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Establishing a good interpersonal relationship between the same things for a reason is the basic guarantee for the normal and smooth work. Therefore, we need to pay attention to the following points:
1, punctuality
A person who is not punctual and keeps his appointment is often not trusted by others.
2. Respect superiors and old colleagues.
When talking to superiors and old colleagues, you should be measured and not too casual.
3. Distinguish between public and private.
It is forbidden to make personal phone calls at work, and it is forbidden to take public property for yourself or take it home for use.
4. Strengthen communication.
Work should be proactive, and colleagues should exchange needed goods and cooperate with each other.
5. Don't shirk your responsibilities.
If you make a mistake, you should take the initiative to admit and correct it, and you can't shirk your responsibility.
6. A serious attitude
Neglect is often caused by inadequate preparation and thinking. If there is something difficult to grasp, it is necessary to reconfirm.
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Do as you would be done by. This is the most fundamental requirement of empathy. Prophets of Islam must go through three levels when teaching children to speak, that is, every sentence must meet these three standards, otherwise they should not speak. The first hurdle is to ask yourself: Is this sentence true? Secondly, do I need to say this sentence? The third is, am I kind enough? I'm afraid I don't need to explain the meaning of these three levels. They refer to the methods, skills and attitudes of speaking. The third level is about empathy. When you do something wrong or encounter setbacks, do you expect your friends to say something comforting and encouraging, or do you want them to throw cold water on you? Maybe you will say: Isn't this nonsense? Who wants others to throw cold water on it? However, when you throw cold water on others, have you noticed that others have the same idea? In fact, many people didn't pay attention. Let's see what people are saying:
You are an idiot. How did you get such a score? Did the dog eat your brain? Why are you so stupid?
What are you doing? You always have a long face all day, as if someone owes you money!
Don't you have eyes? The road is so wide, you have to step on others' feet? ……
Almost everyone has been stabbed by such heartless words, but they stab others with the same words. This shows that everyone is concerned about the urgency of empathy.
Empathy comes from a broad mind, from a deep understanding of human nature, and from a broad love.
55 tricks of interpersonal relationship
1 The trick recognizes the meaning of life and the goal of going all out in life.
Why do you work so hard? Because you have to live up to your conscience.
If you want to be a master of interpersonal relationships, you must first confirm your values; If you connect this
If you are not clear, it is difficult to see through the meaning of life, let alone a sense of accomplishment.
The second trick lists five great achievements so far.
Knowing the other is wise; A bosom friend is a wise man.
The third trick is to know what expertise and resources you have that others urgently need.
God has given me the ultimate useful talent.
Whether your specialty comes from professional training or amateur exploration, it can be transformed into a strong "interpersonal relationship"
Kinetic energy ",don't sell yourself short.
The fourth move is to bid farewell to the days of the lone ranger.
Do you still want to compete for the first place in the subject like primary school students? Don't be silly. In this world, there are only team achievements, not individual achievements.
Performance, so there is no so-called "first place".
Say goodbye to your career as a lone ranger, and your life will change from black and white to color and start over.
Fifth, build self-confidence for yourself and help others.
Everyone has the ability to change the world, and you are no exception.
Take part in more activities, help others and help yourself.
Sixth, set short-term and long-term goals, review and revise them regularly.
Is the work plan useful? Yes, it can make a person have a fever for at least three minutes.
Setting goals can not only urge yourself, but also let others know what you need As long as you are diligent in saying goodbye
Communicate with others, then your friends will naturally know what difficulties you have, and then help you through the big network of interpersonal relationships.
Realize your dreams as soon as possible.
Seventh, draw a "network diagram" of interpersonal relationships to show your diversity and touch on this resource.
Angular depth
The characteristic of interpersonal network is that every member is the boss.
If you can keep the latest version of the interpersonal relationship diagram, it is not difficult to know how to use yourself at this moment.
As the protagonist, make good use of your interpersonal resources.
The eighth trick is to introduce yourself in a quite professional way.
On many occasions, your external image is far more important than your real ability.
The ninth trick is to introduce yourself concisely, appropriately and skillfully.
No matter what kind of social occasions, the first lesson in expanding interpersonal relationships is to learn to introduce yourself.
Try to win by surprise. Let the other person remember you firmly and remember a positive image.
10 trick to open the chatterbox skillfully.
Why do we often miss many opportunities to make friends? This is because we often put those prime time
I have racked my brains before, but I still can't squeeze out a suitable opening remark.
Whether it is active or passive, it is handy to open a chatterbox. Once it reaches this level, it's nothing.
Leaving you on any occasion, you can quickly enter the situation and expand your popularity at will.
In my life and career, I have created one excellent development opportunity after another.
When necessary, introduce yourself again.
If someone comes to meet you, it must be a big shot.
Practice "condescending" and introduce yourself frequently, and your interpersonal channels will be improved.
Will be wider and wider, will be more and more smooth.
12 recruits see their faces and remember their names.
People don't care how much you know about them, but whether you are listening carefully.
13 is good at being a competent host in social situations.
As long as there are human beings on the earth, there is no need to express your kindness.
14 recruits are willing to stand up and make a name for themselves.
You don't need to do anything to make yourself famous; On the contrary, it will help to realize your idea as soon as possible.
Recommend yourself moderately, let people know when they can ask you for help or make suggestions, so as not to make you English.
There is no room for men.
15 This trick is always treated with courtesy.
Even if life is short, it is more than enough to learn etiquette.
If you want to win by surprise, turn over and be the master. You don't have to go far, just practice your lines first.
16 business card must be a carefully designed work.
The role of business cards is to remind others that there are people like you in the world.
Your business card is a very important clue when others want to use interpersonal relationships to move reinforcements, so
Never design hastily.
17 Mobile carries enough business cards anytime and anywhere.
Before going into battle, check whether you are "fully armed".
18 trick only hand in your business card when the situation is right.
When you are sure you have something to say to each other, when the time is ripe, you should respectfully show your business card and ask each other to meet.
Only after contact and cooperation can the interpersonal relationship established on this solid foundation stand the test.
19 unique skill records the date and related matters on every business card received, which is convenient for sorting and checking in the future.
nucleus
When others don't know whether you care about them, it is impossible to care about you.
Don't be stingy to express your gratitude.
Successful people have one characteristic, that is, they are always grateful.
Treat all the friends who have supported you with gratitude, take the initiative to express sincere thanks, and take your time.
Slowly, you will find that not only your interpersonal relationship becomes stronger, but others will follow your example.
No.21trick, whether you know it or not, as long as it can inspire you, you should tell them sincerely.
Express gratitude
It really takes a lot of courage to replace jealousy with praise.
How do you feel when you get a reward for coming up with a great idea? Look at your heart.
Don't forget friends you know or don't know, as long as they can provide honest words or deeds.
Smile and say thank you. Make this a habit, not only for your career, but also for your life.
This concept will be rewritten.
The 22nd trick is to make timely phone calls, send small cards, and send small gifts to express gratitude to each other.
idea
As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.
To irrigate a tree, you need enough sunshine, water and nutrients to cultivate your interpersonal evergreen tree.
It depends on your continuous care, through phone calls, cards, gifts and other small links to care for this tree. Kexi
Never let it die of malnutrition.
The 23rd trick is to have your own special letter, card and note paper.
Writing letters by hand is more intimate and gives people a different feeling.
Want to build your own golden signboard? Want to establish a good professional image? Make a small investment and go to Yi Yin.
Some special stationery will make you feel more decent when you send it to customers, colleagues or friends.
The 24th trick is to accept others' thanks and help.
From whether a person is willing to accept others' thanks, we can get a glimpse of his interpersonal skills.
The 25th trick is to establish a systematic and effective interpersonal network.
Will be able to more effectively improve your operational efficiency in interpersonal relationships.
Why do some people get twice the result with half the effort and others get twice the result with half the effort? Because there is no discipline in doing things.
There is absolutely no outdated information on the business card.
If you don't have time to record new information every day, log in at least once a week to ensure the information.
The correctness and completeness of.
The 27th trick is to establish an effective time management system.
You may delay, but time will not. We can't ask for time delay to keep up with our pace, we can only try to catch up. ...
If you can control time, you can control everything.
Mind you, as long as you are willing to respect your own worksheet, others will not dare to arrest you for business trip.
Pity. Once time and resources are completely in your hands, it will be more than enough to rule the country and level the world.
Step 28 Check the work arrangement of the day in detail every day.
How do you know if you are getting closer and closer to success, or are you spinning around in circles? ..... the best way is to
Check once a day to see how the schedule is implemented.
If you pay the bill once a day, your psychological burden will not be so heavy, even if it is a huge project.
You can also feel the steady progress.
Twenty-ninth trick: Do what you can do today.
In fact, managing time is nothing, because every day is 24 hours. What you should worry about is how to solve it.
Thousands of people are going to eat this pie.
Never follow the example of a chronic doctor, or you will have to pay back the overtime until midnight.
I don't know. Don't abuse your notebook, don't delay things that can be solved on the spot, invisibly, your work efficiency.
It will naturally rise.
The 30th move must answer all calls within 24 hours.
If your business philosophy is "If you can put it off till tomorrow, you don't have to rush to do it today", then I'm afraid you will be finished in this life.
It's hard to get ahead.
Get into the habit of answering all calls within 24 hours, and you can ensure the information on your interpersonal network.
Information flow
3 1 Before picking up the receiver, think about what to say later. There are four ways to succeed.
Ladder: act carefully, come prepared, go forward bravely and stick to the end.
32. Refuse unnecessary socializing and entertainment.
If you waste time now, time will waste you in the future.
33. Make a plan before participating in social activities.
As long as everything is ready, you can still make a fortune even if your ancestors have no virtue.
The 34th trick is to actively seek the support of others.
You live in a harmonious society where everything exists, and it is not feasible to fight alone.
Most people are helpful, so as long as you think they won't help, give them one.
A chance to show.
When you open your mouth, you should state your requirements simply and clearly, and you can't show an aggressive attitude.
attitude
How are interpersonal networks pulled together? It's simple, when a man is willing to fight. When the other one is willing to get it, this paragraph
Marriage is formed.
Just seize the opportunity and don't forget to say, "By the way, who do you know?"
Personal ... "
If you ask, you will get it.
Next time you hit a wall, you might as well review whether your oral English can be improved. In fact, most
Many people are willing to help others. Don't close the door of opportunity easily.
Thirty-seventh, immediately know the suggestions made by others.
Otherwise, after three minutes of heat, everything will return to the original point. It's no use talking without practice.
38. Every time I chat with my friends, I can feel many benefits.
I'm afraid it's hard for people who know how to let nature take its course.
39. Actively participate in various non-governmental organizations.
By integrating into this big family, you not only created your own career, but also fulfilled the dreams of many companions.
boundless beneficence
When a group of people get together for the same purpose, interpersonal relationships sprout.
The 40th trick is to try to occupy a powerful position in the club.
Once you are promoted to a cadre, it symbolizes that you are a respected elder, not a person who just wants to come over.
A useless person who divides up resources.
4 1 is diligent in handling other people's requests for help through interpersonal networks.
The most praised thing in the circle is that everyone is a winner, because the fruits of victory belong to everyone.
If you want to have friends to help you when you are down and out, the best way to deal with it is to have more at ordinary times.
Make some investments.
Forty-two strokes, lift three feet with God and three feet with others.
How to cultivate self-confidence? It's simple, just pick what you're not good at ... as long as you can break through.
Be vigilant, boldly attack, and persist for a while, then you will inevitably feel like eating sugar cane backwards, getting better and better.
43. Always evaluate your network and expand it.
The establishment of interpersonal network needs persistence, not once and for all.
Rule 44: Trust your intuition.
Listen to your inner voice and you will get all the answers.
Unless you feel insensitive, there is no reason to ignore this voice from the bottom of your heart; let
It will guide you, let you grasp the situation as soon as possible and understand everything around you.
45 strokes will do their best to help every ally on the interpersonal network to rise step by step.
The maintenance of interpersonal network needs sincerity and patience.
You should cultivate your strength by supporting your allies, build a building on this solid foundation, and then create
The win-win situation is only a matter of time.
The forty-sixth trick is to provide first-class service to friends.
Even if you don't set foot in the service industry, there are still many opportunities to serve others.
First of all, you should put up your own golden signboard to let people in the interpersonal circle know that you are reliable.
In this way, they will be happy to make this kind of investment because they know that you will give back more in the future.
The forty-seventh trick is to like listening to friends' voices.
Normal hearing doesn't mean you will listen.
The art of listening is: listen to others patiently and don't listen wrong!
The forty-eighth trick is to have noble moral integrity and professional self-restraint.
If you don't say anything, there will be endless trouble.
Interpersonal relationships are useful, but never abuse them. As long as you treat people well, you can show a noble festival.
Fuck and professional self-restraint, even your sworn enemy will be impressed and admired by you.
The 49th trick is to face every opportunity of "combination" with an open mind.
The difference between a great man and a mortal is that the former can respect everyone, including a tramp with a poor appetite.
The 50 th move laid a huge "intelligence network", which was watertight.
A benevolent person who can make others famous will definitely go down in history.
When you become a tinkling figure, it means that you have more resources to invite others to share, such as
This "virtuous circle" continues. This is not good!
5 1 the trick is to use interpersonal network to cultivate yourself, benefit others, achieve career and change your life.
If you need a bridge between your public life and your private life to exchange what you need, it is your interpersonal relationship.
Network.
The 52nd trick is to keep thinking about networking.
This sword will rust and dull when not in use. If everyone can take advantage of interpersonal relationships as a habit, then
The face of the world will be completely changed.
Zhao is determined to be a model student with strong interpersonal relationships.
A master of interpersonal relationships will never regard the accumulation of resources as an ability, but will take the initiative to invite others to share it from time to time.
And encourage them to do the same.
The 54th trick is to arrest the whole world with the interpersonal network.
There are so many interpersonal networks in this world that almost everyone is connected by an umbilical cord.
The 55 th trick is to integrate interpersonal relationships into an indispensable part of life.
You live in a harmonious society where everything exists, and it is not feasible to fight alone.