You have said so much, I feel that this woman is taking advantage of your infatuation with her, cheating you of your money, and terminating her relationship in time to prevent you from getting deeper and deeper. The money you spent on her is probably hard to get back. Suggest that she pay back the money or call the police. If you can recover a little loss, you can recover a little. Remember to make friends seriously in the future and sum up the lessons, that is, you must know more about each other's personality when making friends.