1. If a man wants to ask a girl out on the grounds of organizing activities, then you can tell her that there are many people, and everyone will organize a party together. You should take part in all those people, and these people are all familiar to her; She won't refuse you in this way, and she will be happy to attend; Because nowadays, girls like to play very much. As long as they go to play, she generally won't refuse. Second, in order to have something to help in life, everyone will meet the time when they need help; Generally speaking, people who are asked for help are embarrassed to refuse; So a man, when you want to ask a girl out, you can ask her to help you on the grounds that you have something to do; Find a reason for her to help, even if she doesn't want to go out, she will be embarrassed to refuse you. Third, I want to please a woman on the grounds of showing my cooking skills and make her happy! Then you can tell a woman what you have learned to cook recently and want to show her your cooking skills. Under normal circumstances, she will go out to see you in order to try your cooking; But when you talk about cooking, you must be very distinctive, otherwise you won't attract her and make her want. Fourth, on the grounds of promotion and salary increase, in life, many people, when they are promoted and raised, will think about celebrating; At this time, generally speaking, a few friends will be invited to have a good time; So if you want to ask a girl out, you can celebrate with her on the grounds of promotion and salary increase, and in her heart, she will be very happy and extremely happy. Fifth, to attract girls' interests in general, every girl has her own hobbies; Such as fitness, skating, singing, dancing and so on; So at this time, if men want to ask girls out, they can attract girls according to their interests and hobbies; Ask a girl to play something she likes, and girls will be particularly interested; As long as you have an appointment, she will generally not refuse you; I will definitely meet your wishes and meet you tomorrow. Sixth, start with thanking girls. In life, if a girl helps you do something, no matter how big or small it is, you can take thanking her as the starting point and ask her out to see you. You can buy a gift, a gift that a girl likes, and tell her that you want to give it to her to express your gratitude; Under normal circumstances, girls will definitely meet you if they refuse a few words; Because you thank her, not love her, and give her a gift, she is not easy to refuse. Seven, to attract each other with food in life, for eating, every woman likes it; So if you want to ask a girl out, you have to think of a place where there are many delicious things; You can attract girls with delicious food, let her feel the taste of delicious food and the desire to eat; Then she will definitely go out to see you and taste the most beautiful feeling with you. Eight, looking for a girl as a staff member, a man, you want to ask a girl out, you can tell the girl that you are going to buy clothes, but you don't know how to match it will be more beautiful; You tell her that you want to ask her to be a staff officer, and her heart will definitely have a sense of existence; I think she has good taste, and I think you respect and admire her very much. Naturally, I won't refuse to meet you. Nine, it is normal for men and women to watch movies in their lives on the grounds of the release of new movies; So if you want to ask a girl out, you can find a film that has just been shown. Say how beautiful it is and ask the girls to enjoy it with you; It's best to find the movies that girls are most interested in, so that the chances of her going to the movies with you will be very great. Ten, a man on the grounds of dropping by, if you want to ask a girl out, you can walk to the girl's door; Then tell the girl that you just arrived at her door because of something; Tell her to come out and sit down, have a cup of milk tea and have a snack; Generally speaking, she won't refuse you when you are at her door. This is the minimum respect. The first routine of asking girls out is to watch movies. This is not to say that you have to go to the cinema. Nowadays, many classrooms in universities can watch movies for free. Whether there is a suitable movie or not, you can try it and invite the girls you like to watch movies together. The second is that you have no chance to create opportunities, borrow things from girls, especially books. If you borrow other things, you can play freely. The third is to go out to play. In college, weekends are relatively free. If there are good scenic spots around, you can invite a freshman to visit this place. Fourth, take part in some activities. If you meet some festivals, you can always invite your goddess to participate. Fifth, if you have any skills and expertise, you can take the initiative to invite your favorite girls to teach him, such as roller skating and table tennis. You can treat yourself as a scum, invite your favorite girl to give you a lecture, and then invite your favorite girl to dinner after the lecture, so you have more opportunities to get in touch. The seventh one, whether it's your birthday or her birthday, is a good opportunity to show off. If you can come out to play together, you have a better chance of success. The routine of asking a girl out 3 How to ask a girl out 1. Judging whether she is in an emotional window period means not only that she doesn't have a boyfriend, but also that she doesn't have a man she likes. Generally speaking, a girl in an empty window period is very easy to ask out. At this time, the girl's emotional state is blank. If she is just bored, she will basically promise you when you send an invitation. Now that you can invite girls to date, it's half the battle. Before, one of my colleagues had been asking a girl out, and she couldn't even ask out, which was a hundred thousand miles away from success. I told him a secret book-Yun Kun Ji Ji Bao Dian, so that he could learn the method of falling in love well. After that, it was more than 1 days, and he successfully invited two younger sisters to dinner for three days to express his gratitude. In fact, I was very gratified. If you have a brother who also wants to take off the bill, you can learn to improve your love thinking, which is available online. You can find it by looking it up. 2. Judge her condition When you invite a girl, you are likely to encounter some unexpected situations. For example, she can't come temporarily, and she suddenly doesn't want to go out. Therefore, before inviting, you should find out her status and see if she is suitable for dating. After you make a simple judgment, decide whether to invite. 3. Fuzzy Invitation If you can't judge whether a girl is willing to date you, you can use fuzzy invitation to test it. Fuzzy invitation means that you tell her that you have plans to date her and see if she is willing to date you. For example, you say: Next time you come out for afternoon tea, you just tell her what you think and see how she answers you. If she shows willingness, you can formally invite her next time. 4. Catch the signal that she wants to ask you out. Sometimes, a girl actually wants to ask you out, but she usually doesn't tell you directly. She gives you more hints. For example, she may say: I'm hungry. When she keeps stressing this sentence, she just wants to have dinner with you. If she repeatedly tells you which movie she wants to watch, she just wants to invite you to watch a movie, so be sure to catch this signal. How to make a date invitation 1. Learn to expect management when dating. Many boys think that dating must be very formal. If you give a girl a feeling, the next date will be a very formal process. She will subconsciously look at you with a formal standard and have very high expectations for you. If you just have a little problem, she will deduct points from you. But on the contrary, you told the girl in advance from the beginning that this is just an ordinary meeting, just to know a friend, so she won't have too high expectations for this process and won't be very demanding of you. Maybe she originally scored six points for the whole date, but you added one point to her by moving the chair like a gentleman, one point to improve the meal in advance, and one point to give her a napkin and other small things. In an environment with low expectations, it is easier to give you extra points. 2, grasp the home advantage, you ask girls, of course, you need to control the home. For example, you often come to this store, and you are familiar with this store, so you can choose to bring your sister to this store. Because of familiarity, you will appear more natural and confident. Even if something unexpected happens here, you can always deal with it, instead of being more flustered than girls when facing problems, so as to show girls your reliable side. 3. Sort out the dating process in advance. You invite girls to eat. Is it just a program to eat? Of course not. You should have an idea of what you need to do from meeting to parting, especially when you meet a girl for the first time. It is inevitable that you will feel strange when you meet for the first time. No matter you or he, once you can't eliminate this strangeness, your future activities will only be more embarrassing. * * * Doing the same thing together will easily bring the two sides closer. For example, if we go to clip dolls together and play billiards and bowling together, the key is not whether we have a good time, but whether we are happy or not, and whether two people are involved in this process. The wrong invitation must be avoided. 1. After talking about the opening remarks, the invitation is made in less than ten sentences. 2, the other party has been giving you a reply "Oh, hehe" or an IOD with an expression, and you still insist on choosing an invitation. 3, do not understand each other's preferences, blind invitation. (She likes watching movies, so you have to take her for coffee. 4. When inviting, you need to be exposed too much, for fear that the other party will not agree, and send a lot of words to persuade the other party to come out. (the result can only be counterproductive. 5. The invitation time is not well chosen. (For example, if you want to invite a girl to dinner at night and don't go until four or five o'clock in the afternoon, if you don't give the other party time to prepare, you are likely to be rejected immediately. 6. Persistent invitation. Many friends have the firm will not to give up until they reach the Yellow River, not to hit the south wall and not to look back. After being rejected by a girl once, continue to make an appointment the next day, be rejected again, and make an appointment the third day. Until it was blacked out. Precautions for chatting with your sister 1. Don't talk every minute. It seems that I have nothing to do but chat. It is of low value and my sister can feel it. 2, don't be too arrogant, deliberately cater to the sister. Many brothers are very principled in the face of low scores, and they can stick to their own framework when speaking, but they are completely panicked in the face of high scores. For example, I really didn't expect you to reply to me. I thought you wouldn't talk to me anymore. Hello, goddess. What is the goddess doing? You are so beautiful. I don't feel worthy of you. And so on similar low-value language. These low-value languages will make my sister feel that you are not from the same world as her. Originally, my sister didn't think of herself as a beautiful woman, but under the contrast of these languages, my sister thinks that she is a beautiful girl and you are a low-scoring man circling around her.