Spend more time with people who are versatile and have good interpersonal relationships. They generally don't offend anyone, and even if you are bored, they won't stay away from you directly. You will be infected slowly.

In addition, don't speak ill of anyone on any occasion, there is no windtight wall in the world.

Besides, you should learn to compliment. Sometimes it is necessary to sacrifice some principles.

However, you can't live without principles, just saying that you should minimize the number of principles.

In fact, it looks beautiful to others, and only you know how lost you are.

Like me, I can't find my original straightforward self now, and I look at myself as this strange appearance. Are shrewd and scheming. I said I envy you, can you believe it?

If you have interpersonal problems, you can add QQ.

I don't know how to associate with others. What should I do?

There will be many firsts in life, such as the embarrassment of being left out, the trouble of being misunderstood, the pain of being betrayed, the indifference of the world that will be treated unfairly after entering the society, and so on. A relatively just society should still belong to the school. Only when you leave school and integrate into the society can you realize that what you are experiencing now is too trivial to ignore. In the process of growing up, everyone will have some small troubles, which is normal and necessary. As far as the parties are concerned, no matter how small the trouble is, it is also trouble in the eyes of others. Others can point fingers and talk about Kan Kan, but the parties feel "miserable" and wish to drill out the unbearable course. I can understand this feeling very well, because I am young and I have struggled from your mental state. Here I offer a little experience of "someone has been there", hoping to help you. 1, no matter how excellent and competent you are, you can't be relied on by everyone. Because as an individual, she does not exist independently. She needs to grow up, work, start a family, raise future generations, and maintain her family and society, and human strength is extremely limited. Her primary task is how to learn and master the skills of survival and life in adulthood when she is young, instead of letting independent people rely on her too early, thus losing their personality and becoming a person who looks like nothing and has learned nothing. You can get old, but you don't have to get tired of it. Only by physical and mental growth can we really help those who really need help. 2. Descartes said: I think therefore I am. When dealing with strangers for the first time, a smile is enough. If you don't have the desire to laugh, or don't take into account the "smile", it is completely normal. You are no one else, and you have no responsibility to satisfy everyone you may have dealt with. Even if you are an old acquaintance, you don't have to greet him deliberately. In other words, you don't have to please anyone, because you are a student. It is your duty to do your own study and help others as much as you can. And that's enough. If you are the kind of character who wants everyone to be harmonious, then you should be prepared for "lifelong" injustice. But you have to understand a truth: no one is perfect. Can you struggle and sigh all your life? If you can't stand it that day, what form will you explode? Your parents and relatives are bound by you. Do you want to see this scene? I feel that you don't want your life to be passive because of such a small matter. I believe that you will show your true colors in future interpersonal communication, be neither humble nor pushy, and don't give things you don't want to others, that's all.

Don't know how to get along with others. 10 point

Try not to go back all the time, and the relationship with roommates will not be so good after a long time. Be normal and try to be generous, but have your own principles.

Don't get along with others Don't know what to say.

Try to be kind to others, take the initiative to help others, and give love and sincerity. Even if you don't know what to say, it is also a kind of getting along and communication, and it is benign and beneficial to people, and others will reciprocate.

I don't know how to get along with others

Actually, it's not difficult. You are not worried, but introverted, which leads to your lack of confidence. To integrate into a new group, you just need to do these things well first.

First, you should learn to smile. Think for yourself, whether it is comfortable to see a smiling person or a hard face of a dead person.

2. As a country of etiquette, China should learn to say hello. No matter who you meet, you should say hello to the superiors in the company. Greeting any manager or anyone you often see is a bonus. Relatives, uncles and aunts are very kind when they call.

3. What about your lack of confidence? You can make up for it. You can do this and say to yourself in the mirror after getting up every day. I can do it. Yes, it looks silly, but it works. If you think what I said is not comprehensive enough, you can ask me to supplement it and pay attention to me. I'm glad to be the only one who thinks of others to answer questions.

I always don't know what to say or do when I get along with people.

First of all, you should know all kinds of people and learn to get along with others, which can help you avoid detours and succeed at an early date. In fact, if everyone wants to succeed, it is not enough to have a strong working ability. You must walk on two legs, not only trying to do your job well, but also dealing with interpersonal relationships. In fact, due to the differences in family background, education level, hobbies and ideas, we meet all kinds of people. If you know what kind of person the other person belongs to, suit the remedy to the case and improvise, communication will be much easier. Smith Tiger, a professor of public relations at Harvard University, summed up the types of people who get along in the workplace: selfless and kind people are often overlooked because they are really the kindest people in the world. They won't ruin your business, so you may ignore them or take them seriously. In that case, you are wrong. In fact, they are the friends you can really get along with. Without the judgment of friendship in the office, only these people will lose their meaning. Stubborn people are generally old-fashioned and stuffy, but they insist on making suggestions and opinions from the outside, being willful and self-righteous. It's hard to convince such a person with your glib tongue. You might as well come straight to the point and list some wrong practices in his work and life one by one, and remind him of the serious consequences in combination with the problems that need to be solved now. In this way, even if he resists you face to face, his heart begins to shake and doubt the correctness of his decision. At this time, you take the opportunity to put forward your own point of view, move with emotion, and make sense of it, so he is more acceptable. Arrogant and rude people are generally self-centered, conceited, and often assume a domineering and self-centered attitude, lacking self-knowledge. When dealing with such people or things, don't be condescending and arrogant. You just need to make a long story short and briefly explain what needs to be explained. If you ask him to do something, that's another matter. This expressionless person, even if you greet him politely, he will not respond accordingly. According to psychology, it's called deadpan. Just because he's expressionless doesn't mean he's not emotional. It's just that such people suppress it and don't show it. So, for this kind of person, you don't need to be angry, just keep saying what you want to say. At the critical moment, he will naturally use words to express his expression. Selfish people generally lack love and feel lonely. He always puts himself and his own interests first. If you want him to do something bad for you, it will be difficult for you to communicate with him. When you get along with this kind of person, you must pay attention to him from the heart and let him feel the warmth and value of emotion. This kind of rambling person lacks ideal and positive heart, leads a lazy life and lacks sex in work. Get along with this kind of person, only by challenging him to tap his fighting spirit. This kind of person is very defensive. I'm afraid you'll reveal his inner secret. In fact, this is a very low self-esteem performance. If you want to know his personality and psychology, you might as well sit with him and drink more wine to make him tell the truth after drinking. Slow-witted people generally think slowly and react slowly. It's ok to be friends with him, but it's not an ideal partner with him. At first glance, such people are quick-thinking and often make sudden decisions during negotiations. He lacks foresight and is prone to make wrong judgments. The best way to get along with him is to throw cold water on him often, so that he can keep a clear head and never make hasty decisions with emotions. People who are too confused are prone to schizophrenia, lack of concentration, low memory and insufficient understanding. Such people, like slow-heating people, are not ideal partners. But making friends, such people are very popular. It looks casual and generous. Housewives are not only women, but also some men are "women". This kind of person, as soon as he entered the office, told the people in the office in detail what happened at home last night until this morning. If there is really nothing to say, I will repeat last night's TV play with you. They know this army like the back of their hand. Parents Zhang and Li are short, working in their hands, and their mouths are not idle. When they meet a welfare, they will try their best to get close to themselves. This kind of person annoys you. When you are in a bad mood and hear them buzzing in your ear, you may wish you could scold them. But don't be angry, such people, take what they say less seriously, and don't listen to anything he says. Such people are less likely to speak ill of you at a critical moment. ......

Don't know how to get along with others.

Hehe, I'm just like you, but I don't care. I won't die without friends or anything. I can live well.

I don't know how to get along with others naturally.

Your wish is to make a good impression on others and have a place in the crowd.

But have you ever thought that when you haven't communicated with others, you have already positioned yourself in your mind. You care too much about what others think of you, and you always feel that others will speak ill of you. In fact, others are not so idle. They always aim at you everywhere, and the way you speak makes you feel perfunctory! I am a senior three this year, and I have friends, but I don't keep in touch often. I will contact them on vacation or something, but the relationship is still very good. Do you know why? I always open my heart, look into each other's eyes, keep my good mood with a smile, and sometimes give them a little kindness, whether material or verbal! You don't have to communicate with boys to communicate with people. Their energy is all on their girlfriends! ! You can find a girl with a cheerful personality. Since high school, I have been the target of many unsociable boys, because I have never regarded myself as a girl or a boy. When I talk to them, I am slowly guiding them, but there are still a few boys who are shy and will be slapped by me. I will monitor their eyes, whether they stand up, whether their voices are confident enough, and so on! !

Maybe my father is a soldier and I was born in the army. Later, my father was a policeman, so I was never raised as a girl. Henan province can still get along with me in character!

In my opinion, your problem is likable personality. There is a girl in my dormitory who has the same personality as you, but she came out slowly. You can't lower yourself before communicating with others! !

It is necessary for you to know yourself again and not be too negative.