First, there are many topics. When we are looking for the other half, we can't find anyone very different from us. We all want to find someone who has no topic with me and has a similar pace of life. Only by living with such people can there be many topics. Otherwise, when two people are chatting, there will be no * * * topic. This kind of life will make both of them feel bored and will not come to the end in the end. People in the system go to work every day and are in contact with people in the system. We have a lot of * * * topics together. So they think that finding a colleague to fall in love can make their life more exciting, and everyone has their own resources within the system. After two people are together, they can use each other's resources to make each other better and better.
Second, people in the system are more arrogant. Most people in the system are politicians. After years of study, these people found a decent job after graduation, and they were all a little proud. These people think that no matter how successful they are in their careers, they don't deserve themselves, so they will find someone who works in the same system as themselves and think that only such a person can deserve themselves. I have a brother who is in the system. When dating, he will think that even the best people are not worthy of himself, so he will choose the marriage partner who works in the system like himself. His situation also represents the state of most people in the system.
People in the system usually work together for a long time, and these people will gradually develop feelings because of long-term exchanges and finally decide to be together. Because their friends are very narrow, they can only find their other half within the system.