●Encountering friends by chance is actually a kind of fate. When grandparents take their children in the car, when they go for a walk, or on the way out, they always meet some cute children of similar age. At this time, parents should encourage their children to take the initiative to say hello to those children, so that the children can exercise their communication skills and their awareness of taking the initiative to interact with others. Maybe the child will be a little timid and shy at first, but after a few times, the child will be able to take the initiative to contact the children generously, and even have a lively fight with the children. It is also a good way to let your children seize this opportunity to speed-match with a friend to practice their communication skills.

●Don’t criticize your children harshly. Some children who are more introverted may not like to talk when facing strangers. If this is the case, parents do not need to be harsh on the spot, let alone scold their children for not taking the initiative to communicate with children. You must know that there is a step-by-step process for children to make friends. After the children become familiar with each other, they can then guide the children to take the initiative. Say hello to others in front of you. If the child is put into a bad mood as soon as they meet, otherwise the friendship this time will be meaningless.

●Guide children to make the right friends. Children who grow up under excessive care from their parents often only want to take without giving, which is precisely the root cause of children's difficulty in getting along well with others. If a child has problems making friends, grandparents should observe the child's performance in interacting with peers and find out the reasons. They should also understand the child's feelings and let the child think about what causes the differences between peers and him and guide him. Children take the initiative to solve problems. Grandparents should teach their children to be sincere, introspective, seek common ground while reserving differences, and treat their friends with understanding and tolerance. They should also tell their children that when interacting with others, they should first respect the differences between others and themselves. Taking more into consideration of other people's feelings is a prerequisite for winning others' favor towards you.

●Treat children's social pain. Losing a good friend is a very sad thing. This sad thing happens to each of us. When a child loses a good friend, grandparents should try their best to help the child deal with the pain of being alienated by a good friend, so that the child can accept and face it calmly. Grandparents should help their children adjust their mentality as much as possible and get out of the shadows as soon as possible. They can use other methods to attract their attention so that they will no longer be immersed in the pain of losing their friends.