In my freshman year, my father's partnership with others declared bankruptcy. Overnight, I went from a carefree "rich second generation" to a "negative second generation" with nothing.
On the night when I came back from my winter vacation, my mother told me that there was no money for me to go to college.
There are only two options before me: first, drop out of school, and second, work-study program. Our parents brought us up from childhood and trained several college students. It has been very hard every day. I have no right to complain about the situation at that time.
for the first time, I really think about my future. At that time, I didn't have a skill, outstanding ability, education and background. How could I break out in Shenzhen? I keep asking myself. For the future, I am full of confusion and fear for the first time.
people are alive, that is, they have to take a serious walk once to not waste this life! The longing for a better life in the future supports me to go on. I decided to continue to go to college on my knees. I can work part-time to earn tuition and attend classes at the same time. I believe I can control my own destiny. With this confidence, I went back to school and started a different life from many of my classmates.
Most of my classmates are locals, and they are really rich second generation. In such a group, I am doing something different from them. Every morning, when they just finished playing games and went to bed, I got up and brushed my teeth. Every night, when they finished washing and were watching movies for entertainment, I dragged my tired body back to the dormitory. At that time, in order to earn more money, I found many part-time jobs. At most, I worked four part-time jobs at the same time.
in this way, I rely on my own efforts to make my life not bad.
every path you have taken seriously will not be in vain. Now, I am actually very grateful to myself at that time, because the experience during that time made me really realize what persistence is and what independent thinking is.
In p>28, my father was involved in a serious car accident, which made this ruined family even worse. The pillar of the family's economy collapsed at once, and the family situation became very difficult.
the most painful thing in life is that you can't help your family when they need your help most. ?
from then on, I vowed to be a capable person. I don't want to be helpless when my family is in trouble.
I began to think about my job after graduation. I want to get ahead in Shenzhen, but like many college students, I am at a loss about my life direction and don't know what I can do.
I must first find my direction in life. How to get out of confusion? Only action. Everyone knows the truth, but many people still can't live a good life. Because many people know, but few people can do it. So, in my junior year, I kept going out to practice. I have worked in human resources, sales, statistics, machine assembly, and leaflets ... < P > After changing several internship jobs, I have more affirmations, and I am not as scared as before. Because I am more and more clear about my career orientation, I seem to have more and more confidence in the future. Perhaps, this is the benefit that keeps trying. ? Because I am not willing to live a mediocre life, in my senior year, I decided to start a business with my friends. I think entrepreneurship is the most suitable development path for me. Therefore, before I graduated, I took advantage of the 3, yuan I saved as a part-time job in college and started a tutor agency with a friend to provide tutors for junior high school students. In the early stage of your business, you didn't have any customer accumulation. You should look for both teacher resources and customer resources.
Every college student is full of ambition, but reality will always tell you that everything is not that easy.
because of lack of experience, I have an ideal, but I lack the ability and courage to realize it. Every time I go to find a customer, my heart is full of fear and I dare not talk about cooperation with others. In addition, my lack of self-confidence and leadership also made it impossible for my team members to realize my ideas with high quality as required. After persisting for half a year, we had to stop the operation of the team because of the shortage of funds.
but I soon pulled myself together. With this failure, I know that with direction, I still need ability and down-to-earth work to realize my dream. I know that eloquence, courage and interpersonal communication are the key elements of my career success, so I began to improve my ability in these areas through actions. A career, only with the ability, can it be done well, can it achieve results, and can it achieve professional success. Therefore, in order to improve my eloquence, I get up early every day to recite The Greatest Salesman in the World. When my roommates saw my state, they were frightened and thought I was possessed. Even in the most difficult economic times, I still try to save money to attend many training courses. I insist on training every day, which greatly improves my eloquence.
I also organize Shenzhen friends who are interested in speaking eloquence to speak outdoors every week. I have been to parks, squares and other outdoor occasions to give speeches. The strange eyes of others didn't make me flinch, but made me more eager to show myself in front of them.
it was a time of change. Because I have always known that if you want to live a different life from others, you must endure the sufferings that others can't stand and do what others dare not do!
When you get used to anyone's eyes, anyone's blows and speeches on any occasion, you will find that you gradually become confident. When you are confident, the world will make way for you.
Wang Shi once said that the strong make the discomfort comfortable. I always challenge my discomfort until it becomes my comfort. The "tossing" in college made me successfully get an OFFER from a famous domestic real estate company one month after graduation, and the position was a management trainee.
After joining this company, I started a fairly smooth career in human resource management. Choosing human resources work is the result of my constant attempts. And it finally proved that my choice was correct. Doing this job can give full play to my advantages and specialties, which makes me work harder and harder, my performance is getting better and better, and I am recognized by more and more leaders. After so many years of work, I still didn't give up the pursuit of growth, and gave all the weekend time to various trainings. So far, I have spent more than 1, yuan on various training courses.
when your choice is right, all your efforts will become an engine, which will make your development faster and faster!
after years of human resource management, I found that I would feel very happy after helping others find jobs. But every time you interview a candidate, you will inevitably feel lost. I see many people, all 35 years old, still changing jobs frequently and looking for junior positions, still struggling for food and clothing, and have no plans for the future. Especially after the annual school recruitment, I found that so many college students can't find jobs. So, I began to think about my future: I want to help more people.
With the money accumulated after work, after careful consideration, I decided to give up my previous job which had been steadily rising, return to the road of starting a business, and set up a career planning training institution which can help China people solve practical problems, so as to help more China people find their own life development direction, enhance their personal abilities, build a personal brand, and be confident and brave in live high. When I told this idea to my family and friends, many people were surprised, because they didn't expect me to start a business again. However, I just want to live the life that live high wants!