, miracles can happen anywhere your eyes can touch, just as you believe that if you sow a seed in spring, you will reap many fruits in autumn. As long as you believe in miracles, as long as you do your best for miracles, miracles will happen around you!

Ten, eternal love. Life without love is like the sky without the sun, gloomy and dreary. Love can make friendship last forever; Love makes people know more about responsibility; Love makes the world wider; Love makes life more perfect. Treat everyone you meet with love, this is the real secret of happiness in life!

"Heaven is about to drop to a great post, and people must first suffer their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies and do whatever they want, so they can't bear it." Dear child: One day, you will understand that staying at home without your parents is the best start for you to undergo the tempering and baptism of life and lay a lofty ideal in life. Send a letter from afar, I have no other wish, just hope that you will cherish the beautiful life your parents have given you with sincere gratitude and be a filial and hardworking person; I only hope that in the caring eyes of teachers, you will practice yourself well, study hard and be a person who is beneficial to society! I only hope that you can ride your horse and whip proudly on the road of growth, and keep gaining hope in the sound of singing all the way! Harvest dreams! Harvest your own success! Be a capitalized person of your dreams!

I think this must be your parents' greatest wish!