1. There are more women than men in this society. (Of course, this article is untenable, because according to the latest data, the ratio of men to women in China has reached 5 1:49, which is obviously more men than women! )
When men become leftover men, most of them are almost successful in their careers. At this time, the so-called leftover men will find beautiful young college graduates as partners.
Women become leftover women, and most of them have successful careers. When they looked around for whether they could find the leftover men, the leftover men had gone to find the newly graduated college students. Of course, leftover women can also go to male college students who have just graduated. However, I ask myself, is it possible to popularize this society in China today?
4. Men become bad when they have money (this seems to be too extreme and does not conform to the dialectical method).
5. Women's money is not necessarily bad. Data of the sixth population census
20 13, 17 On April 7th, the Communist Youth League Committee and the Beijing Youth Federation jointly held a youth association, and released a series of survey reports on the views of men and women on marriage and love in China. The report shows that there are more highly educated women than men, and the proportion of men staying in Beijing ranks sixth in the country with 33%.
The report on leftover men was completed through online quantitative research on the Internet, and 560 13 samples of leftover men were studied and analyzed. In the survey, the conclusion of the leftover men is based on the self-awareness of the respondents. The proportion of leftover men refers to the proportion of leftover men who are single or have unstable relationships in cities.
According to the report, the remaining men are mainly born after 70 s and 80 s, aged 28-39 years old. The survey shows that 37% of the leftover men have a master's degree or above, and 29% of the leftover men earn more than 15000 yuan.
According to the survey, 73% of the "leftover men" think they are average-looking, and only 16% think they are handsome. Some people have their own "goddess". 56% people think that there is no social opportunity and there is no way to know the opposite sex; 52% people think that they don't know how to pursue the opposite sex, and they have been defeated repeatedly; 48% people think that their conditions are not good and they have no courage to fall in love. Another 39% people use busy work to hide their emotional needs because of the pursuit of career success.
When you meet the right girl, will you strike up a conversation? The confession points out that "leftover men" will not fall in love. The reasons are that 43% are unsociable, 35% don't understand women's hearts, 365,438+0% don't get along, 29% lack love experience, and 24% are not romantic, which have become obstacles for them to find a girlfriend. The 2008 Survey Report on Love and Marriage of Internet Users in China was officially released today in Hangzhou, the capital of love, revealing the reason why there are more "leftover women" than "leftover men" in reality.
It is reported that this is the first survey report on the theme of marriage and love in China specifically targeting 2. 1 100 million netizens. The "2008 China Netizen Marriage Survey" initiated by China Matchmaker.com and China Marriage Association lasted for one month, and the final survey report was formed through the combination of offline questionnaire survey, Internet survey and expert analysis. The report comprehensively analyzes the main characteristics of the lifestyle of single netizens in China, covering the status, pressure, behavior and channels of marriage.
According to the survey data, the ideal age for men to get married in the minds of netizens in China is after 30, while the probability of women getting married has been decreasing year by year since the age of 25. More than 90% of women think that men around the age of 30 are their ideal marriage partners, while men under the age of 30 are rarely favored by women.
In contrast, age is cruel to women. 65% of men think that the ideal marriage partner is a woman aged 25 to 28; Since the age of 28, their chances of getting married have plummeted; When a woman is 30 years old, 25.5% of men think that they can barely marry her; When a woman reaches 35, only 15.2% of men can accept it.
There is much less age crisis for men. Even at the age of 35, there are still 1/3 women willing to marry him. Even a 40-year-old "confusing man", 1 1.2% of women choose him.
Although official statistics show that the total number of men in China is higher than that of women, it seems that there are always more "leftover women" than "leftover men" in reality. This is not difficult to find the answer in the 2008 China Netizen Marriage Survey Report.
Professor Jiang Ganjin, an expert in marriage psychology at Zhejiang University, believes that due to various factors, the marriageable age of women is usually shorter than that of men. "For example, at the age of 25, men can choose girls aged 20 to 25 or 26, but it is difficult for a 25-year-old woman to accept a 20-year-old boy." Therefore, women are under greater pressure of marriage.
Yan Shan, head of China Matchmaker Hangzhou Service Center. Com, which participated in writing this report, believes that the pressure of work and life is the main reason why men delay the appropriate marriage age.
Based on the survey data, the report believes that there is a big gap between men and women's expectations of marriage, so it is an unavoidable reality that there are problems in marriage and love.
Yuan Xin, director of the Institute of Population and Development of the School of Economics of Nankai University and a member of the Population Expert Committee of the National Population and Family Planning Commission, said yesterday that according to the survey data, among the population born in 1.98-2000, men were "more" than women by 333 1.000. However, Chen Shengli, former director of China National Family Planning Commission, denied the reliability of the figure of "30 million bachelors". "This figure is not accurate, it is purely false, and the media has exaggerated the facts." He provided a figure calculated by an "aerospace expert": By 2020, there will be 5010.5 million men in China who will die because of abnormal sex ratio, instead of 30 million.
Emphasize the traditional family concept, encourage young people of school age to get married and have children, and implement the AA system for men and women, such as buying a house and sharing it equally; It is conducive to solving the problem of leftover men and women. Gu Xiaoming, a professor at Fudan University, pointed out that the bachelor problem in China is closely related to the social security system. In his view, a "sound society" should play such a role: a young man of marriageable age has certain economic potential to form a family, especially to buy a small house.
Perhaps, in this context, the proposal of the richest man in the "two sessions" seems not so outrageous. Zong suggested building affordable houses for China families in all big cities in China. Zong believes that it is a serious social problem that young people in big cities in China can't afford to buy houses or can only rent houses because of the extremely high housing prices.
According to Zong's suggestion, young light workers or employees in China should be able to rent a two-bedroom house from the state, and the rent should not exceed 65,438+00% of their salary. After young people have saved enough money, the state should allow them to buy their own house in the form of 15 mortgage loan, and the monthly payment of the house should not exceed 20% of their income. Such measures can at least help some "leftover men" get rid of the word "leftover" in front.