Just entering the officialdom, choose to associate with friends, be careful. Making some honest friends, making some friends who can understand each other and making some knowledgeable friends will bring many benefits. If you make mistakes with some real villains who can be known at a glance without disguise, the harm will be less; If you make friends with a villain disguised as a gentleman, it will be a catastrophe. The inner world of these hypocrites is ever-changing, with different forms of expression: some are stubborn and unconventional, some are paranoid in their thoughts and actions, and some are narrow-minded and not broad and flat, such as thorns blocking the way; Some are vicious, poisonous insects like wasps and stingers, some are officials, and some are rich. Even if we hold high the "mirror of karma" that can reflect the good and evil of all beings, it is difficult to reflect all the incarnations of these hypocrites, because their sinister intentions are hidden deep, and their emergence and disappearance are unpredictable. However, what you can see is a hypocritical appearance, unlike those real villains, which can be seen at a glance. This hypocrite looks as beautiful as Kirin and Phoenix on the outside, but looks like a quotation on the inside. He likes making friends with people best, so you must be careful, son.

The original text of the classical Chinese "Xun Da Er": "When you first enter the world, you should be careful when choosing friends, and your friends should give you more advice. Making mistakes with real villains is still superficial; It is a terrible disaster to become a hypocrite by mistake. There are all kinds of people who cover up a hypocrite's heart: quarrelsome people, biased people, people who are as black as paint, people who are bent as hooks, people who are as prickly as thorns, people who are on the sword, people who are like bees, people who are now crowned and covered, and people who are rich. It's hard to see through the mirror. Because of unpredictable ups and downs for no reason, looking back at its shape, it is all true, and you don't need to know whether it is a real villain. Moreover, these people who hide ghosts in the forest like to make friends with others, and they are very cautious. "

Ji Xiaolan told his son clearly in his family education that he should be cautious in making friends, think twice before you act, and don't make bad friends. From the beginning, the article analyzes the appearance and performance of true villains and hypocrites, pointing out that true villains are easy to distinguish and the harm is relatively small; Hypocrites, on the other hand, have different forms, appear and disappear for no reason, which is extremely confusing, so it is not easy to identify, so it is very harmful. Pay special attention to people like hypocrites to avoid being cheated. Therefore, to make friends, we should make "straightforward friends, trusted friends and friends who listen more", that is, we should make honest people, trustworthy people, well-informed people and friends who can treat each other sincerely.

Classical Chinese "Xun Da Er" Ji Yun, whose name is Xiaolan (i.e.) and whose name is Chunfan, was a late Taoist priest and was born in xian county, Zhili (now Cangzhou, Hebei). A university student in Qing Dynasty has been galloping in the officialdom for nearly 50 years. He was a politician and writer in Qing Dynasty and an official in Qianlong period. Li Guan went out of the capital as the suggestion, and the Ministry of War, the Ministry of Rites, the co-organizer, the university student and the Prince of Taibao were in charge of imperial academy affairs. He was the editor-in-chief of Sikuquanshu. He presided over the compilation of Sikuquanshu, and was a literary leader in the Ganjia era. His letter to Xun Daer was praised by later generations.