China's traditional ideas are deeply rooted in your mind. It is difficult for you to change your mind, but it is best if you can. But in this society, most college girls are no longer virgins, because there will be ambiguity in this long study. As long as two people have a certain degree of communication, it is only a matter of time before they go to bed. You don't have to care too much about whether they are virgins or not. Don't take your own ideas as the direction, but have some traditions.

Also, you know, losing your virginity doesn't mean losing your virginity. If a woman is not a virgin and separated from her ex-boyfriend, it proves that they are incompatible. Later, you two fell in love. She was very loyal to you, entered the wedding and became a good wife. She didn't do anything wrong to you. This is already a good marriage.

You don't need to mind too much at all, as long as she can be happy with you is the most important thing.

If you still say that you still care whether she is a virgin or not, then I can only tell you that you don't really love her.

Besides, you said you couldn't play anything. Is this not good? Don't touch online games. Internet is not a good thing. You just use the internet to find your favorite material or watch movies and listen to songs. Your relatives should not ask you to play games. Contact more friends and classmates, go out to play with them, have tea, play ball, talk about your worries, exercise your interpersonal skills and make more friends. Don't go to some messy places. As the saying goes, one more friend is easy to walk, and making friends is good for you (friends with good ideas).

Seeing your problems, I feel that you are a person who seldom goes out. Go out for a walk, don't always go to bargain shops, go to some medicine bargain shops, experience the danger of life and exercise yourself. You will find that there are many things you don't understand.