Many people are full of envy for this transnational marriage between China and Japan, but while marveling at the romance of love, they ignore the ups and downs behind the story. Due to the differences in culture and marriage concepts, as well as the different purposes of starting a family, Japanese housewives in Japan staged a tragicomedy in their marriage, and the transnational marriage between China and China was not as romantic and sweet as we thought. Many Japanese housewives' experiences in Japan tell us that transnational marriage cannot be sustained by "love" alone.

Recently, the reporter visited Tokyo 10 China housewives. Although they are satisfied with their marriage as a whole, some frictions with their Japanese husbands still make them obviously feel very different from their husbands in their views on marriage.

Integration into social life is also an important aspect of the conflict between women and their husbands in China. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two social groups. The best marriage is to blend in and identify with each other's circles. However, due to the different cultures and concepts between China and China, it is difficult for Japanese housewives in Japan to live in harmony with their in-laws.