Generous and confident. Different sexual orientation, I think you make friends with boys just like boys and girls and heterosexual friends in life. Don't care so much about whether you are gay or not, and treat getting along with the opposite sex with the right attitude, just like having friends of the opposite sex in life. If you are shy, or you care too much about your sexual orientation, you should treat your sexual orientation more flatly. You can go to some gay post bars and talk to them, add some gay groups, and they should tell you some good suggestions. In fact, you can also talk to some rotten women. They have a special understanding of these things, and they will all help you enthusiastically. It's relaxing to talk to them more.