Most of the pain in life occurs when you feel that your ideas are easily denied and you deny yourself. I am an introvert and like to take care of other people's emotions

I am a very perceptive person. I have had a habit since I was a child and like to share my things with others. So I like to share my own things, and I will try to talk about interesting things with the people I share with. I feel that the process of being with others is not boring. It is not like watching a TV series where I am bored the whole time and all my energy has to be on the TV series.

I don’t like chatting with people who have nothing to do with me. I am a person who needs the outside world. When studying, I especially like to pay attention to the emotional changes of others. You will unconsciously pay attention to every move of others, and then in turn comfort yourself: What's wrong with others? Aren't they all fine? Why don't others like me? Why don't you understand me? I like to observe the people around me.

I will consciously or unconsciously observe the other party's actions and their thoughts, and then try to figure them out, so that I will try to figure out something in my heart in every action I take. I will pay attention to the people around me, and I will ask others about their doubts, so that I will try to figure out some things that I may not understand.

So, I am a person who pays great attention to other people's emotions. Although I am considered a very indifferent person, I think this is a kind of human feeling, indifference, and it doesn't matter. I think that when I don't pay attention to the people around me, no one should care about me. I don’t like falling in love very much either. What does this have to do with me? When I was growing up, I met several of my best friends. They are all my best friends in life. When I meet my friends, I cherish them very much. I will thank these people for helping me become a better person. These friends who accompany me make me a better person. I have certain feelings for these friends. Being introverted and sensitive makes it difficult for me to make friends

Later on, when I interacted with my friends, I still enjoyed interacting with them, and I still cherished their kindness to me. They taught me something and led me to a better life. I learned some good things from my interactions with them. I have a habitual aversion to these good things. When these things become a habit instead of becoming an aversion, I will have a bad person, a kind of aversion, right?

A feeling I had at that time. Because I feel like they interact with me too often. To me, none of them have a very important status or role. I'm disgusted. Later, when I interacted with these people, and as they came and went, I realized that in fact, every friend, even the best friend, is destined to be here. Him and a friend. They are actually no different. He just doesn't know how to manage relationships. In fact, my previous experience tells me that I think so too. I always feel like others want to talk to me.

Actually, sometimes people really care about me, but I think they don’t know how to take care of my emotions. Sometimes I feel that I am an introvert. I treat others as friends, but others treat me as enemies, or even treat me as an enemy. In other words, I actually don’t know how to treat others, and I don’t know how to be considerate of others.