For example, do you dare to smash other people's cars when you walk alone in the street? Of course not. But a large group of people get together and smash it if they want, which is lawless.
First, the crowd distracts your responsibility, but most importantly, the crowd can cover up your independent personality. In the crowd, you are not someone, you are just a member of the group. ..
The same is true of making friends with people far away. It is meaningless for him to make friends with people so far away. You are just a distant person, and he doesn't even know if your name is true or not. So there is no pressure for you to say anything to him. But once you meet, you can't hide your independent personality, which may be a bit embarrassing.
Besides, you said that you don't have many friends around, and you like to make friends with introverts. Probably because introverts seldom hurt people, while extroverts like to joke, which sometimes hurts your self-esteem, because you know, humor is nothing more than expressing harmless ridicule, either laughing at others or laughing at yourself.
Introversion and sensitivity have certain genetic factors, of course, they can also be changed through acquired, but in fact this is not an absolute bad thing. There is no need to change. There are not many friends, but the friendship between a gentleman and a gentleman is as light as water. In addition, people always have fewer friends than they think, but they know more. Maybe someone who doesn't talk to you much appreciates you.
If you especially want to communicate with someone you can't get along with, you can try "prepare more, prepare again, and let nature take its course". Just think about what you want to say to each other in advance, forget it when it's really time, and just do what you want.
If you don't like someone and are embarrassed to criticize him in person, think more about why he did it, and you will be comfortable after thorough analysis.